Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 51 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:04:38 PM |
Soooooooome people are weak. Please let's not generalize.
In the right situation, I'd say a majority. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:11:45 PM | My ex stayed on dating sites because he couldn't handle other men hitting on me...even tho I would turn them down every single time and gave him NO reason not to trust me.. He stayed on them he said, cause he was sure I'd dump him for someone better.
So I got majorly hurt cause he was insecure. Much like the OP, very insecure. So go marry your ugly woman, just keep in mind, just cause she doesn't get as much attention as someone gorgeous doesn't mean she's not gonna be turned off by your insecure ass. :) | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:12:04 PM |
You honestly believe that ? I never get hit on, or are you generalizing for all women ?
Yep, I believe that. I'm not good looking and I get hit on. You're cute, so I'm sure that if women don't talk to you there are plenty who want to.
I definitely agree that extraordinarily good looking people will get hit on more, but everyone gets tempted and has the opportunity to stray when in a relationship. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:19:43 PM | I agree with you. Looks doesn't decied if the person will cheat or not....It all depends on the persons morals lol  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:45:52 PM | I think ugly women cheat too
I think marry a hottie
and just be comfortable with yourself
ie
do not base your happiness on other people
If an ugly girl cheats on you
she is just as much a troll as if a hottie cheats on you | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:55:17 PM | | Atoneman , sound like ur ex was a manipulater.......... | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 3:58:15 PM | Wow, this is quite revealing! Ummmm to the OP...I was just wondering if perhaps it occurred to you that a decent woman WOULDN'T come home to concern her boyfriend/fiance/husband with the tedious and jealousy provoking details of the males who are pursuing her. I'm sure it was doing wonders for her ego while giving you more gray hair...not that she actually cared huh?
Secondly, men are VERY intimidated by very beautiful/gorgeous women and they are actually more rarely approached than your plain and pretty counterparts so I think something smells really fishy with that. She's probably encouraged their approaches and then brought it home for the ole "See how great I am?" deal.
In other words sir, I think your ex was part of the problem...and not the solution.
Looks fade, but an immature personality is just plain unappealing. I don't care how she looked, she sounds pretty ugly to me. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 59 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 4:21:42 PM | i hear what your saying man.. I dated a few hotties in my time and it was the same thing.. cant go no place with out people all over her, or someone always trying to sneek in..it tends to get old and drawn out.. cute is better..avarage,
also it had nothing to do with insecurity with me.. I let her do what ever she pleased. i trusted her totaly.. but that was my down fall.. | |
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Tinum
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Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 60 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 4:46:26 PM | | I hear what you say man. Attraction is important for me too and you gotta to decide what it is you want in a woman. Myself i am willing to take the chance to go out with someone particulary pretty but after a while if this person act a certain way and can't get enough attention and even provoke it it gets really anoying and thats when she starts to look less and less pretty. that's when you go back to the good allsome girls that are natural beauties without thinking aobut it. thos eyou call little country girl who are capabale in all sort and clean up extremely well, glitz is nothing, MIss beautiful will remain miss beautiful up until they reach 55 and sag jsut like the rest and then what? they gona sit on the corner of their bed at night crying nobody loves them for who they are. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:06:25 PM |
i hear what your saying man.. I dated a few hotties in my time and it was the same thing.. cant go no place with out people all over her, or someone always trying to sneek in..it tends to get old and drawn out..
Did she ask these guys to drool over her? It's like you're trying to say it's all her fault that you couldn't handle it. | |
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Tinum
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Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 62 | |
| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:10:41 PM |
Did she ask these guys to drool over her? It's like you're trying to say it's all her fault that you couldn't handle it.
You don't get Karma, lets say you are going out with a really hot guy and everytime you go to the bathroom or go get a drink or talk to your girlfriends you know that as soon as you go back to your table there will be a girl (most time two girls) hanging around your table talking to your dude. your guy isn't doing anything or asking for attention it just happen. I know how it is, seen it hundreds of times. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:13:01 PM | | Yes and I leave it up to my partner to say sorry, i'm attached! I'm usually the one pointing out the girls that check him out...oooh look! she looked at your ass!. I'm not going to go after someone I'm not attracted to cause I'm insecure. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:15:19 PM | | My stepmother is a horridly ugly woman, inside and out, and my dad left my beautiful mother for her...and she was married at the time too. On another note, I dated a guy who had women seriously flocking to him at the bar every time he went out without me, I kinda dug it, cause I knew he was so into me....but he was put off that I wasn't a little more jealous. Maybe the person doing the bragging is the insecure one in a relationship like that? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:22:26 PM | Yes, I know that she will get hit on, I understood that walking into the relationship, she's hot and there is no doubt about it. However, does this give her the right to come home and give me details about it every single day? I don't think so.. Yes we split up because of HER insecurities, she's a great mother to my baby girl, and a wonderful friend, but her insecurities were far to much to handle on a daily basis. It's funny how "some" girls in this room want to turn this around and say the man has the insecurities, this to me shows how shallow people are on here, they don't read, they just like to give shallow opinions. It's all noted..
Please don't take defensive if the last statement does not apply to you.
-Atone | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:24:01 PM | If ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life
never make a pretty woman your wife
so from my personal point of view
get an ugly girl to marry you!
Aiiiieeeee!!! Ariba!!! We all look the same when the lights go out anyway, right?? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:25:29 PM |
"some" girls in this room want to turn this around and say the man has the insecurities, this to me shows how shallow people are on here, they don't read, they just like to give shallow opinions.
This coming from a guy who knows for a fact ugly women won't cheat | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:27:20 PM |
This coming from a guy who knows for a fact ugly women won't cheat
See what I mean, they don't read.. Tell me where I made a statement that I said was a fact? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:29:43 PM | Oooh I'm sorry I was wrong..you said if they do then they were never caught and everyone is happy...
Have you met every ugly woman in the world? Again like blu said..HOW do you know this? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:36:27 PM | | As I said. This was based apon an opinion through experiences in my own life, so therefore the comment I made still stands.. Sure ugly women will cheat, but probabaly will not have as many opportunities as a hot woman. But, this is off topic, I'm not here asking if a ugly or hot women cheats or not, that depends on the woman themselves. The topic here is if I marry a ugly woman as told to me by my father, then I would not have as many problems in the relationship built apon her appearance. Because, many hot women do let it go to their head, this I also learned through experience, as men also do. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:37:33 PM | | You do realize that by starting this thread you just basically told any woman you email on here that they're ugly... | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:42:37 PM | I think I'll go ugly next time. That way I might not miss her as much when she's gone... | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:43:13 PM |
You do realize that by starting this thread you just basically told any woman you email on here that they're ugly...
Maybe he's them for their inner beauty. Nobody tell him "Shallow Hal wants a gal" now...we have a date for next week and I don't want to ruin my chances of getting to third base. *wink wink* | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:43:31 PM | LOL if you see it that way.. Shall I email you. hehe.. On a serious note. I for one will not marry a ugly woman it's a topic started, and wanted to get opinions of others on here. I never been with an ugly woman.. Probably will never be with an ugly woman, but wanted to ask others opinions. Yours is well noted, now leave me alone, I need to send someone an email hehe j/k your pretty
-Atone | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/12/2005 5:43:37 PM | Wow what a bunch of foolishness...*shaking head*
Psst there are no ugly people btw..just the ones who are ugly inside.. | |
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