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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/9/2009 5:49:27 PM | | There are good men left...there are also good women left not all of us are looking for a hunky rich man...some of us just want a romantic wonderfully funny man...ok maybe it's just me but that's what i care about...we are all going to grow old and our looks will change what then? There has to be more attraction than just looks!!! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/9/2009 6:54:15 PM |
Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day!
I've heard the add-on to this joke:
The Wife Store
Floor 1: These women are beautiful and are very good in bed.
No man has ever visited the second floor. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/10/2009 1:11:35 AM |
There are plenty of good men left. Unfortunately, the vast majority of women want great men, and no, there are none of them left. See below.
Sorry but i have to say your wrong here. There are plenty of "great" men left. It goes back to something i have already said' If the vast majority of women would come down out of the clouds and get down here where we are at and open up more than there eyes' Open there minds and realize that what they need may not come in the package there looking for they may find it. I'm only gonna give one example here. I can't tell you how many profiles i have read that say things like. "Must have a job" I know' You may think' "What's wrong with that?" In essence nothing' It's the way it comes off. It makes a guy feel like' "Yea' just looking for a man with money". May have not meant that at all. But guys will shy back on statements like that. That's why i say come down out of the clouds' Get real. Guys need to know that there wanted for who and what they are. There are lots of good men left' There are lots of great men left. But good men and great men think with what's between there ears. Not there legs. There thinkers. You gotta be on your toes to capture one. Don't mean this as a personal jab. But you also have to be a special kind of woman to recognize when one is there. Or he will slip right on by. You will miss him.  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:31:44 AM | | Yes, I believe there are a lot of good and great men aroud. I find that many of them seem to be attracted to women who take advantage of them, so they either no longer seek good women, do not appreciate a good woman when they find one, or let her slip by when he meets one, as he does not recognize one. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/10/2009 6:49:33 AM | Absolutely, there are good men left! I will never stop believing this. I'm lucky enough to have amazing male family members, and incredible male friends.
Ladies, stop complaining that all guys are losers, or **stards, or cheaters, etc. You're just looking for the wrong ones. It's just that simple. I'm finding them no problem!
Nice guys finish first when it comes to me :) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/10/2009 7:19:49 AM | | A.L.V. glad that you are finding great men....... many of us are not, and it is NOT because we are looking for and dating losers, etc. A lot depends on one's location and the age of the men they seek and find. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/10/2009 9:08:07 AM | | I can certainly see that, fifi. I speak from the experience as a Toronto student. Thus, I tend to see peers who do what I described. I obviouly can't speak on behalf of the rest of the world of women. I do wish you luck, though!! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/10/2009 9:22:45 AM | They're all taken!!!
-jokin' there... The tough thing is not to find a good man, its to find a good man that you're attracted to, and that's attracted to you in the same time, AND in circomstances that make your love story possible!!! Its the chemistry/distance/lifestyle/etc... that make it so hard to find -and keep- someone special in our lives...
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/11/2009 6:00:42 PM |
Good men die trying to prove that they are not pretending
No one' Man or woman should have to live there life constantly trying to prove there worthy and not pretending. I won't. If a woman doesn't have brains enough between her ears to know and accept it then i will go find one that does. If a woman can't be around me for a while and see that i am for real then she isn't the one for me. She is to up in her own head for me. We have all been damaged by someone in our past. Lord knows i had the wife from hell. But i will not let that keep me from finding what's right for me. If i come across one that can't see what's right under her nose and recognize it as something good' Move on' Go find one that does. I have already had this to happen to me with a woman i met right here POF. She saw what kind of guy i really am and couldn't handle it. She just couldn't believe that i was for real. She ran. No skin off my butt' Next. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/11/2009 8:02:55 PM | I honestly believe that there are some good men out there..........but how do we find them.
Let me ask a few questions..........about the last dates that I have been on. I went out or rather met them with a completely open mind that they were good men.....
Met for coffee, sat there and talked for over a hr, thought there possibly may be some sort of a connection........gave me his number to call.........soon made up excuses why he could not call...........I could not go down to his place at certain times, his daughter was there...........but she was well over 22 and what was the problem?
Met another one the other night, he even came to pick me up, we went out to a local pub, band wwas there, sat and had a few drinks. He kept excusing himself to go out and smoke.......no big deal, then women kept coming over and talking...........never introduced me to any of them......kept looking around like he was watching for someone else..........if your on a date, you should at least pretend to be interested and not so attentive of others.........went home.......kiss good night , and I wont see him again.....he called...........I was not impressed.
Oh did I mentioned he trashed his ex in front of me.............lol
Another one shows up., looks like he can barely walk, said he was 62......but I thought 72 yet I still sat, had coffee and that was it..........
So................where are all the good men, who want real, wont play games, and if they say , LONG TERM.........its more than a few dates................lol | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/11/2009 8:29:46 PM | rusticeyes
Remember' You asked on a public forum.
I looked at your pictures. There so blurry i can't hardly see you. Are you sure that the guys you meet that your holding true to your pictures? Clearer pictures would help you a lot.
Met for coffee, sat there and talked for over a hr, thought there possibly may be some sort of a connection........gave me his number to call.........soon made up excuses why he could not call...........I could not go down to his place at certain times, his daughter was there...........but she was well over 22 and what was the problem?
Simple' He changed his mind after meeting you. For what reason i don't know. Could it be that after he met you that you didn't look like what he thought you did based on your pictures? Maybe he thought his daughter wouldn't approve of you?
Met another one the other night, he even came to pick me up, we went out to a local pub, band wwas there, sat and had a few drinks. He kept excusing himself to go out and smoke.......no big deal, then women kept coming over and talking...........never introduced me to any of them......kept looking around like he was watching for someone else..........if your on a date, you should at least pretend to be interested and not so attentive of others.........went home.......kiss good night , and I wont see him again.....he called...........I was not impressed.
I have to admit it was kinda prickish of him to pay more attention to others than he did you on a date. Still' Sounds like he wasn't really all that interested after meeting you. It happens. It's just part of dating. Or' maybe he saw something in you that he didn't see before? Something he didn't like? That happens to.
Another one shows up., looks like he can barely walk, said he was 62......but I thought 72 yet I still sat, had coffee and that was it..........
Sounds like you really wasn't interested in this one. On your profile you can set the max age of man you want to meet. Sounds like maybe you need to do that.
Remember' You asked
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2009 3:10:25 PM | No i don.t beleive there are any good men now out there, sign of the times. I have been burnt so mant times, I am 49, and i will stay by myself now,to painful to keep getting hurt, there just dogs. I am slightly cuddly, size 14. a slight disability, i know i am not ugly. always happy, All they want is sex, and the body beautiful. they look to the outside, not to the inward person, but they forget there getting bald with a pot belly.they need to have a good look at themselves.  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2009 4:53:08 PM | | SUNDANCERAU, not all men are like that. I try so hard to be a good man and I still believe that there are things that I can improve about myself. Looks aren't that important to me. If you ask my friends, they'll tell you that I must have "Shallow Hal Syndrome." I always go for who I believe to be the nice girl. I always get burned because she turns out to be not so nice. I am a good looking guy, my grandmother raised me to be a gentlemen and I practice that. I also teach my nephew and godsons as well. Unfortunately for me, women are so use to men treating them badly that they can't understand the thought that good men do exist. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2009 5:14:01 PM |
No i don.t beleive there are any good men now out there, sign of the times.
I find the world to be a great mirror. If you look out into the world and see nothing but darkness, it's because you have too much darkness within.
I'm a very good man and I'm still out there. And there are many good men like me who are still available. But you are unable to see it because you're too busy seeing all the negatives in people. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2009 5:28:59 PM | | Depends what your looking for doesn't it..?but I don't think that the perfect man or woman exsist,we all have our little flaws and faults.But if your after a good man someone with intergrity,kind,considerate then there's loads of us about if you look properly...unfortunately women seem to be attracted to the **stards cause there more challanging...go figure | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:27:27 PM | There are not just good men left, there are some Great men out there.
The problem is too many women are looking at the superficial things that are on the surface rather than looking into the heart and soul of the man.
If women would stop looking for model looks, jock bodies, millionaire wallets,
and Rhodes Scholar education and start looking for character qualities like honesty, loyalty, faithfulness, kindness, openness, patience, generosity, ability to love, ability to communicate,...
I could go on and on with this list but you get my point.
I have met many many truly good guys. I know there are lots of players out there too, but if you look for the qualities of the heart instead of the superficial flash you will find many many quality men. I have been very blessed to see into the heart of one very great guy, and I am doing my very best to make this man my own. So far so good.
Now if the truly great guys would stop looking for the Barbie Doll women out there and start looking for qualities of the heart there would be a heck of a lot more happy couples here on POF. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/13/2009 3:10:02 AM | | Yes there are good men left, but they are to busy being told: their not the right type, to nice, not nice enough, etc, you name it they've heard it. I know one guy who's thrown women out of his house in because they were interrupting his favorite tv show just to have them coming back begging for attention, yet those same women wouldn't give the guys that wanted to give them that attention the satisfaction of a simple conversation. I honestly doubt that any women on the face of this planet really want a good man, it's been my experience the only women that want a good man, are either to old, to young, or just don't put aside the time in their lives to give a good man a shot. When I say to old or to young I'm not talking a few year, but a significant difference. | |
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