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 Author Thread: Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
 123carrie

Joined: 7/25/2007
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/13/2009 4:31:26 AM
I think there are alot of good men in life and on this site and I have met and enjoyed dates with everal. There are those who are not and, just like anywhere else, those men give other men a bad name. From the fora, I have seen alot of men who seem nice, who appear bright and articulate in their comments, and who are truly seeking friendship, companionship and loving partners.
 NESunshine

Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 1202
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:43:10 AM
Yes, I do. I've had the privledge of meeting several good men lately and although it may not have turned out into a great dating relationship or we just felt friendship was more appropriate, they do exist. They are gentlemanly, articulate, highly intelligent and driven.
 RedHeadedVixxen

Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 1203
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:44:49 PM
Yep I do BUT unfortunately when you do find one, they are so messed up by past relationships and other baggage that they can't let their guard down and go with their heart. They let logic build a really big brick wall for them.
 just_a_girly_girl

Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 1204
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/13/2009 8:43:05 PM
I always ask myself that question and honestly I think there are.
 BH_Dreamer

Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 1205
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/30/2009 8:15:25 PM
if you ever find one let me know please they are after a fling or you to pay for dinner and then they want to......................that is it know nothing about woman or feelings
 disposablehero38

Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 1206
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/1/2009 8:05:36 AM
Well yeah they are out there, but the thing is a lot of times women take the nice guy for a door mat and in a lot (not all) of cases it's not beneficial for the man to be a "nice guy", however making sure to respect a woman is a must. I think a lot of "men" forgot how to be men, you can be respectful and kind while still having a backbone. A lot of women I've encountered aren't looking for someone they can just bully around, they want a man that shows confidence and does have a back bone. She wants that along with the ability to still show respect and do the little things to make her happy. It's a fine line to walk, that's why one of my friends jokingly calls a womans mind "natures infinite puzzle".
 Army Man Dan

Joined: 7/27/2008
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/1/2009 10:16:45 PM
OO! OO! OO! (raises hand) right here pick me pick me I know!

yes there are, there are guys that are jackasses, there are jackasses that put on the nice guy face, and then there are good guys, which seem to be few and far between. guess I'm one of those few!
 a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009
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Posted: 5/2/2009 12:34:39 AM
Of course. Girls just have to sift through the crap to get to the good men...however, women need to be honest about their pursuit about a good men...and not out to get someone based on looks alone. (Guys are guilty of looks alone too.)
 MandaKay

Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 1209
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Posted: 5/2/2009 12:38:12 AM

Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?


If I was to base it on the type of guys I deal with at work....No.

If I base it on the type of guys I have seen on this site....no
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 1210
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Posted: 5/2/2009 10:48:29 AM
What cracks me up OP is that some women become deaf and dumb when they are into someone. The best post was a guy that was physically caught cheating EIGHT; yes 8 times and the women kept going back to him. They were both in their 20's.

At the end her comment was, I guess all guys are like this.

I'm so sick of women acting like they are a victim when they are really fools. They pick losers or cheats because they have money or looks or both; get hurt constantly; then blame all men instead of themselves.

If you keep picking bad guys, that's what you will get. Dont' put your terrible decision skills on us. It's your fault not "all mens".
 verityone

Joined: 10/23/2008
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/2/2009 10:58:18 AM

Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?

Plenty.

Plenty that will painted as anything but, in the hugely talented overactive cynical minds of many single woman who will postulate otherwise.

To everyones's detriment....
 CynthiaM

Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 1212
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Posted: 5/2/2009 11:17:51 AM

To everyones's detriment....

I would think quite the opposite. Those painting all men, or all women, with such a broad brush and doing it publicly in the forum self-identify thereby saving the rest of us.
 cobalt1234

Joined: 2/25/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2009 5:27:13 PM
Yes i am a good hearted person but the problem that i find is that i am not rich and that stops me from finding anyone ...lol..no body is interested in me...i know that is sad so here i am waiting for you..lol...where are you...lol..
 TxWheels

Joined: 12/17/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 7:59:51 PM
There are good men. Just some of us are invisible to most women.
 MNQ

Joined: 9/2/2007
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Posted: 5/9/2009 12:37:01 AM
Absolutely...I've met some "Some" being the operative word ...
 busterrm

Joined: 4/7/2006
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Posted: 5/9/2009 4:06:11 AM
Yes, by all means we do still exist! I agree with several comments made, we have been used and abused by women we thought were good women. We just have issues about trusting again I think! I would love to meet a good women and spend the rest of my life with her. BUT, thats easier said that done!
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/9/2009 5:41:17 AM
Personally, I tend to not always see a man as a good man if he has been in a series of relationships where he was used and abused. There is always two sides to every story, and some "good" men seem to use their tales of woe to maipulate women, then the women find that they are not "good" men at all. I know many good women, why do good men say they cannot find us? Maybe because we might be looking for good men and find the inside of the package more interesting than the outside, and the good men are looking at the outside before looking at the inside? I still find that some good men might need help understanding what makes a woman a user and an abuser before getting involved with her, and why they seem to be attracted to that type of woman.
 abstinent lady

Joined: 7/4/2007
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:40:38 PM
that is a q that is yet to be answered
 TruthinessIncorporate

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 1219
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Posted: 5/9/2009 8:46:02 PM
NAAaaaaaa...there's none left, it's a shame...

Though...

Once my career as an international hit man is over...I'll be a good man!




Truth, Procrastination is opportunity's natural assassin-TruthinessInc
 penzer

Joined: 4/25/2009
Msg: 1220
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Posted: 5/9/2009 10:01:10 PM
of course... i am still here
 Wanderinbard

Joined: 3/7/2009
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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/9/2009 10:36:55 PM
I think your question should be along the lines of

Do you think you can get a good man for you.

There are plenty of good men out there I'm proof!
But the thing is I'm not good for every gal out there. And this goes for everyone. I'm not God's gift to Female kind I'm God's gift to that special someone. I just got to find her and we can be good together. I hope this helps.

waiting for
 Wanderinbard

Joined: 3/7/2009
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Posted: 5/9/2009 10:37:19 PM
I think your question should be along the lines of

Do you think you can get a good man for you.

There are plenty of good men out there I'm proof!
But the thing is I'm not good for every gal out there. And this goes for everyone. I'm not God's gift to Female kind I'm God's gift to that special someone. I just got to find her and we can be good together. I hope this helps.

waiting for
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 5/11/2009 12:36:50 PM

There are plenty of good men out there I'm proof!
But the thing is I'm not good for every gal out there. And this goes for everyone. I'm not God's gift to Female kind I'm God's gift to that special someone. I just got to find her and we can be good together. I hope this helps.


You are wise beyond your years, wanderinbard. You will find the lady to appreciate you one day with that kind of attitude.
 bluegreen.

Joined: 4/1/2009
Msg: 1224
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Posted: 5/11/2009 1:14:19 PM
I have not read the whole 50 pages, but define "good".
:)
 widowsdesire

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Posted: 5/11/2009 1:38:44 PM
Good- morally excellent, virtuous, satisfactory in quality, kind, beneficient, friendly,
honrable, worthy, genuine, not counterfeit, reliable, dependable, responsible, not spoiled or tainted, favorable, cheerful, optimistic, amiable, comfortable, agreeable, pleasant, attractive, handsome, satisfactory for the purpose, socially proper, favorably regarded, upright, commendable, admirable, benevolent, gracious, capable, able, ready, suitable, suited, having qualities that are desirable or distinguishing, not spoiled or ruined, superior to the average, reliable, valid or true, loyal, of high quality,
worthy or respect, honorable, a person of companionable qualities

in contrast to NO GOOD- without value or merit, worthless, contemptible or GOOD FOR NOTHING - Of no value; useless; worthless. Used substantively, an idle, worthless person

These definitions are taken from dictionary.com. We all know what a good man is.
Again, yes there are good men, and there are good women out there. We run in to them every day. They may not be the richest, the most educated, the most physically fit or the most handsome, but the qualities in them which make them "good" make them well worth your time and effort, and their character make them far more valuable than the
pretty boys with the hot bods, and the full wallets.
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