| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 5:05:33 AM | OK instead of ugly aesthetically challenged  the op thinks that that by haveing her be aesthetically challenged she won't leave him for another | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 5:46:50 AM | I couldn't wade through all ten pages, but many times an ugly woman or man is so insecure in herself that she or he have to seek others to make them feel better about themselves, to let them know that they are desirable, so, in this respect, many of them cheat as well. Lol, did you ever watch Jerry Springer? Wow, some of those people are UUUUGGGGLLLLYYYY, and they are still fooling around.
Look for character in a woman, morals, and treat her right, make her feel loved and beautiful and secure in your love, then she won't be seeking other's approval or feel the need to tell you that others think she is beautiful. Look for beauty inside, it radiates to the outside and then, and only then, is a person truly beautiful. | |
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a_vamp
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Joined: 4/24/2004
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 6:49:08 AM |
Should men marry ugly women? At least we know they will stay true..
Not true. Same logic as "ugly men" can cheat on ya too. I happen to know a complete loser who live off his loaded kid brother BUT has 1 wife and 3 mistresses... I wouldn't call anyone ugly if I can help it but I'll probably shoot myself if I ever wake up beside this guy... you get the picture.... | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 6:50:24 AM | Beauty is a natural gift that is granted too early in life. Many who possess it succumb to relying on it and leveraging it for their needs. And if they use it to manipulate or build themselves over others and without regard for anyone else's feelings or needs, would you really respect them?
In the animal world, females are attracted to power, males are attracted to beauty.
I once read, "To test a man, give him power." Alternately I would add, "To test a woman, give her beauty."
Understand the weaknesses of animals ...try to be a human. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 7:07:26 AM | | That is the shallowest thing I have ever heard. Drop dead gorgous or " ugly" who the hell cares. In 20 years what are you going to do? divorce your wife because she no longer looks pretty. There is so many people out there that are so caught up on looks. As long as they have a good heart and take good care of themself then who cares what they look like. Besides I think if you have a good heart that is when someone is pretty. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 7:13:33 AM | | Marrying an ugly woman isn't any guarantee that she won't find some ugly ole guy and run off with him. Beauty has nothing to do with fidelity. Marry a quadraplegic...you know she ain't gonna run anywhere! | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:52:01 AM | the true beauty radiates from within... a heart of pure gold... a true beauty would not cheat as it would tarnish the beauty radiating from within...  | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 233 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 11:00:07 AM | Gibve me an ugly dumpster poor looking gerry springer woman anyday , still has the same body parts
I have seen this with my friends time and time again , I had a friend that had problem with women , he loved very beautiful women but he had problems with them , he was so nice they walked all over him , he chose the most ugliest girl he knew , was a good friend , years later he is still happily married and has 3 shildren , I aked him if he is happy , he answers yes always . His wife inspired and motivated him to be more than a gardener , he is now an airplane pilot for british airways or some airline like that and has small delivery company . Thsi guy is pretty good looking , looks like a young peirce brosnan (spelling) with the muscles of conan . She has a very big nose , small eyes , almost noo boobs or butt, frizzy hair and has very thin lips , she is not horrible but nothing to see for almost any guy.
I asked him if he married one of those women that he was really attracted to if he would have been still married , he said he would have been divorced like them . Being the way they were, they beleived that life was their game and that they deserved alot more than they could get , they were used to be the center of attention and used to receive lifes rewards constantly and get what they want.
The ugly woman he said usually were more humble , did not always get what they wanted , they compriomsed more and accepted what they could get , they were used to having people make not nice remarks to them , they love it when someone is interested in their friendship , especially males , they want the attention other women get and when they get it they are "happy" and appreciative.
He learn to love her , he loves her alot and it shows , he is a family guy 100 percent , he says he is one of the fortunate .
Not all women of that attraction scale is like that but I see it and been told in some ways about the quality inside , only when they are not Jerry springer chick insane.
I married my wife (RIP) not being attracted to her , I am not joking so do not flame , she had no teeth all were false , her hair was falling , she was balding , she had a curved spine , broken tear ducts that made her look as if she was crying 24/7 , she had a crooked leg , spots all over her body that changed with time and got darker depending on the day , she was a little chubby, had 6 months to live ... was and orphane at 14 and lived alone , I met her when she was 18
She was humble , giving , she told me life showed her that all she could do was to give what she can , she hardly received anything good in life all was pain and insult , to one that was so good inside , good to me , trustworth , not full of herself , I gave her the gift of love nad marrriage , she gave me all she could until her last day 5 years later , i married her because she was like a breath of fresh air , most women I know and know are selfish little kittens and do not see that .
She was not particularly un atractive but became my project , I fix cars from the junkyard the throw aways of others and make them show cars , I fixed most of her heaith and physical problems until she was considered so hot to most guys young as 13 to old guys , she was so physically beautiful and fit to the point that she was tring for the olympics in swimming and did some modeling of her own designs and fancy hotels . I miss her she died as a very hot woman , like my fair lady , the movie .
Bottom line , life and the way life treats and teaches us determines how we will be made inside .
I guess that is why the legend of the marrying and ugly woman lives, not that beautiful women have the same experiences that determine how they will be , it is usually mauch different , guys know that .
I still want a beautiful woman with ugly humble woman learning experiences , hard to find though . | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 12:58:25 PM | True some cuties are trouble because they have options......
I have known some less attractive women that were very charming.
Answer none of the above........
There has be a reason you are attracted....... otherwise it will not happen  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:03:50 PM | | You need to get some self-confidence and then wait to see if you would write the comment you just posted. Seriously, it's all about self-confidence. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:12:52 PM | Women don't cheat because they're pretty. They cheat because they have no morals.....just like a lot of men.
Or were you suggesting that ugly women don't get offers?? Hate to rain on your parade but "women all have a bottom" and that's the part that's used to cheat. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:15:30 PM | i am not so sure I would agree with that one....... it's one thing to bag a trophy like you ..... it's another to keep her  if we think for an instant it won't last .... why bother...... . can't fish for trophies all the time..... gotta catch something to eat too  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:24:48 PM | i don't usually go for the gorgeous types. way too vain, picky, always something with 'em. too much to worry about - life's short, and there are PLENTY of 'middle of the road' dames that are much more practical. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:26:44 PM | | Now i know you guys are probably going to hate me for telling the truth but i am going to add my two cents anyways. Ugly women are less likely to cheat. There are several reasons for this. One reason is that no other guys will want anything to do with them. Another is that they appreciate their man more because no one else dated them so they learn to hold on to what they have. The reason why hot girls are more inclined to cheat is because they know they have options. Even if they don't cheat they are more likely to leave the relationship then to try and tough it out. I know all you hotties out there are going to get offended but thats what I believe to be true. Now this doesn't mean that all hotties are going to cheat but it does mean they are more inclined to cheat because they are used to getting what they want and they know they always have options. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:28:23 PM | | Way to flaunt those insecurites! Hope you weren't intending on contacting any women on this site because after they read that, your success rate may go to 0. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:32:59 PM | my present success rate = 0
my needed success rate = 1
btw what reenie said..... it comes down to morals | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:37:07 PM | [spoken like a true jacka$$ ]
You are SO right!! | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:48:26 PM | | No...just marry a woman who is truly confident in herself such that she doesn't need to fluant her looks nor exploit her goods nor care to attract nor notice that kind of attention, and consequently does not feel a need to come home and tell you all her stories about how much attention she received. That sounds like a very insecure person to me...and I frankly would get tired of hearing all the stories. So, she doesn't have to be ugly...just confident and not insecure for you guys to be happily ever after. I can understand if she's constantly getting attention from men, but that can be easily detracted by simply not paying attention to it/ignore it...simple :) That also shows respect for you...and that goes both ways. | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 244 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/27/2005 8:57:31 PM | How do you know that you (OP) weren't your ex's "ugly" choice?
Make sure you put on your profile that you are looking for an ugly woman, and let her know that you're insecure...oh wait, you already did that by posting this thread!
Implying that someone that YOU don't find attractive won't cheat because they're too ugly is just stupid! Ugly people cheat, beautiful people cheat, fat, skinny, healthy, unhealthy...
And wouldn't your future bride be SOOOO happy to know that your whole family looks at her as the hideous beast you settled for. She's a lucky girl! | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/28/2005 5:07:19 AM | | hey OP heres a line for you to use (wanted one woman that fell from the top of the ugly tree and hit every branch as you fell down through it. If you didn't hit every branch don't apply.) | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/28/2005 5:16:21 AM | just keep in mind.. that a woman who you feel is Ugly.. maybe drop dead gorgeous to another.. remember all these men folk out there have different taste.. some like em short, some tall, some fat, some skinny, etc etc..
so.. truely.. she maybe "Ugly" in your eyes.. but not in anothers..
Jelously is Jelously.. and I think that you need to work on that within yourself..
why?? because if you have a woman who you think is beautiful hanging off your arm.. and you are secure in that she only has eyes for you.. then don't get bent out of shape when other men look at her.. cause after all.. who is she going home with?
that little green eyed monster shows up a lot.. and sometimes we blame our actions on external issues instead of saying.. hell I have green eyed monster issues.. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/28/2005 5:40:54 AM | | dog mommy you got me on that i sure don't know why it would still be going | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:38:50 AM | To Hill Valley Hick:
It's not the hotties who will get offended, it's the "ugly" women (please note quotes). You are being very cruel.....also inaccurate....and boy have you got a lot to learn. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 12/28/2005 5:48:31 PM | | Even now once in a awhile I get times when I consider my self unattractive or ugly then I have to vebally get myself back on track and remember beauty comes from within and radiates outward. Sure I can understand grabbing at scraps of kind treatment and appreciating scraps of tender looks. | |
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