| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/6/2006 4:11:33 PM | Mine happened over the phone after a year and ahalf...despite having seen me earlier that day. He said it was something that just 'came to him'  Not to mentiont the fact of sleeping with me twice the day he broke up with me. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/6/2006 4:11:39 PM | | [ at least he wrote, some don't ever write back so you are left hanging thinking you have been dump but not really sure hmmmm rather she write then I can stop wasting my time trying to talk to them ] I hear ya, mike. I cant stand when someone talks to you for a while and then all of a sudden disappears, I would much rather an email saying he doesnt want to talk anymore, than just to wonder. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/6/2006 4:20:35 PM | think a lot more ppl have been dumped via email or an Instant messenger of sorts than wood like to admit
i've been dumped too thru these method's ... go figure
o well its that person's loss and another person's gain | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/6/2006 10:44:33 PM | | Actually now that I think of it I am guilty of dumping someone over msn, tho we werent dating she just thought we were. It was one date and the girl kept tryin to invite herself over to my house after that, where Im from thats rude so she kinda had it coming expecially since after the first I had no intention of havin a second. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/6/2006 10:48:23 PM | | only valid if you're pissed....in that case it's perfectly fine. | |
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TruGen
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Joined: 6/5/2006
Msg: 131 | |
| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/7/2006 5:53:12 AM | | he's an insensitive coward if you've been together for a while or if you've just met he's just being efficient (I guess) | |
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| Get real, rejects!
Posted: 6/10/2006 3:57:40 AM | [if you only had one meeting after connecting on POF. That is not getting dumped and email is fine.]
Gawd there is one guy on here who is moaning and ****ing, and I must tell y'all...
the moron is talking about a girl he chatted to via email & msn, & mobile, for a couple of days, who made no commitment to him, they met once, nothing intimate, and then wrote him a civil email telling him she wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship with him.
It's not gettind DUMPED, DUMBO!
It's called, She's NOT that INTO you!
frustrating! | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/10/2006 3:59:58 AM | | all i have to say is he is a DUMBASS!!!!!!!! | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/10/2006 4:06:39 AM | Welcome to generation Y otherwise know as chicken shytes are us.
Reciprocate with a PFO letter.Please F off! | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/11/2006 12:16:48 PM | Yes, dumping by email is bad, even worse dumping by MSN... but to be dumped
without a word.. that is the worst.
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 6/11/2006 1:27:31 PM | I think it is cowardly. I've been broken up with by phone and we were able to calmly discuss the relationship and I've done breaking up via phone too. I only get royally pi$$ed off when someone breaks up with me via email - it's so impersonal and there is no excuse for it (I also try to avoid any serious conversations). Face to face is best, but when that is not an option, phone is okay. So many wrong things can be construed via email.
And I'm not talking dumping someone you went on one or two dates with either - it applies to relationships that are more intimate than just getting to know you phase. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/10/2006 12:27:56 PM | We all must admit though that is how things are done these days...though it sucks but get use to it people. On-line dating and such is the way now, therefore it should be expected to get dumped via email, etc because that is how most of us communicate amongst each other today...agree? Yes, it has happened to me as well and I must say I have done it myself. So the ones that at least acknowledge via email that they aren't interested, thank you for at least doing that instead of not saying anything cause that has to be the worse. My opinion anyway. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/10/2006 12:34:11 PM | | LOL - I was asked for a divorce over email : ) | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/10/2006 12:45:51 PM | I dont think it matters one way or the other. I have been dumped on yahoo IM and didnt give it a second thought. Call me sick but the end result is still the same, you've been served!  | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/10/2006 12:52:12 PM | Forget about it as best you can. It's not worth dwelling over, honest.  | |
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Musabi
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Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 142 | |
| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/10/2006 12:54:39 PM | | What a coward. He didnt deserve you anyways if he is going to treat anyone like that. Out of respect for the other person you should do it face to face. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/11/2006 7:33:19 PM | | Nah! He should have started a thread in POF. Would that have been better, hun? | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:00:05 PM | I will come clean and admit I am one of those idiots that has dumped the love of my life right here on pof!! I loved this woman and got cold feet as I have been hurt in 2 other relationships really bad,But I have since explained to her my real reasons as we still talk and hang out and you know now that I have been away from her I am not afraid of our situaation anymore in fact I told her I want to work it out and get back together cause now that I seen how stupid I was I realize she was my soulmate and I couldnt see past my ego to figure it out!!
Just hoping she says yes and forgives me!!!
Im not to proud to call myself an idiot and I tell you one thing I would definatly talk things out before I ever do a stupid thing like that again!!
Learn from your mistakes I did (The hard way).. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:26:09 PM | at least you got an email...i didn't get shyt lol | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:27:52 PM | Nope ive never been dumped by email, but is there a good way to DUMP some1 , look at the word it just envokes anger/betrayal/pity. But as i wrote in my last post wheres all the communication gone?? No1 says hi at the convenience store, the post office .....?
Whats a good way to DUMP some1 , there isnt , its gonna be hard no matter how its done , but being dumped by email , its cowardly. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:30:51 PM | | YUP..............I think its the cowards way of dumping someone | |
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| Re: Dumped by Email!
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:37:05 PM | Sometimes (and maybe I'm only speaking for myself) the jiltee wants the jilter to do it in person so there's a slight possibility to talk the person out of breaking up. Otherwise, as one responder reflected, why would I want my x to see how his breaking up with me makes me hurt?
... I would only want that done in person IF I had ideas of trying to hang on. | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:41:11 PM | Yes, after 9months of being together and assuming we were bf/gf...I said the "L" word(another thread) this was during the winter months...when spring came along..the snow melted lust was in the air..so he started getting emails from his paid personals he has not been on since last fall..he decided to email back a few and go meet them behind my back..
One was a drama queen going through a bad divorce and had three kids..he wanted to be her savior..
Where did that leave me?? The last weekend we were together there were signs something was wrong..he was not his happy go lucky self. He said he has some things on his mind and I thought it was his daughter( a long story) so I tried to cheer him up...well he got cheered up..he drank alot and was lovey dovey..until he passed out...
Then he disappeared for a week..no emails, no IM's no phone calls...I was frantic ..I called his brother and he said he is ok..he is around and he will leave him a message to contact me..
a couple of days later I got an email at work....he said he was staying with the gal he met online because he was really attracted to her..he felt like as a$$ for leading me on..but he could not see both of us..it would not be right..so he decided to be with her and help her through her divorce and be there for her... | |
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| Dumped by email !
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:42:05 PM | | I have! Not proud to say but it has happened to me cause they were too scared of telling me in person. Its just like in a snail mail letter but gets to you faster. I call it a "Dear Jane" letter like they do in war films when a guy gets a "Dear John" letter when their girlfriend/wife dumps them while they are over seas. I just wish he had done it to my face cause maybe it wouldn't of hurt so bad. | |
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