| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/4/2006 5:16:54 PM | Coolpeach...one more thing...my friend told me that when the girl came out naked, she pointed to her...and said "you see this,you want to F... it" wich was a big tun off to him. Now if she came out in a sexy nite and said something like, Im attracted to you and want you now, he might have went for it. The other guy , my exboyfriend, who is one of the most beautiful good looking guys Ive ever know , just does not like those type of women, period, and he is drop dead georgeous. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:12:16 AM | Missy do you realize that when you speak of other women like that that your assuming, for one thing, that what this man told you was right, and your taking it personally.......why do you worry about such things....Perhaps those women felt that the man they were with love dirty talk...how would you know what exactly happened and why concern yourself and gossip....you need to read the "four Agreements" get your heart at a good place....stop being self-righteous, it will hurt you in the end.
SEX is healthy part of life and we personally make choices that at right for us...sometimes we **** up but its all a learning process..... I can hardly (sorry) believe that most women would get completely naked in front of some one nighter, without actually geting the signs that it was a go...and I certainly doubt that "REAL" men would run the other way, how hurtful and why were they going home with them in the first place or even out with them if there was no attraction.
loves2eatpie: Honestly I LOVE SEX and lots of it....but certainly with the right partner and someone that attracts me to where you know......I am melting....so I doubt the first meet would do that UNLESS and see life is funny....you just never know.....and I have fond memories of it and do not regret it....
I talk to my son who is 17 as much as my daughter who is 20 about being respectful to
thier own body and to that of someone elses and if it feels right to them, then always remember safe sex and enjoy a healthy sexual expereince. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:20:26 AM | | I understand your point of view but have you listened to men sitting in front of a ball game on tv talking about the easy women they laid and making fun of them and also Ive heard women saying the same thing...looking down on it...I dont know about you but if Im going to be gossiped about Id rather have people saying Im hard to get rather than saying Im easy...wouldnt you. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:21:47 AM | Damn! I only read the first few posts of this thread and now I think there is something wrong with me...
Unless she was absolutely completely irresistable, I wouldn't even try to have sex on the first date. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:37:31 AM | Well first off Missy I would never choose to be with a man who would do such a thing and well men do talk and bond with each other, but the men I have been with, are actually quite respectful....I mean who knows what they may tell their best friends but we do the same thing...I have a very very best friend and we talk about the mmmmmmmm and the aahhhhhhs. Try choosing men who are respectful and just being respectful back to them.
I find the ones that talk out loud about such things are mostly men with low self esteem that feel the need to gossip about women cause they may not feel good about themselves and need to release their poison....
This easy lay concept is more with the younger men who need to make other men think they are players etc....they learn later on about keeping personal things like that to themselves it builds up maturity and it shows when your with them.
I dont take anything anyone says personally....and as far as being easy or hard...thats there assumption, I may want someone on the first and not want the other at all.
"When you see other people as they are without taking it persaonlly you can never be hurt by what they say or do. Even if others lie to you. It is ok. They are lying because they are afraid you will discover that they are not perfect"....Don Miguel Ruiz...The Four Agreements | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 1:36:41 PM | Why does it bother you that men look for sex on the first date. If we didn't we have to hear 5 messages of "I had a good time did you" "are you interested in me" I like you do you like me" .
You should concider yourself lucky that someone wants to have sex with you. If you looked like Whoppie Goldberg you would never get to the first date.
The Bible even says "ask and ye shall recieve". Does it hurt to ask? You can always say no. You don't have to sleep with him. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 5:06:15 PM | ummm for your information 03fxdwg....Whoopie Goldberg had lots of sex with the Sexy Gorgeous Ted Danson......there is always someone for everyone..
Im going to remember the "ask and ye shall recieve" sounds good LOL....never hurts to ask and I agree with ...if we didn't we have to hear 5 messages etc etc....aren't women fickle LOL | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/5/2006 7:04:06 PM | Gee I never thought about it like that...Im going to the fair with my exboyfriend Monday and all he did was talk about wanting to have sex with me...of course he knows hes not going to get it He told me he still likes me. Ive had quite a few guys email me for sex sense Ive started this sight and had to change my profile a couple of times. I guess men will be men.Well peace to all and I hope you all get the lay of your dreams...as for me I will choose to wait for my prince | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 10/6/2006 3:17:25 AM | | i have'nt had dozens, but the first dates i have been on, i would call more of an initial meeting. the men have all been very sweet. perfect gentlemen. the ones that give me trouble, are the ones that you chat back and forth with in emails or 'im', and all of a sudden, it's cyber sex time. no thanks. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:00:40 AM | | How could you say that you should expect the possibilty of a man wanting to jump into your knickers on a first night. Its wrong and mysogenistic to even think that.Men who and i qutoe want to hang out should make there intentions known there and then and let the girl,woman decide for herself wether she would like to hang out with him un quote. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2006 3:32:59 AM | your lucky, you got a date first!!!! i get asked if we're gonna have sex over the internet... WE HAVENT EVEN MET YET!!! how the heck can i answer that???
i say " I HAVE DATING" on my profile D A T I N G , not intimate encounter, not come and get some... D A T I N G ...
I truly do not believe men know the meaning of the word "date"; it means GO OUT SOMEWHERE... not come to my house for a little somethin somethin... it means: getting to know each other, see if theres anything there!! i know EXACTLY what your talking about Opium, all i can say is.....WANNA GO ON A DATE/HANG OUT WIF ME, I PROMISE NOT TO HIT ON YA!!!!     | |
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Posted: 11/15/2006 4:10:57 AM | This thread is turning into men bashing!we dont all want sex on a first date .for me ,i dont want to make love to a near stranger,i would like to get to know the lady pretywell first, sex is about two people giving each other pleasure so if one of you feels presured into it then it becomes pointless(no man wants a woman to think of him as a bad lover!)
To the person that said "all healthy men want sex on a first date"i say b.. s...
If a woman keeps catching men that want sex on a first date then change the bait!!! | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 11/15/2006 7:21:55 AM | since i got back inton the dating scene like a year ago, i must admit nearly every guy i dated tried it on with me on the first date.Soo hard to find real gentleman these days!. Even when i say its just a friendly meet not a date!. .....
The one,s who cannot take a no ...don,t get a second chance to meet they simple step over the border line and paid the price getting to know a wonderful human being  ...now its kinda made me a little paranoid ....so i always say i am not looking for one night stands or sexual encounters before i meet...but this then starts them defending thier integrity.....they will never be straight up....because lets face it sometimes they have to be told directly.... I figure if they split and you never hear from them again you have just saved your self time and trouble fending these types off . 
a girl gotta be careful i say!. | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 11/15/2006 9:18:52 PM | Good for you Missy.Wait for your Prince.I get so sick of hearing about all the sex.It has gotten so that sex is like shaking hands. So casual that it means nothing.To me it is still the most intimate and valuable thing I can share with someone.There are as many women who want it as there are men. Society has become so drenched in it that it means nothing anymore. Think about when you buy a special dress. You go to the dance and half the room has the same dress. Kind of like walking into a room and seeing that your date has has sex with half of them. Not very special anymore.I believe that people who push the open free sex do so because they don't remember ever feeling special or like they are worth waiting for.Truly sad.I am an old man, very lonely and been alone for quite a while but still believe that I have something to give and it isn't cheap.My love is very deep and the deepest part of my love is the physical relationship.I believe that is something to be shared with only a lifetime mate.What I have comes with a committment.It is truly refreshing to see a young lady with these values.Hang in there Missy and God Bless,
Jim | |
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| How many men have you met that wanted sex on 1st meet?
Posted: 7/11/2007 7:11:07 AM | | He urged you to drink HIS beer? How do you know that he didn't put something in it? You also said that you got in his car. When I meet someone for the first time I always drive myself to a public meeting place. I don't know this person at all let alone enough to get in his car. Just be real careful! By driving myself if a red flag goes up, or if the chemistry is just not there, or if all of a sudden I feel that he has turned pushy about whatever, I can just politely excuse myself and leave. Of course making sure that he isn't following me. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2007 7:22:27 AM | | I agree with you, that pick me up is no thanks from now on, cause u are basically trapped. I had a hard time getting rid of a guy who picked me up and after the meeting would not leave me alone..will definitely do it the right way the next time...lol | |
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Posted: 7/11/2007 7:25:01 AM | You aren't that attractive, or you would have your pic up. Maybe weed out a bit better. But all you women are kinda sounding like ****es, or just bad luck. I am a good guy who never goes out with any expectations but to have fun, whether it works out or not. But you ladies are making huge generalizations about guys. No wonder ya'll so jaded. Try going out for pool, then leaving. duh | |
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