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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/3/2005 4:05:25 PM | | Well I'm optimistic.....I think there are plenty of good men left.....just don't know where they're hiding yet......both men and women go through the I've been hurt thing, become more cautious.......but I do believe one day I will find my Mr. Right | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/3/2005 4:19:48 PM | Absolutely, and I'm one of them.
We are not that hard to find. What you ladies have to do is not be so quick to jump on the first guy that buys you a drink because that isn't a trait of a 'good guy'. That qualifies as a 'nice guy' and that can be deceiving.
In fact, you may be rejecting a great guy without even giving him a chance. We don't always make ourselves obvious in public. We aren't always going to approach you. We might be the one single guy at the bar, watching 4 channels of ESPN while silently playing along with NTN trivia while a band is playing. Or we are with our friends hanging out.
Ladies, you have to risk it. Don't always wait for us to make the first move...Us guys have been making the first move for thousands of years...We're tired of the rejection. If you are interested in us, tell us! Don't use body language. We're men! We don't know how to read women! You are a book written in hyroglyphics. But we are Good Men, so we are going to be nice, cordial, caring, etc, etc, etc. that you may be expecting. Sure, we'll buy you a drink after we're sure you want one.
So many women today are holding out for the rich, blond-haired hardbody to sweep you off your feet. Keep dreamin' 'cause t'ain't happenin' McGee...unless you are in Southern California and even then I doubt it. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/4/2005 12:36:21 AM | One of the things I am noticing the guys saying is that women don't make the first move....my New Years Resolution...(which I can make at anytime because i live in my own little world  ) is to become more assertive and make that first move more often....now, for my first victi---er...move... | |
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lml4s
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Joined: 12/31/2004
Msg: 108 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/4/2005 4:59:33 AM | Yeah, it's harder being chased by old dogs. A young dog will make the mad scramble across the yard if he sees a leaf move that might be where a squirrel was going. An old dog will lie in the sun and let a squirrel run across his snout, might bark, might not. But if you scratch behind his ear he will roll over so you can rub his belly, if you like doing that sort of thing.
Speaking of good men, I am not one. That is according to two of my ex's. One thinks I'm good. The other two think I am a loser. I have to go with majority rule on this matter. These days my role is to be a splendid example of what not to look for in a mate. Compare me to who you're interested in and if you see similarities, there's your early warning system. Glad to be of service as I cruise the streets of the Internet looking for the highly impro babble. These chains I wear I forged in life, clink, clank, clunk. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/4/2005 6:28:31 AM | Squeak,
I dont think it is a womans job to make the first move. If she wants to that is fine with me, but if a man waits around for it to happen, he is going to be kissing nothing.
A woman gives nonverbal clues that she is ready for that first kiss, and a man has to be aware of them, and sense the build up and be ready to escalate. and it doesnt have to be anything more than a nice soft sweet kiss (not a peck by the way but not a big tonguedown either) | |
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foggyb
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Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 115 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/23/2005 9:36:28 PM |
but a lot of good men are not so quick to enter a relationship anymore unless they are sure
BINGO dae! Many good PEOPLE (not just men) have become cautious these days. It's not so much that we don't want to make someone happy. It's that we want to be a bit more sure than we may have been the last time.
Good people exist out there and many of them are overly cautious because they're carrying a lot of baggage. He, he, I once made the statement that I had enough baggage to take a trip around the world -- twice.  | |
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coy
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Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 117 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/24/2005 9:51:55 AM | | i have to admit, the nice guy/gentleman in me is slowly dying each day. i guess i need a reason to bother being that gentleman again. i think when it's all said and done, the only part of me that will still be genuinely nice will be the face my patients see every day. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/24/2005 6:13:31 PM | YEAH US good guys are still around and since most of us nice guys can't get you ladies interested in us we tend to spend more time working to take our minds off of being single .Yep we see all these nice places to go and thing s to take a sweet loving sweetheart but since the ladies don't want to give us a shot we just ask the boss to book us in for the over time on weekends as nothing better for us to do !! | |
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