| Sleeping alone Posted: 10/24/2008 5:07:00 PM | | sleeping alone. Its just the way things are. I have accepted it. | |
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 10/24/2008 6:02:04 PM | | I sleep alone and I actually prefer it over sleeping with a man. Because I was single for along time before I met my last one and it was very hard for me to adjust from sleeping alone to sleeping with someone again. So I actually prefer sleeping in my own bed versus sleeping with a man. Plus one of my peeves is snoring! Sorry guys. One noise I cannot sleep too. | |
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 10/27/2008 7:27:44 PM | I never sleep alone, most of the time the dog is with me, or on a stormy night one of my boys joins me, or one of the ham radios is on, and the TV, or any combination at any given time. And I have an extra pillow that smells like "white diamonds" by Liz Talyor (don't ask) But I'm sure I could make room for one more ;)
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 11/1/2008 9:36:58 AM | I've had 4 years of it and i'm sure i'll have many more to put up with It does suck tho, i'll give you that. | |
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 11/1/2008 10:36:44 AM | even just for the sake of economy, it would be sooo nice to have that extra body heat. Flannel Sheets do help, but nothing can warm ya like Body Heat, from the right some BODY ! Hey don't give up, I haven't . But my luck will find that some BODY just in the midst of summer. Oh well, then be prepared for next winter. Too much negativity, we have to think POSITIVE !!  | |
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 11/1/2008 6:55:04 PM | | I am kinda a pro at this, I am a loner. I don't fit in my family or anywhere I usually spend my time traveling by myself and hanging with myself. I am probably the most strongest guy mentally tho. Spending time at weddings alone and having everybody ignore you it's grand times. | |
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 11/1/2008 7:13:29 PM | | You will always feel alone... once in a while. Just remember, if you were in a relationship, you would feel MORE NEGATIVE INTENSE FEELINGS than just being alone. Get a dog. You will still feel somewhat alone... sometimes. Just remember, as you feel this loneliness, others are feeling abandoned, neglected, distanced, disrespected by significant others who sleep with them every night. It is better to be alone. Anytime you start to get these feelings, try to recall the misery you felt, while in a past relationship. This should make you trivialize your current state of loss and loneliness. | |
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| Sleeping alone Posted: 11/1/2008 7:44:28 PM | | I KNOW EXACTLY WHERE UR COMING FROM. I GUESS WHEN YOUR FAMILIAR WITH SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE AT NIGHT IT NEVER OCCURS TO U HOW BEING ALONE REALLY FEELS. SLEEPING ALONE IS A PROCESS THAT IM VERY IGNORANT TOO. NO ONE LIKES IT IN FACT I HATE IT. I FIND MYSELF WANTING TO BE ALONE AT TIMES ALSO. I MEAN IF UR NOT IN A COMMITTED/SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP U CAN HAVE WHO U WANT WHEN U WANT THEM, IF IT IS SERIOUS SOMEONE SHOULD FILL THE VACANCY WITHOUT BEING ASKED TO DO SO. SO I GUESS IT DEPENDS WHERE U STAND IN YOUR LOVE LIFE. THERE IS A VERY THIN LINE BETWEEN PAIN AND PLEASURE ONCE U FIND THE BREAKING POINT FOR UR SPECIFIC SITUATION IT SHOULDN'T BE HARD TO ADJUST, WHEN THE LONELY NIGHTS KICK IN JUS HANDLE UR BIZ (WITH BOB), OR SOMETHING TO RELAX U FIND A ZONE OF COMFORT DURING THOSE TIMES! P.S. U ARE NOT ALONE | |
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