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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/9/2005 10:45:06 PM | | Some might consider me to be hott...but trust me !!! I have serious issues .. MAJOR ones !!! I am one of the most crazy, irrational, insecure, commitment phobed, emotionally challenged women one will meet ... and I'm not getting any younger dammit !! | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/9/2005 10:58:21 PM | I'm just saying that everyone has something that they don't want the other to know from the start .. even the hotties... I never let my "eye candy" know about my gas...maybe I should've and it would've lasted a lil longer .. like a week ...
any who ... I'm not easily intimidated until I start to actually care about someone, then I start walking on egg shells... Am I getting off the topic? I just have so much to say !!! | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/9/2005 11:03:57 PM | Its only happened once to me. I was pretty young at the time, so that could have been why.
I was in Montreal with friends and we were joined by others that included a girl that was a model. She was so STUNNING that I went into this juvenile shyness thing that was so weird. It wasn't a sexual thing either. I don't remember checking her out in that way.
Makes you wonder. I hope she is happy. | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/10/2005 1:48:29 AM | | Sure, you have to trick yourself into snapping out of it somehow, the hotter they are, the more they have been told that by people, and the more sick they are of people staring. It is all about being detached from outcome, and not being afraid to upset or challenge the person. Don't give them a chance to disqualify you, don't fit into the box that 99% of people will fall into. Be aloof. If I can think of something better I will be back. | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/10/2005 2:03:55 AM | | I will surely do my very best in disguise my true feelings; perhaps if I put a mask of unintentional automatic charm, she may give me a favorable response... Oh... perhaps by applying Pavlov and his conditional reflex rules to the whole dating arena... but for now I will run to hide, I mean run to re-group and prep a new offensive, ready for the battle. | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/10/2005 2:06:45 AM | | ya don't tell her she is hot dude, if she is then she already knows, or at least is tiered of hearing it. Tell her latter, much latter, do things for a reason to, speak and move gradually, say things with the aim of making her interested in a pleasant idea, find common ground. At the same time don't be overly focused on what she wants, have fun, try to see the humour in it, that's all i got. | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/10/2005 2:23:37 AM |
any who ... I'm not easily intimidated until I start to actually care about someone, then I start walking on egg shells... Am I getting off the topic? I just have so much to say !!!
Quite on the contrary S'n'G...I have always found that being personable, wearing your 'quirks' on your sleeve and all that jazz, is what MAKES attraction, NOT breaks it. If you are friends, dating, lovers, or more...that's the good stuff!
OT: Always. The carnal desire to impress pretty much screws it up every time. No matter what I plan to say, it never sounds smooth or sincere when I say it. The only time I'm not intimidated one way or another is when I can write the things out with all my heart, then I don't need to fear a response that isn't what I wanted it to be.
I also have a tendency to just express everything outright and lay all my cards on the table. Maybe I don't have the time to beat around the bush or something, but it usually doesn't work. | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/10/2005 2:54:44 AM | | I used to believe in the whole "she's out of my league" idea, but it's bull. There are no leagues. We're all just people. There was this one gorgeous girl I used to think was totally out of my league. I was intimidated at first, but finally one day I snapped and (quite aggressively, I must say) made my move and it worked. Ever since then, I have never been intimidated by great looks. | |
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| ever been intimidated by someone who you think is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??
Posted: 10/10/2005 6:17:05 PM |
Dudes, you realize that MOST men feel this way, and so MOST hot women go without actually meeting GREAT guys as a result. Come on!!!!! They dont bite.
I totally agree....now I don't think of myself as one of those hot women but I can say that Men STARE at me all the time and it makes me uncomfortable but no one ever approaches me...And it drives me nuts....Maybe I am not that attractive to the opposite sex and they are looking at me for some other reason...But I wish a girl just knew.....I am sooo shy and I think the only way a I would approach a guy is if I totally knew he was interested...I guess it's my fear of rejection...Man am I ever glad I am not a guy!!!
Take a chance on some of us girls...don't just stare at us...Sometimes we can't read minds....I wish I could though...maybe...HEHE | |
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