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 char66
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 76
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well what can i say...sex at 40 is the best and i know it will only keep getting better...much better
 LetsPartyinTO
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 77
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/15/2006 12:15:29 PM
I agree, sex with 40+ women rules! They let it all go! no hold-ups, no games, and no BS! Keep 'em spread ladies!!
 LL3
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 78
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/15/2006 1:53:43 PM
I also agree with the above poster.....but sadly, it seems that a lot of you revert to High School days where there is sex with non commital tendancies..... Sadly, yer only Cougars for so long....Better enjoy it.... What goes around comes around..........


Happy Easter!
 Belladona
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 79
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/15/2006 2:20:24 PM

Lead a healthy life style, stay fit, try to remember what is truly important in life and man you have amazing things to look forward to. Age brings experience and an enhanced understanding of what a physical relationship is all about. Of course finding the right lover is just as important as all the things i listed above.


^^^ I couldn't agree more.... Staying fit and working out regularly, without a doubt, increase desire and libido, at least that is my experience. I think if anything, maturity, experiences and the ability to relax a little more, enhances intimate/sexual relations, rather than detracting from.
 missing a man`z touch
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 80
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/15/2006 6:08:58 PM
gawd i hope not!.. i`ll soon be approaching this "age bracket"..
 Kenb5b01
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 81
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/15/2006 7:27:39 PM
I cant remember.

Im not sure if I keep forgetting or if it has really been that long.

Damn I hope I'm not gettin forgetful

oh well at least I can hide my own Easter Eggs.
 timmies4me
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 82
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/15/2006 8:48:14 PM
Well, I'm almost 44..been single for almost 3 years now..so I guess I'll have to say distant memory..think I'll be hitting a nun status soon
 sassyvgirl
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 83
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/16/2006 9:48:11 AM
hmmmmmm.....great so far!
 summer65
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 84
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:34:29 PM
yeah..i agree...im into just acting silly....sex...if it happens ..woohoo....if it dont....woohooo...life shall go on....hehe
 ripley65
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 85
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:40:00 PM
sex???? *scratches her head* Hmmmm,,distant memory. lol
 AnnudderVoice
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 86
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:40:41 PM
The last time I enjoyed a female's company, we enjoyed each other immensely. Even frequently.

So I don't see that anything has dropped off.

Annudder
 Nobodys_Baby
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 87
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/19/2006 10:41:35 PM
My thoughts are that as long as you stay active you don't lose your libido. Women are more mature, less clingy and more independent. Some guys over 40 don't like that but those that are comfortable with it, well... let's just say are GRRRRRREAT.

If they are comfortable with themselves they are more open to the idea of sex play with toys and games, which in itself is SEXciting and I think those qualities are what attract young guys to older women.

I don't want to be the only reason for someones happiness Im too busy pursuing my own thank you. Totally not clingy, I have my life your welcome to parts of it. But I can guarantee you wont be the center of it.

And to the person who said they last longer... point to ponder...do you last longer cause your going slower?
 ratdawg
Joined: 3/24/2006
Msg: 88
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/19/2006 11:39:52 PM
Waaaaay better Like the energizer bunny...just keeps going and going and going.
 Aquarianbloke
Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 89
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Sex After 40
Posted: 4/20/2006 3:20:33 AM
Anytime is great but I do think you appreciate it more when you are older. When you are younger it is all about gaining experience. When you are older I think you take more time and care and savour what is going on more.
 dbrphilli4
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 90
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/20/2006 8:55:12 AM
I can't imajine ever sleeping with a boy n i say boy in his 20's i have a son that is next month 26 yrs old the to me is sick for awoman to be with in my 40's a boy in his 20's. I will stay single for the rest of my life and i have been talking to this man that went with 20 yr olds before n he is in his 40's. I want to mean more to a man my age than to just be a f. buddy and he made it plain that that would be what we were. i don't need that in my life right now i want to know i mean mre to someone than a f. buddy. but i get sometimes caught up in talking to someone on this site then i get to know him n try to learn more about him then i find out things i dont really expect from him. but i think i am destin to be alone the rest of my life n just be a mans f. buddy n nothing more it is really depressing to me. I want a man to spend the rest of my life together with him.
 dbrphilli4
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 91
Sex After 40
Posted: 4/20/2006 8:55:17 AM
I can't imajine ever sleeping with a boy n i say boy in his 20's i have a son that is next month 26 yrs old the to me is sick for awoman to be with in my 40's a boy in his 20's. I will stay single for the rest of my life and i have been talking to this man that went with 20 yr olds before n he is in his 40's. I want to mean more to a man my age than to just be a f. buddy and he made it plain that that would be what we were. i don't need that in my life right now i want to know i mean mre to someone than a f. buddy. but i get sometimes caught up in talking to someone on this site then i get to know him n try to learn more about him then i find out things i dont really expect from him. but i think i am destin to be alone the rest of my life n just be a mans f. buddy n nothing more it is really depressing to me. I want a man to spend the rest of my life together with him.
 knight_in_armor
Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 92
Sex After 40
Posted: 6/5/2006 4:16:19 PM
Your right. I don't mind younger a women but that young is just wrong. I have a 21 year old son and twin 18 yr old girls and I would probably go to jail if that happen. A f buddy is not what I look for. I need some meaning. If all I want is to F than pay for it. I have never done that and don't plan to either.
 funnloving
Joined: 4/13/2006
Msg: 93
Sex After 40
Posted: 6/10/2006 11:55:49 AM
I disagree that you slow down at fifty, I turned fifty a year ago and i want it more now than when i was thirty, plus i make sure the woman is always satisfied first. Before i was divorced I wanted sex at least twice a day
 cracked_jar
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 94
Sex After 40
Posted: 7/3/2006 12:16:40 PM
best i've ever had was last summer with a 47 yr old. she was incredible. and we went at it for about 7 hours. i've never had a women with a sex drive like that. i know afew other ladies in their mid 40s who were the same.
 wrecks
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 95
Sex After 40
Posted: 7/3/2006 11:03:04 PM
There was an old bull and a young bull standing on a hill looking at all the cows down in the pasture.
The young bull says "lets run down the hill and **** one of them cows"
The old bull says "lets walk down and **** em all"
nuff said
 samhonolulu
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 96
Sex After 40
Posted: 7/3/2006 11:13:18 PM
I'd bet that the same people packing the 'punch' at 40 and above were the same ones who had it in their 30's and 20's. It's a chemical thing - in the genes maybe...

with a few blooming here and there at different times in their life, others never quite blooming, as it were...
 Nocturnal
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 97
Sex After 40
Posted: 7/3/2006 11:24:25 PM
Sexually speaking .... As a "forty something" male, how could it be bad? I am not stating that this is my lifestyle, but ... if anything, this is our peak season. A forty something man can still seek those under 30 or over 50. Could there actually be a better range of opportunity?
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 98
Sex After 40
Posted: 7/4/2006 4:14:16 PM
Sex

at any age

is good IF

1/ The girl enjoys it

2/ The girl doesn't put you through a load of BS before or after it.


Othewise it, quite literally, isn't worth worrying about.
 dbrphilli4
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 99
Sex After 40
Posted: 11/24/2006 2:29:48 PM
Exactly a person needs some meaning in their relationship, you cannot have meaning in just a f buddy half your age cause when the sex is over and she or he looks on to something else the good lady's and gentlemen wont look your way anymore . I know if i had been with someone and he dumped me for someone my kids age and then the relationship failed of course as it always will may take a yr or so but you wont have any meaning in it at all. Then if that person that got dumped and tryed to come back to me don't matter if we'd been married for 20 yrs i would say, GO GET F. and they will always come back to the wife r girlfriend the spouse after an affair you can bet your ass on that after the fun is over and the younger one moves on n it will happens, bet me 1000.00 on it. the dumped one will come crawling back to the wife or girlfriend and if they had any sence they would tell them to go get F. as i would and will. because the younger one will eventually find someone her own age or his own age and the older thing is only a fantasy but after the fantasy, Guess What? No-one else will have them after they come crawling back, I know i wouldnt. and this thing with mark my live in boyfriend and his porn site and inviting women to our house after he has his fill and he will. because he will want to settle down after it is over with but i wouldnt touch him with a ten foot pole and no decent friend i know would either after he gets so old that no one will f him. and his girls find out and they will at 10 and 11 yrs old they will find out. He will try to fing a older lady his age and it will haunt him for many yrs to come that little teenager that he had a good time with for a while but now cant find a woman to spend the rest of his life with. because his little 7 inches by2 he says 7 inch by 4 but i doubt that very seriousousy wont please any 18 or 21 yr. old for long as far as his toung any 21 yr. old or younger will be pleaseasing her within a month and he wot have anyone to come home too. HE- HE...... SISSY
 sillybridget
Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 100
Sex After 40
Posted: 1/16/2007 2:30:19 PM
I've just joined this site .. thing that stands out the most is people are obsessed about age... how you are supposed to behave .... how you are supposed to dress....
Me I live my life how I feel and not as society tells me to
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