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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/5/2009 4:45:53 PM |
See ya in 6 months....max! You may be right, you may not be. We don't even know each other. It's interesting that you seem to take delight in my potential loss. I'll take that bet. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/5/2009 5:01:43 PM | Yes, I do believe that there are some good men left...and it'd be really nice if someone told us where they left them...
We don't even know each other. It's interesting that you seem to take delight in my potential loss.
^^^ relish in your newly found amore' Cynthia and take no notice of this kind of blather...the potential for loss comes more quickly to those expecting it..... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/5/2009 5:30:51 PM | Lambent: If we gave up the hope, why keep searching? Your question was "Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?" Of course. But is there one "out there" that's dancing to the music I hear? I think so .....
Cynthia!: the best to you young lady ........ | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/19/2009 8:29:49 PM | I believe I'm one of them. I feel that I don't have money , job title, or male model. But I have the patience , listening skills, the ability to work at the relationship with an open mind. I'm healthy. Love to work around the house for the lady such as fixing plumbing, painting, landscape, and carpentry. I'm polite and mannerly and don't do cass things around a lady. I was told to repect the woman even if she doesn't accept you. If this is what the ladies want I'm here if they want the bad boy imagesI'm out!  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/19/2009 8:48:00 PM | | Yes, i believe so.....what i thought was important 20 years ago, sure isn't important now... and what the hell did we know when we were 20 anyways......i got rid of my "check list" and you know what......there he was......amazing......... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/19/2009 10:57:28 PM | | There are good men, there are not-so-good men. There are good women, there are not-so-good women. The problem is that it's not just a matter of finding a good man....you have to find *the* good man. The one that makes you whole. That's not so easy. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/19/2009 11:19:57 PM | ^^^ I'd settle for three quarters...............;)
absolutely, there are tons of good men left...and more on route daily.....:)
unless they've stopped making good guys and I missed the memo...? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/20/2009 12:40:00 AM | | Seems to be the most common headline for women in my search results. The question does get old quick. I'd like to think I'm a good man, but that isn't up to me to decide. Of course there are good men left. I'm going to enjoy reading through 39 pages looking for those nuggets of wisdom. The definition must be in there somewhere. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/20/2009 1:09:16 AM | | there are plenty of good men. I think the question is better asked is there any men that fit your definition of a "good man". Everyone has different characteristics in a person so what may be a good man to one may not fit that of another. If you don't believe me just look at other posts where you will read many different responses as, "I wouldn't date a man/women who..." and a different poster for the same post will write "I like men/women who..." or "I don't mind men/women who...". | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/20/2009 8:56:46 AM | Being perfect (...not just autonomously perfect, but in the sense of "they're perfect for me ) ...... leaves out the human element.
..... the word "The", before anything, usually refers to something in an absolute. I don't want "The" perfect girl. Even if she exists, she'll probably swat me away, because I don't look a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way, behave a certain way.
In short, perfection seeks itself. That's why it's fruitless [ B-A-N-A-N-A-S], to seek "perfect" or "perfect for you".
Suppose some guys just quit ? I've been thinking about that a lot. Y'know. They check out on the whole thing entirely. They get tired of hearing, "good........ but not good enough"."close....but not close enough". "First place for effort, Second place for success". I don't think cosmo covered that in their latest issue.
...........But, uh..... 8 "dangerously delicious" sex ideas made the cut, huh ? LMAO.
I'm not swerving the conversation in another direction. I'm just trying the question from different angles [....I know. That's what she said. ]
Having said that, I do believe there are some good men left. The question I pose, is not wether they're there or not, but what do you do when you've defined one [PROPERLY] , and he's missing a few things on your list of relationship "requiems" ?
Pay attention, or shoot it to the floor with your laser-mounted bayonette. At the end of the day, I'm one fish among millions. what do I know ?
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/20/2009 9:21:47 AM | | "Good" means different things to different women. I try to be nice...with an aggressive sexual edge. It seems to be what women want. I'm not as good-looking as some, but I'm better-looking than others, so I'm middle-of-the-road, which helps me and hinders me. And, if I were rich, I'm sure that'd help me more, but I can tell when a woman is merely into my money--if her passion isn't there, I'll bail. Not going to settle for a lazy girl/sugar daddy situation. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/20/2009 10:26:35 AM | I was thinking about this last night not knowing that there is this thread.
The way I see this is, have you notice that nice(good) people are always persuing the "don't give a damme " and play hard to get type, treat them mean to keep them keen mind games? Why the opposite always attracts? Good guys into bad girls and good girls into bad boys? This is a confused world. But still I believe that there are good people here and everywhere. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 2/20/2009 11:12:37 AM |
It would be interesting if these women could answer how they are better than most of the male population as they think there are not many decent men.
Male chauvinism is totally condemned in society and it’s still complained about loud and clear at this day. But when it comes to female chauvinism, hardly anyone reacts over it or they turn a blind eye to it.
I just don’t understand that many people can’t see the whole picture of how disturbing it really is. Women have been the biggest complainers towards chauvinism for generations but now they are the biggest offenders of chauvinism and this is a perfect example. We have a generation of women who actually think they are better than men because of their gender. But all of this gets taken so lighty…why?
Why is it socially acceptable for a woman to express that most of my gender are crap people, yet if men were to think this negative about women, they would be evil misogynist who everyone would laugh at.
When will today’s women ever stop being shameless hypocrites?
Because the commodity of the vagina is worth far more than gold. While men sell their souls for riches, they gladly do the same for the vagina as well as give up their balls. | |
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