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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:50:57 PM | | I am sure you guys have noticed by now that most women are not happy until they get a man that treats them like shyt. I'm really starting to believe that's why there are so many weirdo' flaky women on this site. I have been alive 46 years now and i have never seen it be any different. Woman gets a good man. He's good to her' He treats her right. He shows her that he loves her. But that ain't good enough. But there is this other guy that makes her wet her undies every time she looks at him. He is absolutely a low down piece of sh.yt. But she can't see it. She just will not have it no other way. She has to leave the good guy she knows loves her and is good to her for that low down piece of sh.yt that down deep in her heart she knows is going to run her into ground. But she ignores it. He will change she thinks. Down deep in her heart she knows he isn't. He slaps her around sometimes' But she makes excuses for him. He won't work or try to do like he should. But it's not his fault she thinks. He stays in and out of some kind of trouble all the time. By now she has pumped out a kid by this loser and she is starting to feel like she made a huge mistake leaving that good man she had behind. But now it's to late. She can't go back even though her life is miserable. She finally does get free of the jerk. But the good guy she once had is long gone. Someone saw what she couldn't see and snatched it up. But now she has two kids by this loser that will be around at least until these kids are grown. Now that she has done went through h.e.l.l she starts to think she really wants a good man this time. But it's gonna be harder this time' Way harder because now she is scared and spooked a little by men not to mention the kids she has. Sad but true' A lot of guys are not as accepting of other mens kids as they are there own. So it's harder to get a good man' A responsible man to take that on. She finds herself raising her kids alone. She is in her mid to late forties before she can finally start trying to think of herself again. But now it's gonna be even harder because she and the guys she meets are to old and set in there ways. For some women going through all that Sh.yt' all those years alone now they don't feel like they need a man. The men are older and set in there ways and could care less if she came or went. It's a vicious cycle that could have been avoided. Caused from bad decision making and that erge to walk on the wild side. And the womans inability to see what she had right under her nose. The good guy that was right there but she didn't appreciate him until it was to late. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/26/2009 9:00:23 PM | For me, it's an instant turn-off/red flag/ whatever, when I see a woman asking, "Is There Any Good Ones Left?"
Why?
She's already man-bashing.
It's like, guilt by association.
Kinda like a guy asking, " Is There Any Women That AREN'T Gold Diggers?"
See what I mean?
That guy would be berated for having the opening assumption that all women are gold diggers!
BTW, be leary of "Knight In Shining Armor" women too! Most will be in need of a place to live by the end of the month! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/27/2009 12:20:51 AM | I don't think that she means that. She may simply be having a hard time meeting the right person. Frustration is a common symptom. Relax, she simply wanted some hope.
There are good men out there. It's just tough to narrow it down to the good man for her. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/27/2009 6:21:09 AM | What makes you a "good woman" and what do you have to offer a good man?
Some women are looking for a drama-free man because they have enough drama already. What makes you think the guy wants to put up with your drama?
Also, maybe you consider yourself drama-free, but others don't think so. What is drama to you and what is drama to others, isn't always the same things.
Finally...taking at least 50% of your cats to the taxidermist is the environmentally-friendly thing to do.
Well......at least.......to YOUR environment!
I hear they make good Chinese food too!
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/27/2009 12:06:05 PM | I believe there are MANY good men left!!~
I do not however, believe there are any perfect men - period. Nor do I believe there are any perfect women either.
We all just need to find the one who is 'right' for us - us for them.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/27/2009 12:14:32 PM | Yes, there are, and I've met or chatted with some of them, but I believe there are a lot more out there!!! Also, a relationship is what you make it. If, as a woman, you're waiting for your knight in shining armor to swoop you off your feet and carry you away to live happily ever after, the answer to this question might be a resounding NO! Isn't that what the whole dating process is about? Hang out, often enough to experience each other in all sorts of situations. TALK!! Express wants and needs and ask for what you don't get. If it still is unsatisfactory, shake hands and part ways. Yes, there are those selfish, disrespectful jerks, but there are women just like it. It's a shame we can't match *them* up, eh???  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/28/2009 9:05:04 AM | Yes, but only a few left, most guys only seen to one one thing and the girls fall for it everytime, they rather date the guy who will let them down, while the good guys sit back and just watch, knowing it will happen.
And us good guy never seen to have a look in, because girls rather get beaten up that date a good girl, its a fact that is  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 2/28/2009 9:55:29 AM | Define "GOOD".
Attractive
Financially secure
Not into old fashioned double standards
Intelligent
Kind
Good communicator
Good manners
Honest and true to his conscience
Since when were there plenty of humans like this male or female at all let alone that are also single.
So my answer would have to be no. They are very rare. There never were. Most people fall short in more than a few of these qualities.
If your definition is simply a nice guy, average looks, average everything else then yes there are plenty. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:45:53 PM | What does that mean??
What is a "good" guy? Really that's the question you should have asked.
I can't believe this thread is coming from a guy- it's sets us back quite a bit. We should be judged by our value to the other person in the relationship, not some broad, un-quantifiable standard.
Ladies, instead of just saying yes, or no to this question, I think it would be much more interesting to find out what you think it means to be a "good" guy! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:49:10 PM |
For me, it's an instant turn-off/red flag/ whatever, when I see a woman asking, "Is There Any Good Ones Left?"
When I see one of those, I send a message that says, ``No, there aren't any good ones left, however I'm pretty so-so and can occasionally be really bad. How does that work for you?'' | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/3/2009 10:10:12 AM | | Hmm nope nope, and nope. Oh, and nope. No good men left. I'm a mean, insecure, controlling, self-centered, selfish, narcissist,inane, insane, addict, unconfident, short tempered, unassured, immature, unforgiving, mind ph@k1ng, rabid, unstable, dishonest, lying, cheat, shady, arrogant, timid, two-faced, ugly, ugly |3@stard who will fool, impoverish, twist, lower, demean, accuse and deny, lie and cheat any woman who calls herself good. I mean that's all there is left in the world, so I just go by the famous saying, "When in Rome, kcuhp the Romans." | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/4/2009 2:37:14 PM | Hmm nope nope, and nope. Oh, and nope. No good men left. I'm a mean, insecure, controlling, self-centered, selfish, narcissist,inane, insane, addict, unconfident, short tempered, unassured, immature, unforgiving, mind ph@k1ng, rabid, unstable, dishonest, lying, cheat, shady, arrogant, timid, two-faced, ugly, ugly |3@stard who will fool, impoverish, twist, lower, demean, accuse and deny, lie and cheat any woman who calls herself good. I mean that's all there is left in the world, so I just go by the famous saying, "When in Rome, kcuhp the Romans."
I know a few....I have men that have been in my life and my best friends for many many moons...who are awesome people... so I guess you are what they call a type then right...hahahahaha | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/5/2009 5:29:26 PM | There are plenty of good men left. Women are just patently unable to see them when they are standing right in front of them. They date jerks and morons, get together and whine about it and never take responsibility for their stupid decisions. The divorce rate of 50% is not all because of bad men.
If you are divorced, you chose someone and it didn't work out so if he was a jerk, you chose him. Maybe you need to look in the mirror and develop better skill sets when it comes to choosing mates. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/5/2009 6:54:34 PM | I think the women on here are being very generous
If you posted the opposite question to guys I seriously doubt they would be so nice
I'm not saying they are wrong
I'm just saying...I don't think the men try so hard to be positive about us | |
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