| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/19/2009 6:39:50 AM | | There are plenty of good men left. Finding them is the challenge, so I keep looking and hoping and meeting people, and maybe I will find the perfectly imperfect good man who fits with this perfectly imperfect good woman. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/19/2009 7:49:40 AM | | Oh sure,there are plenty of good men left.The problem i think is alot of woman judge by looks,wealth first.If they would only take the time tro get to know em',ask a few questions,they might just find the guy she thought was "NO WAY" is "THE ONE"!It's all in appearance nowadays. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/19/2009 7:57:30 AM | | Many men are into looks as being the deal maker or breaker also. I have been totally surprised, as many men who are over 50 seem to be more into looks than the men who are younger. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/19/2009 8:16:39 AM | | Yes, I do, but some men out here don't want a good woman, because they rather run behind these trashy a$$ females that don't have any respect for theirself, none what so ever. I can be honest I got caught up with the looks not the bank account, because I rather take care of my family and myself and not depend on any man. Then I gotten to the point when I meet an man that is not that good looking and try to get to know them, but hell some of the ugly a$$ ones trying to play games too. I damn if I do I damn if I don't. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:05:19 AM | | There are loads of great men left I know loads as they are mates of mine the only thing is I find that a lot of women like to be treated badly by men, not sure but so many women claim they want a nice guy but tend to only go for the treat em mean keep em keen types. I'm not sure of this is because they wanna be the one woman to finally make a man change but it seems to boggle my mind I don't get that lol. I personally am after one of the good guys my trouble is that they are usually taken, married or just wanna be friends. I guess one of these days one will turn up but I hate it when women use the line "all men are the same" I mean that's just rubbish, more to the point we would never tolerate a man saying that we're all the same I think you have to judge a person as they are and take a person as individual and not part of a collective. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:37:04 AM | ...There are nice guys out there but some of them appear to be too busy for whatever reason...
Au contraire...
Without being too conceited, I am one of those 'good guys' out there.
I have a great job - make just a touch under 100k - so I am enjoying my life, yet I don't have the where-with-all to travel the world. I have no debt other than my girls college loan, so am not broke (thankfully).
I have a VW passat. Not a Ferrari, not a Mercedes, just my daily driver.
I have a savings account. Remember those?
I have a very modest 401k... Still wondering of course (like many) how I am going to retire.
I have property - 6 acres to live on - and am (again) humbly thankful that I bought it at the right time and that I can still support it and my family.
I am healthy, fit, and live a comfortable lifestyle. I am attractive (OK - I have thinning hair - oh well, that's the breaks - deal breaker for some girls?? Maybe), I have all my teeth, I don't abuse drugs or alcohol, and I don't go hang out in bars between work and home.
I am emotionally available - it was my desire to be in something more committed with the last girl friend.. she didn't want that.
I have 3 great kids that I am extremely proud of.
And lastly, I have time available. I am not a player, I really don't have the need to go out with a gaggle of women at one time, but I would like to date the right woman a couple times a month, or once a week and see what develops. I am respectful, honest, and kind an old fashioned gentleman. Does that mean I am not fun or a sexual dud? Ask the last girl friend. She would openly tell you that she appreciated our intimate time together. I know how to be a good lover.
SO - where are these girls looking for me?? Beats me. I haven't had a date in a couple months. The ones that do contact me out of the blue have been few and far between, and mostly they don't read what I am looking for, and don't fit the basic requirements. Sorry ladies if that's you and you are reading this.
Most of the women I contact don't answer. Again - I am NOT disrespectful.. I won't ever start out with "HEY BABY - YOU'RE SO FREAKING HOT" even though they might be HOT... I figure they know they're attractive - they don't need me to go overboard pointing it out. I will compliment a nice set of lips and eyes. I don't comment on breasts or ass even though they might scream to be noticed. Again - they know..
I eventually want that LTR. The woman to come home to, to rub her feet at the end of the day, to cook with and for, to make love to for hours, to take out on the town - all of it.
Anybody 'get me' about this??
SO - we're out here - I'm out here - where are YOU??
Tom | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/21/2009 8:55:56 PM |
See ya in 6 months....max!
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You may be right, you may not be.
We don't even know each other. It's interesting that you seem to take delight in my potential loss.
I'll take that bet.
wish we'd settled on a dollar amount back in February. Passed 7 months with fishie and still going well. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/21/2009 9:08:48 PM | | Well no, because all the hot ones seem to be ***holes, and the nice ones, are bald and ugly, oh and lets not forget overweight (I met my fair share of them too!!) No wonder so many women are going gay lol. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/21/2009 10:56:59 PM | | ^^^ I agree! Of course there are! I'm sure there are a lot of men wondering the same about women. I think there are good of both sexes left but perhaps, because the "right" one hasn't been found the perception is formed there aren't any? Just a thought... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/20/2009 7:01:29 PM | | Not anymore, I feel I have been insulted too many times on first dates with guys wanting to be friends, then wanting to know how to arrange" benefits" in the very next breath. Like most women, they ruin it for all the sincere guys. One guy got so rude he got my drink, not in his face, but at the front of his pants. Such rudeness in men here! So this is why the "good girls" leave this site. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/21/2009 5:45:27 AM | Do you believe the "are there some good men left" trend in women is a form of sexism that is way too accepted in society?
Seriously, the women who think this way are chauvinist bigots. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/21/2009 6:36:39 AM | Yes, it is. There is a ridiculous amount of man hating on these forums and in general American society. People going about saying "men only want sex", "men are stupid" or "all men lie", it's all misandry. This kind of behavior has truly become the norm and it is very common to find examples like this on basic television. Take Dr.Phil and Oprah for example, it's pretty much a completely anti-male agenda targeted for a female audience and they are making millions.
Anyway, yes, there are a lot of good men left, although I am sure every one has a different interpretation of what a good men actually is. I know I am a good men but if a womans definition of a good men begins at "must be at least 5'10"", than it really doesn't matter does it? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/21/2009 7:59:15 AM | A recent but limited scientific study may be of interest:
It's true: all the taken men are best
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619-its-true-all-the-taken-men-are-best.html
A new study provides evidence for what many have long suspected: that single women are much keener on pursuing a man who's already taken than a singleton.
So there may be some left and unattached, but you may also have to poach someone else's guy!  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:18:16 AM | I think there are much fewer than ever in our history except maybe right after the civil war, and it could be worse percentage-wise now. There are fewer than what I thought when I first got on here last year for sure. Values aren't being taught to the younger ones as much as before, and the older generations are dead, nearly dead, and a few are still married. Among the single ones, the majority are on here hoping that the kiddie barbie they couldn't even find for years in real life is just lurking here looking for him and no one else. Example, I saw one profile of a local handsome guy about one year younger than me and we had lots of common interests, more than I usually see on here. However, his preferences was a woman who is almost five years younger than either one of us??? I guess if he thinks I turned into a pumpkin when I became his age, then he became a jack-o-lantern when he had his own birthay. He didn't restrict contact, so I could have mailed him, but I refused because the minute he sees a kradle kid then he'd dump me. That's one of the hugest red flags. But that's an example of the things I see. So, I'm still on here single and alone and he is too or else he's on here lying. So it's things like this that makes me say no, there are hardly any good men left. Generally, if an average nice man wants an average nice woman, they will quickly get one because of the demographics. So when they don't, there are reasons. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:28:21 PM |
Values aren't being taught to the younger ones as much as before
"What is happening to our young people? They disrespect their elders, they disobey their parents. They ignore the law. They riot in the streets inflamed with wild notions. Their morals are decaying. What is to become of them?"
Do you think that this quote accurately describes the younger generation? Would you like to know who said it? It was Plato, over two thousand years ago. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:54:16 PM | Absolutely! Not because they are not good for me, it means they are bad people.
I know many good men, actually wonderful men... they are just not my type, or to be more honest.. all looking for Pamela Lee.
The question (for me) is whether there are any wise men lol | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/26/2009 6:44:20 PM |
припечет, так и не то есть будешь.......гречка то вообще деликатесом покажется...вот МГ-ша говорит что капустный сок вапще беееее...как Николь на тот сок? well, gonna move to Florida to date...what the poor woman left to do | |
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