| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/29/2005 5:49:00 PM |
The bad thing is that many women look for good men only after they gave everything to bad boys. I've heard women saying: "I'm tired of dating jerks, I want a good man". So, they sowed their wild oats, and now they want a "non-judgemental" guy. And woe on the guy who dares to ask her how many partners she had or if there is something in her that she hasn't given before.
To deserve a good man, she should be a good woman. And no, a reborn virgin or reformed sl*t doesn't qualify as "good woman".
Thank you!!!! You said it exactly the way I have been feeling! | |
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daisie
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/29/2005 6:16:20 PM | | Sure I believe there are good men and women out there. Problem is that online it's so hard to get to know the real person... many honest misunderstandings are natural in this type of communication. So I bet many good men have drifted in and out of my reach on POF. Of course lots of dumb-as*es have to. If I was really hunting for a relationship I think this would drive me crazy! Since I'm mostly just here for friends, it's not that big a deal. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/29/2005 6:37:12 PM | I believe there are plenty of good men left. There's a perfect person for each one of us out there.
But, I don't believe I'll find him until the universe is ready for us to meet. In the meantime, I guess I'll just have to practice on the not-so-perfect for me men.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/6/2006 10:22:28 AM | | Honestly?...I believe that there are some good men left and fewer great men, but I suppose that the opposite sex feels similiarily about women. I would have to admit, though, that after a lifetime of seeing the majority of men treat the women in their lives poorly, act terribly, and refuse to take responsibility for their own actions, it can be a challenge to retain the above mentality. But, the few great men that I have seen in action are enough to convince me that while the expectations that I harbor may be rare, the breed has not entirely died out - yet. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/9/2006 8:15:03 AM | Nope! We are all bad didnt your momma tell you that? Really we are hiding under rocks and you ladies just need to turn over a few to find us. The only thing i can say is: once we are found we areusually put back for a "nasty boy'. Seems like we are outdated and unwaned. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/9/2006 8:25:31 AM | "Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Answer honestly." Yes I believe they truly exist, I have to, that is what I am holding out for. Would NEVER put a good man back in favor of a nasty boy. Would rather be alone than settle for less than a good man. | |
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Nursee
| Joined: 9/21/2005 Msg: 209 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/11/2006 10:18:29 AM | That's an easy one...YES, and I found one on here! The funny thing was, it was unexpected. The more we communicated, the more we learned that we were perfect for eachother, and now long term plans are being made. So, you see, there are still great men out there, just have to wait til your paths cross. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/11/2006 2:58:57 PM | Ah Nursee, my darlin', you are so sweet; so guys and gals, know that it can happen even on here when you least expect it. I came on here looking for just friendship with folks chatting on the forums, and I found my future bride....God brought us together with the help of POF.
So just don't give up, keep looking and stop whinning if you have not yet met Mr Right or Ms Right, she is or he is out there, just give it time. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 5/11/2006 5:16:57 PM | Yup there still are, many great men here in my favorites list and great friends. One less great guy, because he's taken. And I'm the lucky one (sorry dear!!). If you really think there are no decent, good or great guys left, then so to a shelter and start adopting cats. Okay, just joking, but seriously there are plenty, but they're a bit harder to find because they don't make a lot of noise to draw attention. Don't need to, but they're out there to be found. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 8:41:24 AM | | yes there is a lot of good men left,but some women only go by looks and how much money they have,they don`t look for what is inside of the person who might not be the most hansome fellow around, but the most hansome fellows are usually the ones who treat women bad because they think they can get any woman they want. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 8:46:25 AM | yes i do believe there are some good men left..though in australia they are harder to find..for me anyway...
so i am saving myself for when i get back to canada!!!
the canadians know how to treat a woman right...(and i'm not dismissing the americans either) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 9:39:12 AM | nope....its those d@mn aliens. They set traps for those "good men" and just steal them away to be used for their evil experiments. We learn about this in health class when they seperate the girls and the boys....and they tell us we MUST be bad or else. You know, when they steal the girls away and teach them to be jealous, spiteful and mean to men  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 10:31:02 AM | | I think the one thing everybody misses it that most people have their standards set to high for the real world we watch to much tv and that influences what we think is ideal lol grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 10:40:52 AM | I have to believe that there are good men left. Otherwise, I wouldn't be on this site, would I? Unless I was a total self annihilating jack*ss, that is. "Bad men everywhere! Let me advertise my selling points and draw many of them unto me online! Yum!" There's got to be good men left. I'd like to attribute my run of bad luck to poor personal choices and a temperment tha just begs to be dumped on. (Shy, sweet, and super self sacrificing, wouldn't notice a red flag if it inserted itself sideways up my butt. Hundreds of scratch tickets discarded repeatedly in a glove copartment, for instance. Should have seen that coming from about fiftymiles away, tee hee.) ) Good men abound, I know they do. My stepdad, for instance, kicks *ss. He and my mom are in their early sixties, have been together for 12 years, and they are so in love that being around them often makes me want to take out my own eyes with a spoon. In a good way, of course. I know that there have to be men out there who would appreciate a stellar chick and not hurt her. Much. ;) They're here. I can smell 'em. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 2:29:48 PM | YES AND I WILL NEVER IN MY LIFE EVER GIVE UP ON MANKIND.. IT IS JUST THE WAY ARE SOCIETY HAS RAISED THE LAST 2 GENERATIONS.. BUT THERE ARE STILL A LOT OF MEN WHO ARE RAISED WITH RESPECT FOR WOMEN.. WHO ARE TOUGHT THAT MANHOOD IS VERY IMPORTANT TOO WOMENKIND.. AND THAT A GOOD HONEST DOLLAR IS HARD LABOR BUT IS WORTH EVERY SECOUND OF SWEAT YOU WORK FOR..
I BELIVE THAT THERE ARE MEN STILL OUT IN THE WORLD WHO CAN FIX ANYTHING BECOUSE THEY HAVE BEEN TOUGH 'COMMON SENCE'.. THIS IS LACKING IN ARE SOCIETY.
I BELIVE THAT THERE ARE GREAT MEN IN THIS WORLD WHO ARE ROMANTIC AND KNOW WHAT INTAMACY IS AND HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO AWOMEN..
I BELIVE THAT IF WOMEN WOULD JUST QUIT 'B'ITCHING SO DAMN ABOUT THIS AND THAT AND ACCEPT A MAN FOR WHO HE IS.. BUT NEVER ACCEPT DECEPTION.. WE WOULD ALL BE FINE.
I BELIVE THAT IF MANKIND WOULD WAKE UP AND ACCEPT THAT WOMEN ARE DETAILED AND IT IS MANS DUITY IN LIFE TO KNOW WHEN TO WALK AWAY FROM A ARGUMENT. SO HE CAN GET LAID LATER THAT NIGHT INSTEAD OF HAVING THE KIDS AND ROOF EXPLODE ..
So yes i belive and will always belive that there are great men in the world and i will find the man for me.. Who is a handy man.. who is a family orentated man even in his 40'/50's still loves the family setting. Who knows that women are not responisible for monthly cycles.. lol and that menipause is a natural thing.. so give a hug and make the women a bath and you will get laid at the end of the day.. then end.  | |
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