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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/15/2009 7:24:39 PM | | If I didn't, I wouldn't be on here. Reading "where have all the good ones gone to?" if someone writes that tells me about them that they must be either immature, in denial (of half the population!), or a blame layer who isn't willing to take responsibility for their own choices | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/16/2009 10:33:51 PM | Hi OP,sure there are lots of good men out there,along with lots of good women but unfortunately for most people it all comes down to looks so unless someone can see beyond how someone looks then being a good man or lady counts for very little.sad but true.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/17/2009 2:59:21 AM | yer there is but the girls are blinded by the looks and mony and carnt c the sh$t that they get put though, and then when a good bloke comes a long, the girls are to f#$ked up or at least that is there excuse for the way they tret the larger man or the not so good looking man or the one that has to works his ass off to just make enouff mony,  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/24/2009 1:30:39 PM | I've never been able to find any woman's definition of a "good man." Sometimes, I read little blurbs women write about how they should be treated by men:
To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because that's how he rolls.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her. ....
To every guy that she cried in front of...
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
To every guy that would give his seat up...
To every guy that just wants to cuddle her.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.
Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...
And invariably, women fawn over such pieces and say, "Aww, so sweet! That's the man I want!"
But the sad reality is, even though there are more men than not who would do exactly these things (standing right in front of their faces), most women won't accept them because of the smallest, most miniscule details that don't fit her laundry list of criteria. Like he's 5' 6", and she wants a guy who's at least 5' 8". Or he's got a few extra pounds, and she wants a guy who works out. Or, he doesn't make at least $75,000 a year. Or, he's not otherwise EXACTLY what she's always been looking for. She wanted that guy she could show off to her friends. She just knows she won't ever settle for less, god forbid.
There are thousands of unattached, "good" men out there, i.e., not cheaters, selfish azzholes, married and looking, etc. While most women in their 20s were marrying jerks and having babies, good guys were working on their careers, going to school, making something of themselves. And now, those women who have divorced the hot guys they thought they could change are here asking, "Where are all the good men?"
To every woman who's ever asked this question, I suggest that all you have to do is take off your rose-colored glasses and come down to earth. Lots of good men await you, but you have to accept that they may not be that vision of perfection you've desired since you were little girls.
Or, you can be bitter and keep dating jerks, complaining about how there are no good men left. Whichever. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/24/2009 1:37:42 PM | | Many of us cannot seem to find the good men, and we are not looking for perfection. It seems as if the good men like the women who use and abuse them, and reject the good women. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/24/2009 5:31:04 PM | I think all of the good ones are spoken for or married. I am 38 and finding all of the ones on clearance (the ones no one wants).
Every one I seem to meet just want to come over and I know what they want. They are not coming over to lift their leg, sorry. I want a respectful man, not another dog. I have a dog, if I wanted another I would go to the animal shelter. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/24/2009 7:05:37 PM | I`m going to find myself a girl
Who can show me what laughter means
And we`ll fill in the missing colors
In each other`s paint-by-number dreams
And then we`ll put our dark glasses on
And we`ll make love until our strength is gone
And when the morning light comes streaming in
We`ll get up and do it again
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