| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/25/2005 11:38:15 AM | | My theory is that back in the early 40's when men went off to war, the boys left behind were not raised with any morals and values (Moms had to work and were not there), from then on Men were left to their own devices to learn what was right and wrong. Thus each generation from then on has had troubles raising men, and as time goes on each generation falls further back in knowing how to be a gentle, caring, an moral character....I'm not saying women are all that much better, but there are definite differences. There is good men out there, we just have to do a lot of weeding in the garden before we find the best rose. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/25/2005 11:59:47 AM | Hopefully there is one less good man available to the world.. (BIG GRIN)
I truly beleive that there are more "good" men and women available and out there then bad.............and that communication is the key to unlocking this mystery and finding the one that is "just right" for us all.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/26/2005 10:25:30 AM | i used to have a shirt, that on the front said, "why are all the good men taken?"
and on the back it said , "and then she remembered that their were no good men and she felt better!"
but here we are, still single in seatle.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/26/2005 10:43:33 AM | | I don't think the problem is finding a good man. I think it's more about finding one that you are compatible with and can be attracted to (on all levels). I know many 'good men' but they either don't get my sense of humor, we are just not compatible, or not attracted to eachother. They are out there though...sprinkled amongst the many ogres, trolls and devils. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/26/2005 10:58:22 AM | i agree with kimber for the most part. Something I also notice is that alot of guys start to follow the same....umm....road you could say. Hrmmm...not sure how far I want to get into this but I guess you can say alot of guys will base their feelings on the first ones they had. When feelings start to even out or die down a bit they will start to wander.
Also anytime theres a problem with anything most of us are hard-tuned to NOT talk about them and instead of dissolving them outright they will build up until its to much. People tend to believe hiding a problem will be better for them because the ensueing fight was avoided. The only problem is that it'll kill you in the long-term.
Example: My friend elena had a bf that was repeatedly saying he loved her and he even proposed. She was so happy and everything seemed so good. Then all of the sudden he just stoped talking to her...i mean he stoped cold. Come to find out he was just being "nice" to save her feelings and he really started falling out of love with her over a month ago. Thats just pathetic because all he had to do was discuss his problems with her and she wouldn't have been so f*cked up over it all.
if you want a good man or woman you really need to find that person yer compatible with that is OPEN with you with everything. Thats my advice heh.
I wont discuss it but I was in a similar situation recently but it was not me that was hiding things. This leads to: Do you believe there are some good girls left? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/26/2005 8:29:52 PM | | Yeah I do, but I do not think that there are hardly any on this site. I mean every guy that I have met on this site has just tried to get in my pants and I mean I young but not into the whole having a baby at 20. So...I guess I really dont know what to tell you, but this site I doubt will find you what you are looking for. The reason why I am deleting my account today. Games are for children, and I guess the good men know that the reason they arent on this site, and basically what is left on this site are dirt bags. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/27/2005 1:12:58 AM | Asking this question is like asking if men have feelings? Or if men can commit?
It's a bullsh*t question.
Of course there are good men out there, the real question women should be asking is why is it so hard to find them?
The answer may have more to do with you then them..... or maybe not...... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/27/2005 4:54:15 AM | the good guys are the ones that aren't going out of their way to impress you and buy you drinks. Look for the guy thats giving you eye contact but is not "strong" enough to talk to you when you are with your friends.
Oh and I have to say......since this is kinda gender bashing. For every "bad" man...theres a "bad" woman. To act like guys have it any easier is ignorant.  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/27/2005 10:53:30 AM | There are plenty of good men (and women, I'm sure) left... in here/out there.... I've dated a couple guys from here who were very nice... Too bad 'being good' wasn't enough to spark chemistry... for either of us.
*tongue-in-cheek* Maybe if everyone would stop bashing the opposite sex in these forums, and spend that time on something else... like, oh I don't know... self-improvement . . . (myself included)
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/27/2005 12:42:07 PM | I think that there are a few.....and as long as one does not date them..they stay in that category...all the rest of the bs seems to screw it up....but thats just my opinion!
 <-----too much of that goes on otherwise! | |
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