| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 9:05:43 AM | OH FOR GOD SAKE i have never seen such a silly thread
ugly/pretty ... who gives a sh** looks will dissapear in the end & then what u gonna do ??
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 9:12:16 AM |
keep on using that excuse for your failed relationships all u want, like they say it is easier to look at someone else issue than to look at your own. Just kinda wonder if Bambi75 should be Bimbo75
He said it all himself.......it's quiet obvious that he is insecure or the fact that other men were attracted to her would not have made a bit of difference. As for you , DITTO! Looks have nothing to do with it, as i have already said. If some of you men would not treat them like they are a trophy instead of a human, perhaps things would have worked out. Don't blame it on her good looks....blame it on your lack of consideration for whom they really are.
My failed marriage has NOTHING to do with this subject. If i wanted your opinion on the reason why i am single, i would have asked. I KNOW why i am single and it's because i was not going to be a doormat to a jerk of a husband i had.
Now as for having issues, i suggest you work on yours because you seem to have some serious ones. Especially when you can lower yourself to childish name calling! Cheers! | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 9:14:58 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 
WELL SAID GIRL xxxxx | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 9:23:54 AM | oh sorry but i forgot 2 ask.....
WHAT DO YOU GUYS CLASS AS UGLY???
PLEASE EXPLAIN??? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 9:39:11 AM | Speaking of looks, has anyone seen 'kindacute's profile. It should be 'exponentiallyamazingunbelievablykindacute'
True enough, cheating is not relegated to less attractive or more attractive people.
A question could be "do more attractive people get away more often with cheating than unattractive people" If your partner was quite attractive would you let them go or keep them because you enjoy having an attractive partner.
There have been lots of studies show unattractive people bear the brunt of more jokes, less job opportunities, and worse behaviour directed at them.
Hot looking guys who are players don't seem to have a problem and most don't have attractive personalities.
Maybe the fact of being attractive, attracts more attention, so you have more opportunities to cheat on your partner.
I'll go eat my soy now. | |
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Roaul
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:01:19 AM | busty i would define ugly as unloving,without respect for herself,non moraled,decietful.
beauty is defied as ever single lady on this site and if i could i would send a hug and a rose to each and every one of you ladies.. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:16:05 AM | | Hey, I already put you on my favorites list, what more do you want? LOL Maybe you need a picture? I have a face like Anne Ramsey and a voice like Fran Drescher. LOL | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:16:37 AM | Shakeme:
where can I find one of these so called 'ugly women'?
Hey, I already put you on my favorites list, what more do you want? LOL Maybe you need a picture? I have a face like Anne Ramsey and a voice like Fran Drescher. LOL | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:19:09 AM | I think all the guys should chase after the "ugly" women ...
that would leave all the "pretty" ones for me !!!!!
Seriously – it’s more than looks that matter. If your hung up is how she looks, then you may be with the wrong person. You should feel a connection with the person. You should feel like the luckiest guy in the world every morning you wake up next to her. You should never feel threatened by the way she looks – regardless of whether others think she is beautiful or ugly. Its what’s between the two of you that matters. Find that special connection and enjoy! | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:50:00 AM | You should feel like the luckiest guy in the world every morning you wake up next to her.
now i know why the men made a quick exit when they woke up next to me in the morning | |
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Joined: 9/11/2005
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:15:18 PM | better be beautiful,even do you share with others,
instead you having the ugly one for yourself only,
I know,sound tricky but imagin not atractive woman next to you for a life!? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:41:29 PM | Nah... been with unattractive women after getting messed up by pretty ones also... and I was thinking the same as you, but found out that's not a good think.
... and my two cents worth is that attractive women MAKE themselves attractive...and liking men has something to do with that many times...
Generally, attractive women like guys more, if only for the reason that attractive people get treated better; although I'm sure you can find MANY exceptions to this...
I think the main thing is that you have to have a sense about what the person's about on the inside.
Evidently, your fiancee gauged her own self-esteem by the way guys were attracted to her and she really didn't care much about anything else.. maybe because she was shallow, or maybe just immature... incapable of treating guys better than a mirror that talks or something...Vanity will do that.
That may have been her story, but there are LOTS of attractive women who aren't like that and don't even care for alot of public attention from men; believe it or not.
Conversely, some physically unattractive people have a mean streak from being treated badly for the way they look... and if you go with them just to have someone to feel superior to...and they sense this even if you don't act it; it's going to make them feel even worse. In fact, they might jerk you around just for the sake of saying they could do it.
If you're not attracted to the person, you should just leave them alone. It's not good for either of you. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:49:33 PM | Plenty of unattractive women cheat on their spouses or partner...just as plenty of attractive women are faithful to theirs.
Sounds like yours was "ugly" in personality and got a kick out of seeing your reaction...a sign of immaturity and insecurity.
But also...a man who is secure with his woman, (or vice versa!) would not be bothered to hear or see other men showing interest. We have to be secure with ourselves, before we can be secure in a relationship!
I am flattered that other women find my beau attractive...HE knows and I know that it is flattering...nothing else. Takes two to tango, right!? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:52:36 PM | I've gone out with plenty of "really" good looking men before, and found that I could never spend my life feeding their ego~~~~ There's too much more to enjoy in life | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 1:09:42 PM | | Geez man...you certainly are getting it for this thread. Now if a man marries a plain Jane, that seems to mean that he's insecure. But don't plain Janes deserve love too??? If the gorgeous babes are then with all the secure types, doesn't the competitiveness build??? Competing for the mirror??? Competing for the porche??? Competing for the neighbours??? Hell, plain Jane wouldn't be the center of attention at any function. Leaves more time for her and I to be together. I don't concider myself to be any kind of hunky type. Just a normal guy doing his best to have a good life. Who needs to spend all day wondering if the line-up for your wife's attentions is getting any action. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 2:08:41 PM | | it also goes without saying that certain men will complain about women who do not dress up and look good when they are with them. You are damned if you do, damned if you don't. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 2:22:54 PM | | For the most part I agree with you, but there are exceptions to every rule. There are moral beautiful women and immoral beautiful women, and the same with ugly women. I have to say in my case I would lean towards the average woman, but hopefully on the thin side. I think you can marry a ugly women that is immoral and she will still run around on you. Obviously, there are guys out there that search out ugly women and lots of them don't care if a women is "taken" or not. To side track somewhat; I used to think there were more immoral men than women until I started visiting the chat rooms............OH MY GOD, I sure hope chat rooms aren't an example of the population of the world. If it is, there is no point in people even getting married, because it seems like both men and women married or not are just out for one thing and it is soooooooooooo sooooooooo sad. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 2:24:05 PM | | livewire and munch, could have not said it better, livewire i think u r very good looking | |
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| Marry an ugly woman
Posted: 10/13/2005 2:26:12 PM | Damn livewire i just your profile now i really think u r hot  | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 2:26:55 PM | | see i got so bothered that i forgot to pun in viewed | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 2:37:11 PM | | when I was a kid, my dad used to tell me that you can fall in love with a rich woman just as easy as a poor one, and I guess that goes for ugly too LOL, so why not search for one that is at least semi-attractive, and fall in love with her? Here is a thought that I have played around with in my mind. What if a jet with a couple of hundred people on board was flying over the ocean and something happened to the plane and down everyone went, but only a man and a woman lived through the downing of the plane?They woke up the next day laying on a beach of a desert island? I believe with all my heart that no matter what, after a few months, they would begin to be attracted to each other. It could be a fifty year old man and a twenty year old woman or even a corpulent fifty year old man and a beautiful twenty year old woman and I bet dollars to donuts it wouldn't take them long and a romance would begin, however when a ship comes, I am also sure that the romance would soon be over even if she came back pregnant. So, you ask what is my thinking? Focus on the heart and not the outside and just hope you made the right choice and if you did, then she will remain true to you, for fifty years. Tracy (buccaneer38) | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 2:44:50 PM | | I agree with who ever said a little jealousy is a good thing..I think it is neat and makes a person feel wanted.. However the freaking out kind.. naw .. not unless there is probable cause.. | |
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