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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/21/2009 7:43:35 PM | | Hey, I want to keep this posting going past 100 posts. Let go for the record. There are plenty of good men on POF. What the women are saying is not "good men". What they mean to say is "good men with sparks!" I think I need to strap myself with some fireworks. lol lol lol | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/21/2009 11:43:08 PM | | Honestly no. I seriously have given up. I just can't trust them because they all lie. So there is your answer. But being frriends with them is always fun until they want friends with bennifits.... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/31/2009 11:19:56 PM | I know for a fact there are good men left!
Now if I am ever blessed enough to meet one who feels the same about me - I will never leave his side for the rest of my days.
However - there are many many many who arent good - which means I expect to do a whole lot of fishing until such times as I find one - but I remain optmistic.
If women continue being the way some of us are - good men may become extinct - and that would be a tradgedy. In this I mean - superficial women who are only interested in looks and money but put up with bad treatment from a man, then other women who want a "bad boy" type will ridicule or insult a good man giving him no inspiration to continue on being good, then there are those other ones - who actually find a good man but are so rude ignorant selfish greedy and even cheating on him blatantly - that he may vow to never treat another woman well again.
It seems that good men often end up with not so good women - and bad men always end up with nice girls - I always wondered what caused these seemingly unbalanced partnerships. All I could come up with is that it must be the worlds way of naturally balancing itself - has to be - because if all azzwholes were with biatches - they would kill each other! Someone has to give - so ... you get one nice and one not so nice. lol (I know this last part probably isnt true but it was a rather amusing theory I came up with) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/1/2009 4:38:35 AM |
It seems that good men often end up with not so good women - and bad men always end up with nice girls - I always wondered what caused these seemingly unbalanced partnerships.
I actually see that in some relationships that I observe. It has to come from somewhere. I'm thinking that perhaps these people meet some other more important need that the nice person requires.
I see many relationships where the woman is constantly nagging and her man does a ton of things for her. And he is seemingly happy, and then we come on here and the majority of men say that they would not put up with that? Perhaps some people like being in a relationship as opposed to not?
I think there are many variables involved. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/1/2009 6:24:39 AM | I do but good god are they hard to find!!...If you can make it to the second or thrid convo without the topic of sex coming up ,you may have a winner!! But if I find any good men in my travels I will let you know!! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/1/2009 3:37:14 PM | | You hear all these women complaining that they can't find a decent guy but the choice is ultimately theirs so they shouldn't be pissed about who they choose. If they had half a brain and stopped thinking with the puss they might have a chance :) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/1/2009 6:41:19 PM |
It seems that good men often end up with not so good women Amen to that. Show me a room filled with otherwise-compatible women, and I will always pick the absolutely most wrong one, even with my eyes closed. I'm most successful if I find a stool in the corner and ignore everyone- then "she" pops up right before my eyes... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/1/2009 6:45:17 PM | | Yes, I believe there are good men out there.........not always close to home. I found one on POF and he is a 4 1/2 hour drive from me.......but well worth spending time with. His sense of humor was the one thing that caught my attention as we were IMing each other. He was very honest from the start. That was 8 months ago and we are still having fun........and traveling back and forth isn't all that bad. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/4/2009 3:20:48 PM |
I agree. For every decent guy, there are 20 who want to show you their bits on webcam :-S Make that 19. My webcam just broke the other day.
Guess I'll have to tough it out being a decent guy for a while.... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/5/2009 3:55:54 AM | Nope, We're all scum. XD
As has been said before, I've been called everything from The most awesome guy, to, A total loser that no woman could ever want. It depends completely on the person doing the judging. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/5/2009 8:03:46 AM | I probably answered this like 29 pages ago but just to say it again, Of course there are!!! lots of good men left, lots of good women left, if only we could all meet and pair up and dance off happily into the sunset, oh wait , life isn't always like that!
patience, it's a must , because when that great person comes along you'll realize they were worth the wait entirely. (sounds hokey but it's true, and the fact I just watched 2 hugh grant movies has nothing to do with my romantic optimism at the moment - promise!) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/5/2009 9:13:28 AM | | Im not sure im an optimist... I would like to think so... But lately have my doubts...I love it when a man will tell you he is HONEST and Careing but what he is really saying is Im a lier and dont give a S*** about you.... Unless your willing to put out... Its a genetic flaw men have... Honesty is not in there... I love it when a man complains about getting a bad wrap because of other men.... Who in turn act like the men they are complaining about... What a load of crap.... If you dont want to be branded a jerk, well dont act like one.... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 4/5/2009 9:17:04 AM | Of course there are good men left ... somewhere. But, (in this age range), the best ones appear to be married, gay, bitter from previous marriages, workaholics, overly paranoid about "golddiggers", too shy to approach women, and even some of the "good" men seem to only want "barbies"to play with...
Then there is a small catagory who were married for years and now want to indulge in their sexual fantasies, and certainly aren't looking for a "relationship "...
But, of course there ARE ... must be.... good men left! | |
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