| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:09:10 PM | | I think that comment to Jenza was out of line. Insulting someone who disagrees with you is crass. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:11:23 PM | | Marry a great woman and in your world there will none more beautiful whether her packaging fits a stereotype or not. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:11:34 PM |
Unless you have some agenda behind it?
elle very true | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:13:06 PM | I think that comment to Jenza was out of line. I think insulting someone who disagrees with you is crass.
Disagree with me? How would she disagree with me if she does not know what I meant in the first place?? It was not insulting, am I suppose to think she's beautiful or something? The comment did not follow her well. Sorry if you or her or anyone feels it's out of line, I think her rude comment was out of line, when she should have asked more questions before assuming I was insecure with myself. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2005 1:18:54 PM | ^^I think Jenza knew all to well for you man. Her point was articulate and obvioously quite accurate. And she is beautiful man, inside and out. If she wasn't she wouldn't be here trying to help you with that unhealthy attitude. Run up the Sandias, you need an adjustment man. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:24:46 PM | helping me?? Having an attitude helps me how? I'm not insecure with myself, it was rude, irrational, egocentric. To each man his own, you find her beautiful that's cool, but does that mean I need to? Have a beer and relax man | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:28:18 PM | Why thank you DC honey.
There was always something like competition going on within me, like if I was good enough to keep this woman because so many men wanted her.
That ^^^ comment from the OP bears repeating, it is why I made my statement about insecurity.
BTW: I never said I was beautiful. What I said was:
Secure, self-confident guys get/handle beautiful women.
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:28:20 PM | Guys...we are not here to bash one another...are we? We all have our opinions and SOMETIMES it is best to keep them to ourselves. Let's keep the comments on the subject at hand rather than make derogatory comments about someone's appearance or state of mind.
There are enough people in the world ready to take you down with their words and actions...we don't need it here too...
Linda  | |
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guyd40
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 34 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:30:26 PM | | Should a woman be of feel this beautifull to the point where she pleasure herself by making me feel inferior or simply like shit, I wouldn't take long to tell her to go **** herself. I may be harsh but I had too much crap in my life. I don't take anything anymore. Does it mean that I would go for the ugly woman, hell no, I'll stay alone instead. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:30:42 PM | | You say "Ex" is this the reason you two broke up? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:31:47 PM | | i am beginning to think hot/beautiful equals lonely. the more i read online of all the topics solely based on apperiences and general stereotypical statements, i might just have take a bow out of this site. how would people feel if a large amount of topics were of ugly people and generalizing them? there are about 7-8 billion people in this world and to assume only ugly women are marriage material or good looking women cannot be online is obserd. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:32:02 PM | blu eyed gal said >>>> "just how to you "know" that?" (When a woman is ugly.)
I say>>> Like the US Supreme Court said about pornography, "I know it when I see it!" | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:34:26 PM | So we can move forward here without rude comments jen
There was always something like competition going on within me, like if I was good enough to keep this woman because so many men wanted her.
Meant there was insecurity in the relationship, competition going on with me was with reguards to the relationship, not me as a man and my place in the world.
Thanks again not, your advice is well noted and taken, thank you sweetie..
-Atone | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:38:13 PM |
You say "Ex" is this the reason you two broke up?
No, actually it wasn't. But, did it have anything to do with the bigger picture, maybe.. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 1:58:13 PM | Atoneman,
I still think you are hot, does that mean that you would cheat on me if we were married? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 2:05:24 PM | A relationship shouldn't be about looks.
Marry someone you think is beautiful (we all know that beautiful to one person can be simply so so to someone else), have a wonderful relationship, and don't worry about it. If you end up with someone who is devastatingly gorgeous in a universal sense and they flaunt it in your face all the time and use it as an excuse to cheat, that relationship probably wasn't meant to be in the first place. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 2:10:00 PM | | atone it's never a guarantee no matter what you do. i really don't need to be with a woman that's drop dead gorgeous, but i'm not going to be with someone that i can't even stand to look at myself. i don't think i could be happy doing something like that. i don't think all women are like that. just because your with an average, to a good looking woman doesn't mean your always going to have problems with her being with other men. it's the way she is inside that counts. i'll take my chances. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2005 2:19:12 PM |
I still think you are hot, does that mean that you would cheat on me if we were married?
I have never cheated, when I'm in a realtionship I give her all my loyalty, and thank you for the comment (again) you are sweet.
-Atone | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 2:34:06 PM | | Thanks for the beer man, all the more relaxing. All I was saying, however voiciferously, is that the insecurity comment seemed spot on to me. If you can't be convinced of another one's loyalty and fidelity it doesn't matter whether they are a 1 or a trillion on the richter scale of attraction. As callous as Jenza came off to you I found it to be invaluable advice however succinctly judgemental it may have appeared to you. | |
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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 45 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 2:39:37 PM |
Just because someone's goodlooking, doesn't mean they automatically have character flaws.
Hot girls get hit on, period.
Dosn't matter if they are single or not, so its the temptation that they are subjet to, and people are weak. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 2:42:02 PM | | *Everybody* gets hit on, and everybody gets tempted. I know some rather unfortunate looking people who are regular screw machines and cheat in every relationship they get in. If you date or marry someone stereotypically gorgeous they may get hit on more than others, but if the relationship is strong you shouldn't have anything to worry about. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 2:42:31 PM | | Soooooooome people are weak. Please let's not generalize. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2005 2:42:40 PM | chatoplay
blu eyed gal said >>>> "just how to you "know" that?" (When a woman is ugly.)
I say>>> Like the US Supreme Court said about pornography, "I know it when I see it!"
You misunderstood. I asked that twice in reponse to two things Atone wrote:
1. that ugly women will stay true and
2. that the ugly wives of his 14 uncles have never cheated
I wasn't referring to "when a woman is ugly" | |
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Posted: 10/12/2005 2:49:23 PM | I agree with this totally. If you have too brag to your mate every day that someone hit on you, the person has a problem.
Mae | |
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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 50 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:03:38 PM |
*Everybody* gets hit on, and everybody gets tempted.
You honestly believe that ? I never get hit on, or are you generalizing for all women ? Take a look around these forums there are plenty of girls saying they don't get talked to.
My point still stand, attractive people are going to get a lot more attention that average or ugly. | |
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