| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/20/2005 10:21:15 PM | Iv'e been on and off here and what I'm finding is women who contact me seemed lost as to what they want in men. In your profiles LADIES, " I'm easy to get along with, down to earth"
that's not what's coming across when we chat. Take time to read the profile thoroughly.
Don't judge men on their appearance alone, I don't. Look inside as the person really is. Give the man a fair chance not by a single phone call or one meeting. The last man you were with may have been gorgeous but that didn't last did it? So like me you've ended up here. Be honest with men on this. Not bad looking guys so to speak, are good in other ways that attractive guys are not. Care and concederation, kindness, communication, compliments, and hugs will last a lifetime if you give that person a chance. | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/20/2005 10:22:25 PM | Iv'e been on and off here and what I'm finding is women who contact me seemed lost as to what they want in men. In your profiles LADIES, " I'm easy to get along with, down to earth"
that's not what's coming across when we chat. Take time to read the profile thoroughly.
Don't judge a person on their appearance alone, I don't. Look inside as the person really is. Give the man a fair chance not by a single phone call or one meeting. The last man you were with may have been gorgeous but that didn't last did it? So like me you've ended up here. Be honest with men on this. Not bad looking guys so to speak, are good in other ways that attractive guys are not. Care and concederation, kindness, communication, compliments, and hugs will last a lifetime if you give that person a chance. | |
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bitg
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Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 28 | |
| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/21/2005 3:54:01 AM | | I couldn't agree more with you stillalone, my ex was an extremly good looking man but emotionally and morally bankrupt. All I am looking for is a man that will treat me with the respect that I deserve. Someone who can make me feel loved and a safe place to fall. Someone that can differentiate between fact and fiction and had the conviction to stand up for what he says. So far not even close lol but still fishing | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/21/2005 7:57:17 PM | HONESTYHONESTYHONESTYHONESTYHONESTYHONESTYHONESTYHONESTYHONESTY is all I ask for and someone that you can connect with in many different way. Not someone that will make me feel safe for than that's an insecurity problem. lol.
just pure honesty and a great sense of humour. and a job. lol. not a lot to ask for . tired of taking care of bums out there.
k, i must be tired.
later yall | |
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bitg
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Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 30 | |
| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/22/2005 4:39:37 AM | | Safe does not equal insecurity it means to me anyway that there is trust,honesty great communication a true connection and none of the second guessing BS games. | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/24/2005 7:40:37 PM | "I just want to find
A heart like mine"
(Heart like Mine, by Blue Rodeo)
ps. A women the knows all the words to most of Blue Rodeo songs would be nice too.
J. | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/29/2005 11:43:58 PM | You know.....I didn't think this was too much to ask, but for some reason it's turning out to be. All I want to find is someone that will be in a relationship and give it their all!!! Someone to experience the good and the bad of the relationship and know that each day is a growing experience and not have to feel that they have to run when things don't go their way.
Relationships are all about give and take.....very much like a partnership!! | |
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mb0435
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Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 35 | |
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jdguy
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Joined: 3/6/2005
Msg: 36 | |
| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 10/30/2005 1:29:49 AM | | I dont think it is too much to ask AznStorm. Each day is about discovering each other, and treasuring what you know about each other. Maybe you just havent met the right person yet, dont give up. There are a few fishes that feel as you do, maybe it is a matter of letting one into your life. Who knows, maybe you know him already and he has taken your bait, and you just need to reel him in. Stranger things have happened i guess. | |
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jdguy
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Joined: 3/6/2005
Msg: 37 | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 11/29/2005 10:58:26 AM | so if we can all get together and have a great time doing it, why are we still looking? What is in a picture? There are lots of profiles without and the ones with and how is that one person can go out in the baggy jeans and long sleeved shirt to the neck and be surrounded by the beautiful people. It is not the picture that attracted the guys it was the personality. The short skirts and clevage dont always work, it all looks good just like the pictures, but unless you actually take the time to get out there and meet, then you will never know what you get. The get togethers are a great way to meet the one out there and get to see what they are like. If just takes the time to make the effort.......So go forth and take the chance to meet someone and get the connection going. A friendship can turn into a relationship if given the chance...........Happy fishing.........    | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 12/6/2005 8:47:15 PM | so I have had the pleasure of talking to a few guys for the site and the general consensus is that the women on here are not too sure what they want.... So what is it the you want?????
The profile says you want honest and caring guys that you can sit and watch movies with and hold and dance with or just sit and talk to and yet you get the nice ones contacting you and you throgh them back into the sea????and I know that there are the same with the girls that the guys throw back.... We as girls have the shark look out for one another, now the question arises, do the guys have the "cougar" look out for themselves to warn others about us....
These get togethers seem to draw the interests so why is it that we can not connect outside of the gatherings? Why cant we meet one on one with the ones we met at the gatherings? Coffee will hurt no one and maybe dinner would be nice too. So why are we scared to go out with someone we have already met at a gathering???
WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN THE POND?????????????? | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 12/14/2005 8:17:47 PM | Knew I had seen it somewere before..... the one about what we are all looking for from the pond site?? well I am looking for my little peice of heven. He is preoccupied at the time and I am hoping everthing goes well for him and hope that he knows I am here for him to lean on if need be.
So what is it that you want???? And how do you think you will find it????? Do you think it is in the pictures we so readily admire or criticize? Is it in the forums were we are a little more bold or creative in our thinking? Is it in the profile we post that says we are looking for the one we are meant to be with? Or is it in the get togethers we create as a basis to get to know someone or just look at them and say, "that isnt the person in the picture".
What is it we are all seeking in the pond and why is the picture more important then getting to know someone for who they are in real?
Take it away and let us really know what you want to find........    | |
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| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 12/14/2005 8:40:44 PM | From a guy's view, mine anyways, just looking to meet someone who is willing to talk, laugh, snicker, giggle, listen, be listened to, share feelings, not share feelings, bicker about the Habs and the Maple leafs, rice or potatoes with dinner and so on. I'm sure some guys want just the "booty call" but many of us are also old enough to realize that life is too short to worry about stuff like that. We are beyond that thing and want just the simpler things like what I mentioned. The rest can fall in place if things go great. If not then life goes on. No one is perfect, though perfection is what YOU think it is, even though the other person may disagree with your assessment on them. I've seen what some women and men want and to them I say, you'll die old and lonely. I know you cannot just "settle" for person X but some of the standards some want are crazy....anywho, like you babs, many of us men just want friendship, companionship, someone to make you feel complete. Not a whole lot to ask. Is it?
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AxyL
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Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 45 | |
| What are you looking for in the fish pond?????
Posted: 12/14/2005 9:23:54 PM | If you read my profile it explains almost exactly not taking into consideration walking down the street minding my own business and all of a sudden "Bam" your in Love.
Chemistry with the right girl could make me overlook so much just for a taste of her sweet Love.
Lightening crashes the earth moves she makes me want to be a better man than I am, etc... | |
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weR1
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Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 47 | |
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