| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 2/7/2006 4:05:04 PM | Actually, I've had more than a few women who wanted sex on the first date. One basically wanted to get it on almost immediately: in my car, in the bushes over there, back at my place. I said, um, do you want to get some coffee first or something? It was the singularly most unerotic experience I've had, and I left.
Usually, I stop them at the email or IM level. The ones who come in challenging you about how manly you are, and if you can handle them.
Dating is so much fun. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 2/7/2006 4:07:49 PM | What a comedy act all you chicks are. Every single 1 of you in this thread claim not to put out on the 1st date? I can't tell you how many times a girl whispered in my ear that the only reason why she gave it to me on the 1st date is because i was special. And i'm almost certain that quite a few of the other guys in here have been told the same.
On a side not, i am special  | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/29/2006 3:53:22 PM | why do women want the men to pay for everything on the first date,it is not right.
they should wait till the third or fourth or 10th date...
There are 2 kinds of women.
Ones who does and ones who dont.
So why waste time with the ones who dont. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/29/2006 4:52:20 PM | I once was rather foolish and I let a man come to my place on the first meet. It was a mistake all right! He asked if he could use my restroom...and a few minutes later he came out completely nude...and...I just stared at him my mouth agape...and wondered what in the world he was trying to show me....his little thing was smaller than my pinkey finger and shorter...I told him to get his clothes back on....that I was not amused....next I showed him the door. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/29/2006 6:02:04 PM | | i dated a guy once who was younger, and thart was the only thing on his mind, men seem to always think with their lower extremities, they just can't help it, they were just born that way, lol! | |
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Joined: 10/30/2005
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 9:25:09 AM | oh crap... most of them...... which is why i don't meet anyone in real life anymore except as friends........still, they keep trying like: "oh, but if we're both in the mood and all"!!!!
some guys just can't understand the words: not gonna happen.....
then again, i found out that some do..... they're those I like to have around...... :-) | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 9:54:44 AM | None of the men.......had a couple of women that wanted that.......you can tell when they grab you by the balls. = A happy fishie
Uno, dos, tres, quatro....
you got it......you got it....here it comes.....watch it now....
Wooly Bully....wooly bully..... | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 11:20:30 AM | | Opuim.... all of them want it the first night ,day ,whenever,, but I say no and they all ,,so far seem to repect that,,,, there just being men,, and you can't blame a guy for trying,, if they didn't, then most woman would wonder,, why,, what was wrong with them,,, guys today don't know ,half the time, what to do on a date first or second,,, cause so many women give out mixed signals,, sorry,, hope that dosen't offen anyone,,, | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 12:21:47 PM | I have to agree. Every man wants it on the first date. Or maybe even before they actually know you exist. What separates the men from the boys is how much time they are willing to invest in actually get to know you. And, I do believe there have been times I wanted sex on the first date ~ if I weren't a nakie-phobe I just might do it. Nah, probably not ~  | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 12:51:42 PM | OP, there is a big difference between wanting something, and doing something about it. I example, may "want" a million bucks, and face it, it is sitting in a bank right around the corner waiting for me so to speak, all I have to do is go get it, but I have very good reasons for not pursuing it, leastwise not the easy (criminal) way.
If a man is actually attracted to you, in whatever fashion, he may "want it", whether he does anything about it is an entirely different matter all together. Believe it or not, sometimes it happens (yeah you better sit down for this), that a woman, may "want it" too, but it doesn't happen even then. And for the record, all these men who are having sex on a first date, are having it with women who want the very same thing. So its not a question of How many "men", rather, how many "people".
As much as some women wish to believe they are the gatekeepers in the "sexual arena", and as such weild it as a weapon, instead of a gift, all I can say is; you may have the lock, but without the key, the lock is worthless. I personally don't stick my keys into just any lock, unless its the one that opens my home, and home is where the heart is. Nuff said.
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 12:59:49 PM | Hi Opi,
Unfortunately in my experience there are too many guys on the internet who expect sex right away. Whether they say they are looking to hang out, find friends, date or develop a relationship it doesn't seem to matter--in the end the topic of sex comes up and they will invariably try to charm their way into your panties. I don't know if its the stigma with internet dating or what but it does get rather annoying after a while  It would be nice if people were a little more honest about what they are looking for and state that in their profiles. I've actually had guys admit to me they are just looking for intimate encounters but will choose "relationship" because they think they will get more responses from what they consider to be "better quality" females 
If you are concerned about this going forward, be sure to make it clear before meeting someone what you mean by "hang out", always meet them at a public venue and don't invite them over to your place or accept an invitation to go to his place until you are comfortable that you are both on the same page. Hopefully, that should make things pretty clear.
Good luck to you,
TJ | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 1:21:33 PM | I think most men that are attracted to you on the first meeting would be willing to have sex on the first date... Some of them expect it, others will take what comes thier way.
Some may even use excuses like saying its immature to hold off on sex, some accuse you of teasing them, or will encourage large amounts of alcohol...
What ever they say or do to convince you... A woman should have the final say in the matter...
A woman
- can become pregnant where as a man can't...
- is much more likely to get an std, as a woman is an intake system and the man is an output system.
- are often more emotional about sex than a man is.
- being called a slut or an easy lay means something different to man than it does a woman.
- man ( as well as woman ) are very capable of lying don't believe everything a man tells you.
- often, when you turn a guy down for sex you will see the same guy with a girl that is way uglier, fatter and/or trashier than you. hehe.
So next time you find yourself in a situation where you don't feel comfortable cause the guy your with is expecting sex and you don't want to give it to him... remember the bottom is a woman has the final say in the matter... and if he can't except that... leave... | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 1:21:44 PM | ....I mean if Im turned on and I want it...what difference does it make. I will never be pressured to having sex with anyone unless I feel like it.
We could also have a thread out...How many women have you met...etc etc.
Some men still think any woman who has sex with them the 1st meet are not worth the long haul LMAO....and really some men on POF are only after that and are master manipulators and use this venue for the one nighters....being my age LOL I giggle to myself when I see that happening......cause like I said I never have sex with anyone unless I WANT IT TOO!!!!!
I have "Hang out" and it doesnt mean come **** me lol.... | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 1:24:43 PM | Most men do make some sort of effort, and wait to see what kind of response they get (lets face it thats just they way they are wired). The majority of men seems to take the "No" very well, and always ask me out on another date. I have only had a couple who even after it was clear it wasn't going to happen continued to make VERY overt advances. I don't mind little advances (because being a man they have to least try, and its kinda cute), but I mean disrespectful, just take me home right now you perv advances.
I actually had one man who at the end of the date didn't even try to kiss me. It drove me crazy, and I couldn't figure out why he didn't like me. He was a bit geeky, and if he hadnt done that I more than likely wouldn't have went out with him again, but I had to accept the second date when he called cause his lack of advances made me curious. At the end of the second date he gave me a peck on the cheek. Come to find out he was a very picky man about who he slept with, and that turned me on like you wouldn't believe. I ended up in a serious relationship with him for more than a year (best sex ever). More men soon try that particular tactic cause it works. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 1:56:13 PM | Honesty is the best policy
!!!Men want sex its true !!!! Hold the front page ....There is nothing wrong with sex its great.
I personally would rather get to know a woman first.You Don't believe it you should.
All my M8tes talk about Sex Sex Sex all day long.This is a very sad form of male bonding.Its bloody boring, most of them are better Story tellers than Hans Cristian Anderson.
The truth is Guy's we all want Sex.The Girls are the intelligent ones they want to get to know you first thats the way it should be.Getting to know someone is kinda scary,just be yourself and talk."Did he just say talk" Talking is how you get to know Someone ,how you find out if you have things in common.You have to dig deep for this one and listen to what the lady says, and stop thinking about sleeping with her you do not know her yet.
People have feelings as well , Giving it up to you to find out your just another B***** will mean that the next guys gonna get it in the neck because of you.
stop: Remember the possibility you could be the next guy 
Avoid all the morning afters when you bolt out the door at 100 miles per hour because she needed a couple paper bags to hide her ugly mug.You may have found out she's a freak and want's to cook you a nice Bunny Stew.
Any guy that does not take no for an answer is out for himself and couldn't give a shit about the person he is with he is on his own agenda.When a woman says no it means no !!
keep it real if your only after a shag try www.****buddy.com or www.somespamsite.com
just google ****buddy  : | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 2:24:49 PM |
Either the men I have met dont find me sexually attractive...or..
I have just been lucky enough to meet gentlemen.
I would say lucky. I wish I could be so lucky.
Hopefully the next fish will see me as more than a sex toy. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 2:36:06 PM |
Has anyone ever heard of saving it till after marriage...that is the way God intended it to be...
Wow!!! You talked to God??? If you would be kind enough to post a transcript of that conversation, I would be more than happy to rethink my position on the matter. Hell if you can quote where it says that in the Bible/Koran/Torah, I might consider it even still, even though those are the words of men, and not God himself.
I am no religious scholar, but I could have sworn I read someplace that God said unto Adam and Eve "Go forth and Multiply", don't recall reading the part where he said, " oh and buy her a ring, have speeches and cake, and a honeymoon first though", and "oh yeah, if it doesn't work out, give her half your stuff, and get it anulled".
Missy, I respect your oppinion on the matter, I hope you can find it in your Christian heart to respect the oppinion of myself and others as well, without the need to refer to us as toads. Personally, I believe and love God, but when I need an opiate for the masses, I will consider substance abuse instead, at least they have recovery centers for that. God Bless!
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 9/30/2006 3:57:17 PM | I'd say 85% (I'm probably being generous here) of my mail are from guys looking for sex, although some do think they are smooth enough to try and say they are not....pretty obvious when we start talking and if things don't go their way, they are never to be heard from again....I have found that most of the younger guys are at least honest and upfront about it...whereas the older guys try with the lines....
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