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foggyb
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/10/2005 4:31:19 PM | @ jpe - very insightful - sorry you had to live it. For the general population you may very well be right on target with the moral decay of our society these days. I agree to a point...
My belief is that all people start out good. Their values are then modified based upon external stimuli, or more simply, the things they experience every day. Given jpe's history it seems he's chosen a path based upon his experiences which unfortunately are probably the norm in our current society.
Whew, what a mouthful. Sorry for being long-winded. In essence, I believe there are many good men and women left. Rather than classifying someone as "good" or "bad", perhaps they're simply a better fit for one partner vs. another.
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foggyb
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cazar
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Joined: 4/28/2005
Msg: 180 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/10/2005 6:20:19 PM | caught this forum and decided to wait a couple of days...good comments in here
there are some good men left and as one thread said earlier ..NO I am not a dirt bag.. or a mommas boy ...I am very independent and been on my own since age 18
so where did all of them go? ..
probably a lot around you and you never noticed them
you work probably with a couple and dont know it..
ask a potential date three questions ...
do you love your mother of father .?
what do you think of your mother or father ?
what do you think of your past relationships..?
if they answer question 1 or 2 negatively ..then they MAY treat women negatively
question 3 is a filler question...
works well and is on several psychiatric exams...you would be surprised...Note the word MAY IN THIS THREAD ...not true all the time, but a good indicator..
respects
btw..all the good men moved to alaska and are living with a grizzly bear | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/10/2005 6:37:27 PM | Well, I have always thought of myself and a "good guy", but so it seems. I have been burned at the stake for claiming to be a "hunter" on a different thread. So that means that I no longer exist, and am just a figment of your imagination. This message will self destruct in five minutes...    | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/10/2005 11:59:13 PM | My answer to that is that I can only hope and pray that there is. I believe that there are good men out there, just have to dig through them, but who wants to do that? Why can't everyone just be honest and not set out to hurt everyone, it would spare a whole lot of time and heartache to everyone, if people were just honest and never cheated on others. How can you get into a relationship knowing that you are with someone else, planning to get married to them or whatever or even be married to them and set out to hurt that person or the other person? I don't know how anyone lives with that guilt and shame, and I just wish everyone could just be honest. That is why people are so afraid to get into relationships anymore.
Every time a person is hurt, it takes that much longer to get over, that much more loss of faith that true love is out there and exists, that much more time wasted out of those people's lives. If everyone was just honest and faithful, it would make a lot of problems go away.
So honestly, I know that there are good men out there. I know some, of course, they have been there for me through thick and thin, and have taught me that not all men are alike, although, that I seem to be on a path where I am finding that they are all alike, I'm just searching through and praying to find the one that is a good one still. I do hope he is out there.
I do have one thing though to say. If you are on here, and anyone who reads this, I truly hope you are on here to find true love, because those of us who are, have to weed through the ones that are not honestly on here to find that, and everytime one of you contact us we have to get over the hurt that you have caused us, and we lose a little faith in the people who really deserve it.
I met a guy on here. I believed him to be truly honest, but not quite so sure anymore. Every time I'm hurt that makes it twice as hard for the next person to break down the wall that I put back up to ward off those who are only out to hurt you. It makes me lose faith and trust in people and in love, when all I really want is that one special person to make my life complete. One advice that I do have for others, is to really get to know that person, before you make your move. Take the relationship slow, you go fast, and it's probably not going to work. Love takes time, you can't rush things.
So, I know I have rambled, but yes, I believe there are good men out there, if there are any left, I can only hope and pray. If you turn it around though and ask if there are good women out there, I can only say the same thing, except one little difference. I'm one, so yes, there are good ones left, or at least one. | |
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late™
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Joined: 1/9/2005
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adc85
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Joined: 5/21/2004
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/11/2005 3:25:49 AM | "Threads that complain about how there are no good men left in the world"
That's because they are attracted to the bad men in the world  Of course, I have noticed there are more "Nice guy" threads than "Nice girl" threads. Wierd. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/11/2005 4:33:43 AM | Aaaahhh, rrrrr, ummmm....  Still waiting here...  Oh darn, sorry almost forgot. I still don't exist, keep forgetting I was burned at the stake yesterday for being a "hunter"... Am I bad?  | |
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m2gd4u
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 5/29/2005 5:31:25 PM | The bad thing is that many women look for good men only after they gave everything to bad boys. I've heard women saying: "I'm tired of dating jerks, I want a good man". So, they sowed their wild oats, and now they want a "non-judgemental" guy. And woe on the guy who dares to ask her how many partners she had or if there is something in her that she hasn't given before.
To deserve a good man, she should be a good woman. And no, a reborn virgin or reformed sl*t doesn't qualify as "good woman". | |
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There are No Good Men or Women Left,because they have all been dashed to pieces and lay stewn in the rubish can's of other peoples dreams...*J*
Of course.