| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:25:52 PM | Married or bachelor, men understand women like they do quantum physics: We all make up theories, but most are disproven at any given moment.
I'll just do the Zen thing and offer her a drink. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:30:39 PM | Hell...some women don't even know themselves...you expect a man to unravel that mystery?? LoL  I think a man married or otherwise would have a better chance going on a suicide mission than to say he knows a woman. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/7/2007 10:30:29 PM | | Actually, the real answer is both..and neither.. There are married men who haven't a clue and bachelors that are that way for a reason! But some men are more natural than others at understanding the opposite gender. ( we can learn from them, guys ) Why don't we consider the possibility that the man who knows women better is the one who deliberately educates himself? Duhh, now there's a concept. As likely to happen for some guys as reading a map! | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/8/2007 3:16:49 AM | One day God decides to award one of his most faithful servants.
“What can I do for you?” he asks. “You’ve been such a good and faithful follower of mine.”
“Well,” says the man, “you know I’m prone to sea-sickness and I’m afraid to fly. I’ve never been to Hawaii & I’d love to visit there. Could you build me a bridge between the continental United States and Hawaii.”
“But that’s an almost impossible task,” God says: “even for me. Think of the engineering involved in something like that. Isn’t there anything else you’d like me to do for you?”
“Well,” the man says: “could you teach me how to understand women?”
“That bridge you were talking about,” says God after a moment’s thought: “exactly how many lanes did you want it to have?” | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/8/2007 4:08:05 AM | bachelorsheaven wrote:
ummm I think that would be "NEITHER"
Only person who knows a woman the best is her FATHER.. Now of course he doesn't know a thing about his own wife.. but he sure the heck knows his daughter...
Beautiful answer. This is because a good father looks at his daughter with a purer love. He's more objective about his feelings for her and his interest is in what is good for her not what he can get out of her.
If a man, whether single or married and not blinded by passion, could look at a woman as a father looks at his daughter then he WOULD know and understand her, and the world, pardon the cliche, would be a better place. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/8/2007 4:29:30 AM | I'm not a guy, but I am a woMAN, so I can post!
I don't think either knows a woman better. Every woman is different, so one cannot speculate. In a lot of cases, a guy meets a woman and she becomes his 'everything', then they wed, and she becomes his 'downfall', then they divorce and she's a lying, cheating blitch.
In other cases guy meets woman, she becomes his everything and stays his everything till the day they die!
Geez, I can't even understand women, and I am one! | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/8/2007 4:46:24 AM |
Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Neither bachelor, nor married has an advantage over the other.
A bachelor can study chart and graphs, or some guy can can be
married to the same woman for 30 years and still not know her.
Pay attention to her.
Listen to her.
Learn her. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/8/2007 1:38:12 PM | TIME FOR THE BITTER ANSWER OF THE DAY !!!
I would have to say guys who have avoided marriage, must have more insight. LOL
Honestly the players will know more because, the average guy has been with 5 women in his lifetime (I heard this average somewhere), and a player has been with hundreds, and they have done this by knowing what to say and how to act, to get the results they wanted quickly and was able to dodge the quagmire of marriage or LTRs.
Nice guys wind up married, and they dont really know how they wound up that way, the players run through women like a flaming katana through warm margarine, and they never look back at the bloodtrail of broken hearts. Is it the players fault ? I don't think so, you ladies choose them over the nice guys. Seems like you get what you pay for.
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/10/2007 2:22:37 AM | A woman wrote a blog and said the problem single men make with women is they treat them like screwed up men. They want logical answers to their relationship when there may not be any.
Married men realize that women can sometimes base their decision making on emotion and how they feel at the time while men try to soley base it on logic. We are both hard-wired very different. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/10/2007 7:54:01 PM | ... married men who also grew up with sisters, may have a slightly better advantage over other men in terms of knowing women better (or at least understanding how little they really do know ...)
methinks | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/13/2007 2:25:04 PM | Bachelors definitely know women better than the average married man. Example? Because I'm a bachelor, and I'm allowed to talk with different women, and know them better without fear of reprisal. Bachelors have the ultimate all-access rights to knowing women better.
But a married man is only allowed to understand the one woman he married and pretty much no one else. If a married guy gets caught trying to know other women, he certainly gets the reaction of a pissed-off wife at home!
This is for the people who don't think marriage takes away their freedom rights! | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/14/2007 5:57:30 AM |
Married or bachelor, men understand women like they do quantum physics: We all make up theories, but most are disproven at any given moment.
Now this, I believe, is an honest answer. I feel the same way about men.  | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 1/14/2007 7:00:16 AM | I think married men do who are still married and not fooling around.....
I have read so many profiles over the past few weeks...I always ask myself this....If a man puts he knows how to treat a woman and knows what they want... etc..
I end up thinking well If that man was so respectful and thoughtful and careing etc as his profile states then why is he (NOT) still married...
I mean common who are we kidding here.... women don't just leave if you treat them well
Tooo the single ones who have never married...many never really were in a proper relationship they think 1.5 years,,,,3 years here and there is a relationship.. its not...That is called just moving into the hurdles of life....Does not mean you really KNOW a woman..just means you know many women out there
OK.............I..JUST woke up here..*BLINK*BLINK*
So as for a dating site...I don't know...LOLOL | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 11/19/2007 8:33:19 PM | > A woman wrote a blog and said the problem single men
> make with women is they treat them like screwed up men.
No, the problem single women make with men is treating them like we're screwed up women.
> ...quantum physics: We all make up theories, but most are disproven at any given moment.
While this sounds profound, it's maybe because it really makes no sense. There's quite a large body of theories in this field which have stood the test of time, observation, and experimentation, and have not been disproven. Same goes for women.
I suppose it's not a huge surprise on a dating site to find a lot of men with a defeatist attitude regarding their ever being able to understand/know women. Perhaps they picked this up from dear old dad, who was chronically exasperated trying to understand mom (even after 15 or 20 years w/her), and just repeat it like a tape playback. If it worked for dad, it could very well work for them. Understanding women is not a prerequisite for having a relationship with one, and may even prove to be a distinct turn-off since being confusing can give one the upper hand as it keeps the other person off guard and always guessing. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 11/19/2007 8:56:01 PM | | When it comes to understanding women, for me.. I know what I don't know. Each woman is unique in her own way, and while there are similarities, they are each their own person and need to be related to in their own way. I try to learn, I make mistakes, and I go on. | |
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| Who know women better? ( Bachelors or Married man?)
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:00:30 PM | Do women even know themselves better? Seriously?
This question is not possible to answer IMO! I think if the man is married, single, whatever... The only women they "know" are their best friends! Other then that... They are pretty much f*cked! :D | |
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