| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/20/2009 12:07:57 PM | No they don't exist anymore.
Depends on what your defitinion of that is.
To some its chivalry and opening up the door.
To others its paying for a meal.
For others its being cordial.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/20/2009 2:38:54 PM | | Yeah I think there are some good ones left, and think that alot of them have been through bad marriages or relationships and are a little more leary of just jumping into relationships, especially if they are older. Most don't want the drama that sometimes comes with women, plus they are more set in their ways. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:19:06 PM | | Yes I do. Just a matter of "him" finding "me". There is good in bad in both genders. I am also fine if I am alone in life, I am very happy and do very well for myself. There are excellent men out there. :) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:30:49 PM |
...plus they are more set in their ways.
You make that sound like a bad thing. What if those ways are good? What if they're good precisely because no woman's been around to complicate and mess things up, which they have a distinct tendency to always do eventually?
Because the commodity of the vagina is worth far more than gold...
Depends on how much of each you're talkin' bout. There are toxic assets, and then there are appreciating assets. Why would anyone trade the one for the other? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/20/2009 8:49:10 PM | | For sure there are: They were just blocked by the big wall of religions, race, looks and Money; They composed hate and the big wall ... Take the story of the guy name Dahma, in Wisconsin, USA he ate human...Jack the ripper kill women, prostitutes... I am glad I follow Buddha's compassion and karma life! Diamond needed to be mined ladies they will not show in the nature may be it shows but very rare! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 8:52:52 AM |
Depends on how much of each you're talkin' bout. There are toxic assets, and then there are appreciating assets. Why would anyone trade the one for the other?
Seeing how women age, they're definately a depreciating asset. Making me wonder how smart men are throwing all their money, soul and their balls at an asset that will be worth less in 20 years. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 9:08:22 AM | | Good men see a woman as appreciating with time, not depreciated. They stand firm on their committment to love, honor, and cherish her (if they are married to her or committed to her), and know that her appearance may change, but so does his. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 9:17:32 AM | Seeing how women age, they're definately a depreciating asset. Making me wonder how smart men are throwing all their money, soul and their balls at an asset that will be worth less in 20 years.
LOL! I think that this comment would apply to both some men and women. I have to wonder the same though, especially with certain men and women.
Then again, some people are a depreciating asset as soon as they become a supposed "adult".... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 10:01:04 AM |
LOL! I think that this comment would apply to both some men and women. I have to wonder the same though, especially with certain men and women.
Then again, some people are a depreciating asset as soon as they become a supposed "adult"....
Well...Hamlet's grave digger went to work for him the day he was born so in a way, we're all depreciating from birth if you wanna get technical.
My comment was meant to entertain and poke fun. Thanks for seeing that rather than me be intentionally malicious. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 11:36:46 AM |
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Answer honestly.
Yeah...but they're all probably on some remote Island where none of the good women like me would ever find them. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 11:55:19 AM | This thread is one reason I like the forums so much. No matter how polished one's profile is, you can see the real attitude here. I can't comprehend why a hetero woman would be on a dating site who doesn't believe there are any good men left, or hetero man on a dating site if he doesn't believe there are any good women left. At least in the forums you make yourself known so people like me knew who to avoid. Wonder why you don't get replies to your emails? NEXT!
OTOH, the 'right' answer to this question is
What a silly thread. Of course there are.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/21/2009 3:33:17 PM |
I can't comprehend why a hetero woman would be on a dating site who doesn't believe there are any good men left, or hetero man on a dating site if he doesn't believe there are any good women left.
Well, I'm looking for a bad woman. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/22/2009 1:26:43 AM |
What a silly thread. Of course there are. CynthiaM
Wow. A lawyer with heart. Of course I check out the non-cynical ladies. The forum is *so* useful that way. Not surprised that you caught your limit.
Yes, there are great guys out there, and great ladies. It really isn't hard to find them. Just have to use a little creativity sometimes. Or the salesman's approach of knocking on a lot of doors. Just don't expect us good guys to be *easy*. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/22/2009 4:50:53 PM | Depends what you call a good man, but it seems to me the 'treat um mean etc' works going by what ive seen. See wimin will always be attracted to brawn, it never fails. The tougher you are, the more attractive you become, then they wonder why they come second to 'the lads' or 'his car' or the dreaded,'someone else'. If a bloke is quiet,he doesnt get noticed, if a woman is, everyone want's to talk to her. I think a 'guy' is 'one of the lads' & mr average, or different, & doesnt fit generally. I dont beleive in 'mr' or miss' perfect & think who ever you land with your going to find something to argue about, so my advice to anyone who's fed up with mr or miss typicle, try a different field. A good partner to me isnt miss 'fun' or the dreaded 'popular' it's someone who is open to compramise, no obsession's(except each other) . See if a bloke is typicle then he.s average, if he's not, he's boring, it depend's if one is looking for an 'hard knock' or a romantic. The good thing about web dating is at least there sober & you can talk to them as long as you like before meeting them, the downside though is theres so many, people keep trying to find 'the dream partner', their not going to differ that much honest, it's a 'trial and error 'thing . So instead of just going by the profile, be a bit more open minded and meet a few more people, my method is the more you meet , the more chance you give yourselves. They say 'the way to a mans heart is through is stomach' i think the way to a womans is 'make um laugh' . So there you go thats my theory, 'have a go, youl never know', all it needs is compramise. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/22/2009 5:46:50 PM | | Yes!,...but how do WE find out?,most women are so damaged by past relationships that they can't get past the HELLO! faze,and the rest either bounce from one man to another hoping this one is IT!!!,frightening any man they come across so much that they are not around long enough to find out,OR they announce to all and sundry that they are NOT looking for a relationship...they just want to have FUN!...Honesty?,that's what everyone wants,but we always have to accept it at face value....more's the pity!!!. X | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/22/2009 7:20:28 PM |
When will today’s women ever stop being shameless hypocrites?
First of all, the problem with this question is that it's being too general and somewhat implies a double standard. There are many things that women do that men like to complain about too but they do the same things themselves. So in essence why don't we all stop being shameless hypocrites?
As for if there are still good men left...well it would be the same as asking if there are any good women left. There is potential for us to all be 'good' relationship wise but some of us choose not to be. However, it is just all a matter of opinion and what that individual is looking for in terms of 'good.' So yes I believe that there are good men out there just as well women. But I don't think that's real problem because sometimes people find something good and yet manage to screw it up regardless of their intentions. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/22/2009 9:50:23 PM | I think the question should say...
"Do you believe that there are some good men left that you'd want to date"
I'm sure there are plenty of good men left, but would the ladies want to date them? | |
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