| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/1/2006 3:06:39 PM | Hey if you both want to have sex on the first meet go for it. There's another school of thought than the tag 'em and bag 'em mindset. Some of us actually like to get to know someone and see if we enjoy their company.  | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 5:54:17 AM | To answer your question ALL men want sex on the first date. And every date afterwards. But no sex on the first date doesn't mean no date. Paticularly if it's no sex, no bs, no venting, no man bashing, just a nice evening on the town.
I hope I'm not reiterating an old question,... if I've been overly lazy by not searching through the threads, please direct me to the similar thread please.
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Youre re iterating a ten thousand year old question m girl
Is it the norm for people who contacted each other through online sites like these to be looking for sex? Or was he the exception? I told him he should have put 'intimate encounters' under what he was looking for. But he didn't want to.
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He had good rreason not to want to. Girls read "intimate encounter" as meaning "bonk em and dump em" and, as they don't want the guy dumping them, after the first sex, they avoid such guys. Intimate encounter doesn't necessarily mean one only. but too many girls think it does.
Lets face it. If he said "marriage prospect" then you would be all over him. BUT intimate encounters are part of any marriage. Think about it. You girls are still in love with the bridal gown, not the guys. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 7:29:54 AM | Dear Opium, If a guy doesn't want to have sex with you on the first meeting, then he is either gay or really not into you. In either case there won't be a second meeting. However, I can assure you that many men are more restrained that this fellow. They might not even mention the subject, or even kiss you good night. They are being careful.
Why do some of these fellows continue to act that way. Despite what your sisters tell, you they continue to act that way, becuase it works, at least part of the time. I knew one fellow who used to go into a bar and proposition women until one said yes. He might ask forty women, but he went home with someone.
There are also women who want sex on the first date. They can get quite abusive when thwarted.
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 11:22:26 AM | I just dont agree... Does it mean that you women dont think about sex at the first date?? Dont make me laugh!!! It all depends on the person and his/her beliefs. Dont say things like: "ALL men want sex on first date and if they dont they're gay or not into you"... we're not thinking about sex ALL day, even though you think so...
I bet there are lots of women who wouldnt matter of having sex on the first date, because it depends on the person itself and the person she's dating with..
Telling me I'm gay because I dont want sex on the first date?? HA! | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 2:46:19 PM | | Well, I may be an exception to the rule, but I feel that foregoing (not sure if that's spelled right...lol) sex on the first meeting and waiting is an excellent idea. It takes so much pressure off of both parties. And right off the bat with someone you don't even know??? C'mon! That's a bit desperate! And while I know the definition many have for "sleeping together", (and I am not a bit naive on the subject) my interpretation of that at least from my standpoint is "that's your side of the bed, and this is mine." Another example of sleeping together, sans the sex. If I have offended any with my views, then I'll try to tone it down in the future. I am the type that speaks my mind so sometimes I get carried away. Thanks all. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 8:04:01 PM | My exboyfriend told me that he met a girl at her house from a on line websight and she had her clothes off in 3 minutes and he told her to put them back on and left...he said it was a turn off. And anouther one of my male friends told me he was at a females friend house and she went into the bathroom and came out compeltely naked and he said he ran for his life...lol | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 10:11:00 PM | This whole thread is a load of Bull SCHIT anyway people.
Many of the women (at least in this thread) sit here on their holier than thou THRONES as though we (men) are some evil doer's of sin/injustice and blah blah blah just because a few of us (men) have tried getting in their panties on a 1st date here & there JUST because we know some give & some don't but the freekin fact of the matter IS
they are NO damn different no matter what they say/claim
I know because I've met MANY that DO want to "do it" on the 1st freekin date, and they've came from all walks of life (different classes).
Here's how it works and I don't give a schit what any of them "say" -
if they are "attracted" to you (and I mean school girl giddy/falling head over heals attracted to you) and you are attracted to them, and you've got the "chemistry" going on between you,
they want to "do it" just as much/bad as YOU do on the 1st date and then it's all about the
"ones who do" (Catholic/reformed girls, younger girls, and liberal open minded types)!
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"the ones who don't" (born agains, self-righteous, older bitter women and conservative narrow minded types)!
GROW the H E L L UP people!
If it happens on a 1st date = "so it did/does" = "WoW"!
If it don't = "no big freekin deal" = "no one lost anything"!
"Sometimes it does/has"!
"Sometimes it doesn't/hasn't"!
"Sometimes it's the guy who pushes for it"!
"Sometimes it's the woman"!
"SOMETIMES NIETHER DO"!
This argument of who does & who doesn't and who's right/wrong or not and pointing the finger and blah blah blah is about as dumb as banging your head on a brick wall and expecting a different result compared to the last time you did it!
And those of you who don't agree with me = "Lighten the hell up and gain a sense of humor"! Also, please don't contact me - we've got nothing in common, and you couldn't pay me enough to go out with you!
I'm outta here!
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 10:28:10 PM | No, Missy the point I was making was not the spelling it was......I DONT KNOW OF ANY HEALTHY MALE who would run from a naked women in disgust.....and wouldn't it have been proper for them to say something like "sorry Im not interested etc etc. I think these women you talk about were maybe getting mixed signals from these men. It takes a lot of confidence for women to just get naked with a man they just met and I say GOOD FOR THEM...they got it going on LOL!!!!!
....and I totally agree with Greeneyeze...I couldnt have said it better myself and Im sure I said what could be interpreted the same way a few messages back...
Its all about preference and all about being into it and all about having a healthy sex life, that YOU ARE HAPPY WITH....and never mind the judgements and the prejudices of others....you guys should read Don Miguel Ruiz's work.....never take anything personally, never make assumptions, always do your best, be impeccable with your word. This is why I stay far away from organized religion (organized crime to me). | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 11:01:55 PM | | The guys I date tell me they dont date those kind of girls, thats why i date them and they werent religious...just respectful...actually having a man tell me that, made me like him even more because I knew I wasent being used. U cant fall in love the first meeting, its just lust. I need to know a guy wants just me and not every girl he dates...yuk! | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/2/2006 11:23:14 PM | Out of the 13 guys i have met over the last 15 months, all bar 2, even though i have told them before we meet that i wasnt intrested in one nite stands or casual fun. I also had guys ask me for blow jobs on the first date, im not desperaste just lonely an i have no intention of lowing my standards for a quick jump ,no matter how hot the guy is | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/3/2006 12:01:17 PM | | lol! A lot of the girls I've met here tell me they go through the same thing. In response, I've changed my profile to be more appealing to all you ladies who've been there and seen it. Check it out ;] | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:34:26 AM | Missy,
And of course if the men say they don't date women who put out they must be telling the truth. Of course they more than likely don't date those women they just have sex with them so in reality they aren't really being dishonest. Just like I am sure the majority of women on here are still virgins. LOL | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/4/2006 3:50:55 PM | | well Ive always been able to get guy without putting out...if you feel the only way you can get a man is to sleep with him your dead wrong...there are plenty of men out there who are willing to date you for who you are and not for what they can get... | |
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