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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 5:52:09 PM | | Whoever said marrying an ugly women will garantee happiness you r smoking some really strong. Its impaired your judgement in my opinion you have 2 physically be attracted to the one your with. Its just like enistein said "put me on a broiler and a minute will feel like hours but put me in front of a beautiful girl and hours will feel like minutes". You don't need an ugly women to garantee happiness be yourself do your thing and that will set u free. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 5:53:01 PM | well ty darlin girl..
No matter what one looks like someone, is always going to want whatever you have. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 5:54:06 PM | Country Sugar, you're soo soo soo right.
Some of the ugliest people I know are pretty when you first lay eyes on them.
If you love someone enough to ask them to marry you, there's a good chance that you're going to think they're beautiful no matter what. At least I'd hope so...
Edit: I need to stop coming to these forums. Every time I do I leave feeling like a total dog cause I'm not a "totally hawt gurrrl omg." Haha. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:01:42 PM |
LOL if you see it that way.. Shall I email you. hehe.. On a serious note. I for one will not marry a ugly woman it's a topic started, and wanted to get opinions of others on here. I never been with an ugly woman.. Probably will never be with an ugly woman, but wanted to ask others opinions. Yours is well noted, now leave me alone, I need to send someone an email hehe j/k your pretty
Hah hah hah I just emailed you, prettyboy. Now don't be ignoring me because you know, you found someone uglier than me. That would really make me cry. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:01:49 PM | | I also heard this growing up ? wierd enough but hey I'd rather fight for someone I was into then come home everynight to find her sitting on the couch watching reruns. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:02:41 PM | I have this freaklike recall for the written word although I can rarely remember the authors....
Some look on the outside for a beauty that is true, But to look deep inside is all you really have to do. Real beauty is found deep within your heart and soul, Or at least that is what I was told. You don't have to have a body built like a brick house, Or a face prettier than can be, If you would only take a real hard look at me. You would find the most amazing beauty of all, That I keep stored within my heart and soul. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:05:35 PM | Marry an ugly woman? Au Contraire, mon frere. I love the feeling of being with a good looking gal when we walk into a restaurant or club and other men look. Call it vanity. But that is worth the price of admission right there.
Who cares if she can cook? That's what microwaves are for. | |
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w82b
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:05:49 PM | Example: When my ex would get pulled over by a cop she would undo alittle of her shirt to expose cleavage, she had beautiful breast, the best I've ever seen. And, in the seven years we were together, she never ONCE got a ticket
Hmmmm. Maybe the focus should have be on her behaviour, not the men's. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:06:32 PM | Again Atoneman insults a woman's looks because she happens to disagree with him. lol
No matter how many times we read it, and you try to justify your posts, you still come off as shallow, insecure and petty.
If a woman's ugly OR beautiful, let's hope she sees through you.
And let me guess, you're going to insult me now because I said what most of us girls are thinking. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:09:29 PM | Just a thought: maybe, just maybe there was something you were doing that made her feel insecure with you and this is why she felt the need to overcompensate by telling you about all these incidents. Did it ever occur to you that because you were feeling somewhat threatened by her beauty and the attention it got (which you admitted) you somehow inadvertently slowly deprived her of attention and therefore she felt the need to overcompensate by trying to grab your attention through these stories? It would be interesting to know if it was always like this, and if so how did you end up engaged to her?
I strongly believe that every relationship has a dynamic unique to that particular relationship, therefore it is never "one sided". But that is my philosophy. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:12:45 PM | Whoever said marrying an ugly women will garantee happiness you r smoking some really strong.
YEA!
Now, give it up, or share!!
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:14:13 PM | I love the feeling of being with a good looking gal when we walk into a restaurant or club and other men look. Call it vanity.
Unfotunately A LOT of men feel that way. I call that insecurity, people who are starved for other's approval, boils down to their own feelings of innadequacy. ;-) Now dating someone because YOU find them drop dead gorgeous even though those around may not understand it, now that is what I call a person who is able to look both on the inside and out and is living life for themselves.
thanks BBabe! ;-) | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:14:39 PM | If that's a person's goal ((and sorry, but I find it sort of mean)), I think there's a bit of a self-esteem problem on that person's end..... maybe a huge self-esteem issue..... Hmmmm.... Gotta learn to love yourself first... then someone else (just my 2 cents worth)..... | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:19:08 PM | I am fortunate in that I work in a female dominated workplace, and have for over 11 years. I learned that looks are like sheer window coverings. I can convey many stories (especially being single in that environment) that can disprove the beautiful/ugly theory.
Regardless of looks, if a woman choses to seek the comfort of someone outside the relationship, her looks have nothing to do with it.
In regards to the OP, red flag any woman that has to consistently talk about other men chatting her up. Ask yourself why she does such a thing?
In an older Stevie Wonder tune he states "She uses love to make him strong." | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:28:53 PM | I love it. If I guy says he doesn't like it when other men pay attention to his gal, the girls on here say he is insecure.
If a guy says he DOES like it when other men pay attentnion to his gal, the girls say he is insecure!
Well, which is it? Can't be both! LOL
I think people on these threads love to throw around that insult to make themselves feel like amateur psychotherapists.
In short, the better looking the gal, the better. No insecurities here. I love it. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:36:20 PM |
Hah hah hah I just emailed you, prettyboy. Now don't be ignoring me because you know, you found someone uglier than me. That would really make me cry.
Let me get this right...I'M uglier then you? Let's see a pic miss pretty :) | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:36:49 PM |
Did she ask these guys to drool over her? It's like you're trying to say it's all her fault that you couldn't handle it. my dear i handled it quite well.. she was the one that could not handle it obviously.. to much temptation.. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:37:12 PM |
If a guy says he DOES like it when other men pay attention to his gal, the girls say he is insecure!
Good point!
Is being insecure an insult? Is it better or worse?
The person who is not insecure doesn't care what others think, good or bad, they are happy knowing 'they' like what 'they' see because the truth lies within. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:38:08 PM |
my dear i handled it quite well.. she was the one that could not handle it obviously.. to much temptation..
I am not your 'dear' and she cheated? | |
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jimi77
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:39:04 PM | | yes she cheated.. and sorry about the dear part.. i had no idea you are sensitive to the word. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:41:47 PM | I like what I see - when I see something I like. That's the truth.  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:42:33 PM | We like what we like and there's nothing wrong with being proud when your lady/man gets looked at by other people. 
People just shouldn't care if someone looks at who you're with and *doesn't* think they're all that. If you think they all that's all that should matter. :) | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 10/12/2005 6:43:21 PM | | yea.. let another women stare down her man and wacth the daggers come out of her eyes. | |
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