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 Author Thread: Things in profiles that are a turn off?
 dori_is

Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 26
Things in profiles that are a turn off?
Posted: 10/10/2005 4:08:49 PM
Thats true pearlie - agreed
 sexykittenxx

Joined: 9/15/2005
Msg: 27
Things in profiles that are a turn off?
Posted: 10/10/2005 4:45:44 PM
No pictures, and people that put s** down as a hobby!
 hoping42

Joined: 9/2/2005
Msg: 28
Things in profiles that are a turn off?
Posted: 10/11/2005 12:40:22 AM
Profiles with "prefer not to say" all the way through.
Profiles with no picture or with pictures of just a dog/cat/car/cartoon etc.
Profiles with close up's of their cleavage or dressed in their undies.
Profiles with bad spelling and grammer or that are written in "text".
Profiles that say nothing at all.
 rockchick24/7

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/11/2005 2:33:45 AM
No. 11 Just photo's of groups of people....which one are ya???? (clue: its always the short, ugly one!!)
 Sir Wisdom of POF

Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 30
Things in profiles that are a turn off?
Posted: 10/11/2005 4:18:53 AM
A picture that has been altered. Is a real turn off.
Let ones beauty shine through the camera.
 irishsquaw

Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/11/2005 5:52:56 AM
THE WORSE ONE ON ANY SITE HAS GOT TO BE " I'M A YOUNG 45 YEAR OLD " WHEN CLEARLY THEY LOOK AROUND THE 60 MARK....GOOD LORD DO THEY THINK WE "ALL" NEED GLASSES.. IT USED TO BE SO FUNNY BUT NOW IT HAS GOT BEYOND A JOKE... NOW IF THEY ADMITTED TO BEING OLDER BUT SAID THEY FELT AND ACTED MORE LIKE 40 WELL THEY HAVE B***S AND ARE TO BE ADMIRED FOR THEIR HONESTY... HAS ANYBODY HERE LIED ABOUT THEIR AGE? I CUDNT BE BOTHERED I LIKE TO BE ADMIRED FOR LOOKING GOOD FOR 48, IF I DROPPED 10 YEARS THEY WUD TELL ME TO GET A LIFE...TEE HEE
Things in profiles that are a turn off?
Posted: 10/11/2005 7:07:43 AM
Sorry lass, Ive been drinking and smoking most of my life...tried pot once many years ago...did nothing for me! Never even felt inclined to touch drugs since!
 shrodCatUK

Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/11/2005 8:22:44 AM
I think the point girly19 is trying to make is that nicotine and alcohol *are* drugs.
Supposedly, nicotine is harder to get off than heroin. Add to this the fact that alcohol is one of the more toxic drugs available. This is mainly down to its being a very weak drug.
The constant repetition of the phrase 'Drugs and Alcohol' in the media may have warped our perception of this fact.
Maybe pot should not be demonised the way it is. After all, the medical benefits are astounding to those with MS, for example. Isn't it time it was legalised?
 ascar

Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/11/2005 8:41:50 AM
prefer not to say in profile and then says they are looking for honesty!

that stupid green banana thingy over and over again!

pictures of cleavage or underwear shots.

saying looking for friends and chat only, then not replying.
 nicegirl1

Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/12/2005 10:37:52 AM
Pictures of men wearing underwear but no face shown - how should that be interpreted?

Being constantly asked to show more pictures - i'm not prepared to share my photoalbums with those i hardly know

People sending the same messages all over again, not remembering what the response was
 irishsquaw

Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/12/2005 3:39:15 PM
yeah i agree with u both above......and why do ppl write down on their profile they are looking for their soulmate when clearly not the case when they are talking to you....after barely being introduced they want to cyber...get a life!!!! plz.....
 Sirburied

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/12/2005 3:53:56 PM
Pretty much agree with all on here but the arguments would carry more weight when those that complain about spelling and grammar don't make those very mistakes in their posts!
 sam909

Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 38
Things in profiles that are a turn off?
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:54:42 PM
profiles with... "prefer not to say"......which usually means a "yes".
 irishsquaw

Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/12/2005 4:01:22 PM
VERY GOOD SIRBURIED WELL SPOTTED LOL THANK GOD I NEVER SAID THOSE THINGS LOL AND YES SAM THEY DO MEAN "YES"...EVERYBODY KNOWS THEY MEAN YES AND THEY ARE INSULTING PPL'S INTELLIGENCE FOR HEAVENS SAKE...

BUT I CANT GRIPE 2 MUCH, COZ A LOT OF PPL HATE GROUP PICS AND THERE ARE MORE THAM ME IN PIC BUT I HAVE STATED I HAVE BLACK HAIR AND THEY STILL WANT TO KNOW WHICH ONE I AM BUT THE ONLY PICS I HAVE AT MIN IS GROUP ONES....SORRY!
 Shirley June

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/13/2005 7:40:12 AM
Quite honestly, I get very turned off by misplaced or lacking apostrophes, especially from adult,native English-speakers, as in "peoples favourites"...!

Nice photo though. I occasionally visit London...

SJ
 Shirley June

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/13/2005 7:45:06 AM
Dear Dori,

Did you mean "That's true, Pearlie."? (perlie? pearl? old chestnut???)

Illiteracy has many manifestations and is indeed a turn-off, especially from fellow native English-speakers such as the guy who sent in the thread!

SJ
 Shirley June

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/13/2005 7:46:29 AM
And people who can't spell "grammar".

SJ
 Shirley June

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/13/2005 7:47:45 AM
What about those people who can't spell the word "photos"? But you are excused if you are a Dutch-speaker!

SJ
 Shirley June

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/13/2005 7:50:12 AM
I get turned off by people who can't construct proper sentences. Missing apostrophes too, as in "peoples" and "ones".

But foreigners are excused.
 Shirley June

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/13/2005 7:53:54 AM
In Ireland do they say "worse" for "worst"? I like full stops anda minimum literacy level, especially from fellow English-speakers.

But I agree about the age issue. I never lie but most men do.
 BEETS

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 10/13/2005 8:54:35 AM
Erm...obvious lies about age. Lack of face pic. Profiles that are too negative i.e...Lots of writing about who they don't want replying without much about who they do. Bitter rants against men in profiles also get alarm bells ringing!
 busty23

Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/13/2005 8:58:36 AM
i hate these things in a profile....

lies about age...just be honest
underwear shots...save for the bedroom
naked body pics...same as above
pics of cars/house/animals etc etc...im not talking to them i wanna talk to you
 jack matser

Joined: 6/10/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/13/2005 9:10:06 AM
This aint so much of a turn off but a case of confusion. You look at a profile, shows a picture of a nice slim blonde/brunnette etc then where it says body shape they say 'prefer not to say'. DERRR HELLO..... or maybe you accidently down loaded the wrong pic and dont know how to delete it.
 BEETS

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/13/2005 9:16:06 AM
Spelling and grammar is not problem for me...Outside of work my spelling and grammar takes a nosedive anyway. What I do not like, however, is people in their late twenties onwards...using text speak in their profiles.

Also when profiles have only one short sentence it can be annoying.
 hoping42

Joined: 9/2/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/13/2005 9:42:38 AM
So, out of the 538 people that have viewed this thread so far, only 4 have managed to spot the deliberate mistake - Says a lot that does.
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