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| 'toooo many fish in the sea?'
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:02:12 PM | | It took me over two years to realize what a great fisherman they were. I had swallowed the bait hook, line and sinker! I began to sense the signs but was reassured they were just chatting with others and telling them they were involved and had a partner. So, I finally got the courage to find out, realizing I'd have to face the truth and accept it. So, I decided to go fishing and searched for the right waters to catch my shark in. I found 7 different waters they were fishing in and stopped my search and set my bait. The shark bit on my 'bait' on 2 of them, within 2 days! | |
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| 'toooo many fish in the sea?'
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:15:21 PM | Yea, we can afford to be way more picky, perhaps, but why's this a bad thing? Divorce rates are on the rise, and I have my own little idea as to why. Divorce used to be such a taboo thing that you had to be in a terrible situation to even think about contemplating about the idea of divorcing your partner. So when that swell fella from the box social turns out to be a self centered jerk and useless (remember, you weren't allowed to live with him before you married either) and absolutely intolerable, you just grin and bear it.
Today, if things go sour, you serve up divorce papers and join the other 1/2 of the class. Divorce is fine and dandy is you've got no kids, but once they get mixed into the equation, you start having innocent casualties, who happen to "mean the whole world" to you. Then you're left with a tough one, stay together in misery for the kids, or "screw the kids, they'll adapt" and divorce.
So, lets go back to "too many fish". Well, I can be more selective when picking my future wife. This, in theory only of course, should raise the chances of a successful marriage. That's not to say that this great power is being used with great responsibility, but at the very least opens up the possibility. Coming from a rather divorced family (from my grandparents down, no marriage has succeeded yet) I've seen how hard divorce is on kids and I'd hate to run my kids through that ringer. I'll gladly sit on my boat and fish until I find one that's juuuuuuuuuust right in hopes of not having to tell my kids "Daddy and Mommy love you, just not enough to deal with each other". | |
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| 'toooo many fish in the sea?'
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:12:07 PM | truth is, nice looking women get lots of emails and guys don't get too many. I only wish I could get as many emails as some females I have known. Most women say they want the nice guy that can say what they feel but from what I see it is mostly looks and age. I am a very young 55 but a lot of women wont even let you write to them if you are over 45 when they themselves are in their forties.  | |
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| 'toooo many fish in the sea?'
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:22:44 AM | If you are patient, true love always has a way of finding you.
Just believe and it will happen. | |
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| 'toooo many fish in the sea?'
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:35:41 AM | well ever heard the saying :"too much of one thing is not always good"?..well it definitely have some correlation to the topic at hand. Because of teh fact that peopel have so many choices, they can sometimes make teh wrong decision, but not only that; but having a lot of choices can make a potentila partner  from you, if you have a little "flaw" etc. The point is that it makes a lot of people picky, too choosy etc. and that isn't always a good thing. But at the same time its good that there are a lot of fishes here, simply because we have options. LOL..its weird but there is good and bad to having so many fishes. what can I say. Like they say, there are "two sides to everything". | |
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| 'toooo many fish in the sea?'
Posted: 7/8/2008 9:06:40 PM | | might be a case of some women looking for the perfect man what with so many choices on here. | |
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