| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/20/2005 10:08:39 PM | blu eyed gal said >>>> "just how to you "know" that?" (When a woman is ugly.) I say>>> Like the US Supreme Court said about pornography, "I know it when I see it!"
THEN: blu eyed gal "corrects" chatoplay>>>>"You misunderstood. I asked that twice in reponse to two things Atone wrote: 1. that ugly women will stay true and 2. that the ugly wives of his 14 uncles have never cheated. I wasn't referring to "when a woman is ugly."
chatoplay responds>>>>Perhaps I may propose a collorary to the above which I must insist be termed the "Atone Collorary." "A woman's looks are directly proportional to the amount of attention she recieves thereby offering her greater opportunity to go astray. Likewise, a less than desireable woman has fewer such chances and therefore is more inclined to stay at home." As for Atone's 14 ugly aunt's-in-law, I can only advise cutting down the number and frequency of those fancy family get togethers. Remember "Chatoplay's Postulate"; "Never stand in the way of a woman and her food." | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/20/2005 10:11:13 PM | Why do people refer to themselves in the third person?
OT: If you think the person you're marrying is ugly, that makes you the ugliest person of all. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/20/2005 10:15:49 PM | | The best reason to marry an ugly woman --- because when she leaves you or dumps you --- you dont give a damn | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/20/2005 10:58:39 PM | The only thing I can say is dont judge attractive women by an experience by someone who seems to me just liked to talk about desirable she was. Ever think half of it could be just to make you jealous and nuts? to get attention. Also emotional manipulation
There are loads of attractive people who dont need to prove themselves in this fashion..anyway you asked for the guys opinion so...
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/20/2005 11:16:26 PM | There are no ugly women....repeat after me..there are no ugly women. Ugly is on the inside where it can't be seen. Ugly is watching a child being beaten or starving in the streets. Ugly is discrimination/racism. Ugly is watching someone you love die. Ugly is one of the most morbid words I know and to use it to describe a woman you love?  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/20/2005 11:58:20 PM | | beauty is skin deep ===== ugly goes to the bone | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:17:43 AM | this thread drew my interest simply because for decades I thought of myself as ugly simply because I had a husband who told me, no you are not beautiful . It totally crushed me and took me into a frozen state that lasted til earlier this year. I can now let compliments be said to me and yes beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. What one finds ugly another may be captivated by..... | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:44:35 AM | | everyone is beautiful and unique in their own way they may not be beautiful in the looks department but their personality is what makes us all beautiful there is alot of shallow people out there and it's unfortunate but it's life once you find a women no matter how she looks and she respects you for you and makes you happy you'll know if a women constantly brags about other guys hitting on her there's definitely something to be suspicious about but in the end it didn't work out after all. as it may seem you experienced it yourself you can have the hottest girl in the world but she could have a shallow heart but then you can get the average looking women who have a heart of gold. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 4:20:36 AM |
There are no ugly women....repeat after me..there are no ugly women. The hell you say!
Ugly is on the inside where it can't be seen. And it is true that the inside of a good many women out here is ugly as all hell. There are very few Mother Theresa's in the world. And I feel sorry for the younger generation of guys that have to pick a wife out of this bunch. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 11:31:26 AM | the word ugly is offensive to me from the stand point that there is not an ugly person out there to someone. Some people have unusual features but to someone that face is WOW. Don't punish a person by marrying them and constantly reminding them that you only married them because they could cook, clean, or some other task.. Help them attain true beauty by causing them to bask in your love and help them radiate beauty from within and sometime before your eyes they will blossom into a beautiful butterfly and you will see beauty....  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 11:57:35 AM | I can't believe this thread is still going strong Why would anyone want to marry anyone they aren't physically attracted to? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:00:18 PM | you got me on that if i can't look at her sober i don't want to be with her thats for sure
no beer gogles for me 
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:08:23 PM | i do not have this problem of ugly vs un-ugly...
...not getting married...
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:12:38 PM | Just get a blow up doll, you can be pretty sure she won't cheat
Of coarse don't leave her pressurized when your not at home you never know  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:17:57 PM | after all blowing chunks at the sight of your woman would be much of a complement  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 12:27:44 PM | | My ex boyfriend used to do that, then I caught him cheating on me, in a club full of people. And he was cute. I got to try the less 'physically apealing' sometime, just to see if they really do stay true. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 2:27:55 PM | Doesn't matter how ugly they are. If they are a cheater, they will cheat. By getting an ugly one it just means they have less opportunity. Also, a lot has to do with how you treat them. Women don’t cheat for the same reasons as men do. Me can cheat and can still love their partner, it all sexual, women cheat because something is missing in their relationship. If treat a women right she will never cheat, unless she is a tramp. You can treat a man right and he will cheat anyway. Now of course everyone is different.
My wife cheated on me twice. The first time was my fault. I was an a*** most of the marriage so I stayed with her and worked things out. The second time she did on her own, which is finally why I left her. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 4:15:34 PM |
angelinabee on 10/12/2005 4  02 PM *Everybody* gets hit on,
HA!
Not true.  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 4:24:51 PM |
Sorry if this thread sounds shallow, but it actually came up again today with my father and I on the phone hehe
That's ok, it doesn't sound shallow, it sounds like the dumbest thing I've ever heard of in my life. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 5:16:30 PM | | Wow, there's a lot of shallow things being said. Whatever happen to "Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder"? Does anyone believe in that? | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 5:23:46 PM | I can't believe I just read through this entire thread.
What people look like on the outside has very little to do with what they are like on the inside.
OT: I've never had any issues with my attractive ex's. It's always a matter of trust. It's a fact of life that anyone you are involved with in a relationship will get hit on or flirted with at one time or another. Just accept it. It happens, but nobody should dwell on it.
One funny tidbit that I have encountered, while I was dating a very attractive woman, was that several women saw me as a challenge and would actively try to steal me away from her. Those women were pretty "ugly on the inside" to try that.
It is a two way street. Trust until there is a real reason not to, and don't give anyone reason not to trust you. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 5:24:26 PM |
Why would anyone want to marry anyone they aren't physically attracted to?
I don't get that either!!  | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 5:25:32 PM |
My ex boyfriend used to do that, then I caught him cheating on me, in a club full of people. And he was cute. I got to try the less 'physically apealing' sometime, just to see if they really do stay true.
What a fool... I wouldn't even consider anything with another girl if I'd be with a girl as good looking as you.. | |
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