| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 5:52:22 PM | hey atone,
beauty id in the eye of the beholder, some guys think im hot and others think im not. so should i marry someone that thinks im a dog, in the hopes that i will forever be by their side?? i think not. if my husband thinks im ugly there will certainly along the years we are together be some men that will think im hot and want to be with me, so now i would pose the question should i stay with my husband who thinks im a dog or be with this other man who thinks im all that and a bag of chip(sorry for the bad expression it seemed to fit!!)
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 5:54:29 PM | white-nite
i totally agree with you its whats on the inside that counts and if your husband cant see that then he shoudnt have married you. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 6:55:43 PM | I sooo dont agree with the title of this thread..i think u should marry someone who u love, repect, admire, feel safe with and when u go to sleep at nite be the last person u think of and when u wake up want to see the smile on there face first thing in the morning..while looks r somewhat important, they r not the basis for getting married..im not a total bow wow but i would feel so insulted if someone married me cause he felt safe cause i was ugly..and as far as ugly women dont cheat..oh hell no..dont u watch "jerry springer" damn he has some butt ugly girls on there married, doing there husbands brothers uncles cousins dad..so anyone is capable of cheating..i hope u find what ur looking for..but dont base ur happiness on looks..
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 7:10:19 PM | Don't you know Jerry's is so fake (I know have a nephew that is a regular and get payed well for it ) | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 7:12:55 PM | LMAO!!! A woman being ugly is no guarantee that she will not cheat! For one thing, everyone has something that someone else will find attractive. For another, let's face it, women have a much easier time getting laid than men do, and if she wants to cheat, she will find a way. The secret is not to marry an ugly woman, it is to marry a woman that you can trust, no matter what she looks like; and also to be secure enough in yourself to know that you are good enough and she loves you. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 7:35:22 PM | Not sure that's such a great idea.... you might want to aim for the middle. You certainly don't want an ugly woman because you'll have to see her every single day of your life. Beautiful women??.. well as you already know from first hand experience.... they are even worse that ugly women so don't even bother with them. Beautiful women serve only one purpose so you have to get over that bump in the road.
If I were you I'd find an average girl ....trust me on that it took me 15 years to find that out the hard way | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 7:46:26 PM | For the record, I too have great boobs, and I too have a heavy foot, and I too have never gotten a speeding ticket although have been pulled over many times. I used my wit and humor, and left my boobs behind closed buttons. Would you be jealous of THAT if you found out? Probably not, because it involves my sense of humor and my brain instead of my t its and a*s. (Oh, for a man that knows that a woman's brain is the sexiest part of her body!)
Rome fell, boys, and those perky boobs will too. And gravity will take its toll on that sassy little butt too. You'd do better to pick a woman whose personality can keep you interested for long after life has taken its toll on the rest of her. Time isn't kind to men either, you know. So, you might want to flex your brain muscles along with those pecs and deltoids. We'd like to be kept amused too after we've long since lost our awe over our good fortune at being chosen by such a gorgeous hunk of manflesh as yourself.
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 9:09:09 PM | well saphire i must say i agree with you
the problem is in this day and age we live in a throw away society and when that other person gets a little milage on them (male or female can do this)
they kick them to the curb and society does not really care any more that is part of the reason so many of us are here
it would be nice if people would live up to their vows but it (for the most part) does not happen much anymore ---so many go for the pretty (boy or girl) and then see ya
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 11:02:47 PM | none taken, but Atone, whose to say what ugly is. Beauty is only in the eye of the beholder. You should do what is best for Atone. I mean you should listen to you gut instincts. Yes parents are wiser than we are but you know what you want and you don't seem like a shallow person so just do you sweety. Besides everyone is beautiful in their own way. You should give anyone that finds you interesting a try. You may meet you best friend one day or maybe your wife.
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 11:52:55 PM | | O god!!!!! Insecuritys taking controll of who u should marry is just pathetic. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 2:49:02 AM | | what with these post with ugly women thread **** what about cheap ugly men. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 3:31:10 AM | | My philosophy is marry an ugly women have a good life!! | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 7:04:17 AM | "Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder
Annie. Thats what we're talking about. You may concider it totally shallow, but, there is all kinds of beauty. Inner and outer. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 7:16:34 AM | Rome fell, boys, and those perky boobs will too. And gravity will take its toll on that sassy little butt too. Sapphireblues. We all suffer from sagging at some point. Sort of like a sagging stock-market. I don't care about sagging of anything on a woman. I do so love a woman on top. Then I can play with the sags, stretchies and those delicious hard ends. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 7:20:21 AM | what with these post with ugly women thread **** what about cheap ugly men. Goddess. I'm a cheap ugly man. For now. When I finally return to my home city, I'll be rid of this Ontario oppression. It will take longer to leave since the average home owner enjoys ripping off the renovators. The line-ups for small claims court are 5 kms long. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 9:40:15 PM | I'm so glad to see some hint within these posts that there is hope for humanity after all.
New Dude: Be careful what you ask for. Remember, round is a shape!
Munch: Too bad you're not closer. Boy! Do I have some sags for you! | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/22/2005 11:28:53 PM | | your father is a wise man. the better a woman looks usually means not as faithful and cheats more often, more materialistic, and just plain uglier on the inside. our society values the outside of a person a lot more then the inside...... of course as in everything in life there is always a minority | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/26/2005 11:28:14 PM | Perhaps u shud think about what u want in a woman Atone...WHAT U REALLY REALLY REALLY WANT! its either for her breast(opps) or for her heart(errmmm).
all da best for ya out there who r still looking around!
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/26/2005 11:48:58 PM | here recently I went on an emotional roller coater ride and came to the realization that some of my old ways of dealing with heartache came to the surface. How I coped with my lack of self worth would be to dwell on what my husband used to say. I used to mentally say to myself.. you are ugly and thusly you are never going to get someone to really love you. Thru pof I have become comfortable with my appearance. I still don't think of myself as a beauty but I do have a caring personality and I do love people for how they treat me. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/26/2005 11:52:43 PM | "your father is a wise man. the better a woman looks usually means not as faithful and cheats more often, more materialistic, and just plain uglier on the inside"
spoken like a true jacka$$ | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/27/2005 1:50:58 AM | | a friend of mine married a super beautiful woman... he now says... "pretty wife miserable life" | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/27/2005 2:27:05 AM | so you automatically equate that to marriage with a beautiful woman is going to be terrible?
maybe it's because the only reason he married her was because she was hot, instead of actually having some sort of chemistry with her. | |
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| Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/27/2005 2:33:21 AM | I confess. I did not read all of the previous 9 pages - However, why would Anyone marry someone who they considered, "UGLY" - that's just not right. From day 1, there would be no mutual respect/regard.
I personally, do not find many people, "ugly". However, if I found someone ugly who wanted to be with me, I would not do it. Because, I found them to be ugly. Eeeks. Why would you even call them "Ugly" in the first place. What a put down... | |
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