| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:16:39 AM | Geez, you make the word 'slut' sound bad.
I love chicks who are sluts. I am a slut myself. I don't see anything wrong with the word.
Slut = knows they want sex and remove the barriers to that sex | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:18:01 AM | Nice guys finish last?
In High School I was the nice guy, guess I still am, last in line in the lunch line in High School, which really had its advantages as I got to go for seconds for food and could have whatever and all I wanted. Yummy. 
You know how it is when the two buff male deer stags are fighting it out between themselves for the doe, the sneaky buck who is not in the ring fighting is screwing the fertile doe. Ha Ha Ha | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:21:05 AM |
I love chicks who are sluts. I am a slut myself. I don't see anything wrong with the word.
According to the dictionary you have to be a woman to be a slut, sorry. I guess the beer took too many brain cells.
n 1: a dirty untidy woman [syn: slattern, slovenly woman, trollop] 2: a woman adulterer [syn: adulteress, fornicatress, hussy, jade, loose woman, strumpet, trollop] | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:22:36 AM | | I was turned down on a second date once... and later through friends... discovered that it was because I was "too nice." Everyone has their standards, and I honestly believe some... (okay most)... girls are just looking for a "bad boy." If your tendency to be nice is sincere, and not a front, you will find women who are attracted to it... you just gotta find the right women. So to all the nice guys out there: keep buying flowers, keep opening car doors, and keep up on the compliments... and you might just find somebody who appreciates it. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:29:25 AM | | Man Slut: a heterosexual male who has a girlfriend/fiance, dates 1 or more other women in addition to his significant other, and engages in sexual encounters both in person and online with still other women. furthermore, the man slut usually does not take proper "safe sex" precautions and will blame the females with which he engages for any std's or pregnancies which occur. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:29:59 AM | Babylonia - why do girls always think guys like me are not being themselves? Very optimistic of you. But, sorry to say that I am what I present myself to be. No hidden child - no sensitive side
Maybe when I am in T.O. in December, we can hook up and you can see for yourself! | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:30:41 AM | I must of found it at the same web site 
You look like you would take care of yourself more then the definition but it is still a risk. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:32:11 AM | Yes darling man0man.
Really, my post was mostly directed at the OP (I should have prefaced that). But if you are saying that you generally discount and dismiss a woman, then we'd have BIG trouble if we ever got together. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:33:11 AM | manOman...just be yourself as you have been doing already.....
Stop being pushovers....you can still be nice. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:37:56 AM | | Babylonia - big trouble would probably be big fun with a chick like you. You would chew a 'nice guy' up and toss him out. You need someone who can handle your wild side, and no good boy is going to do that for you. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:41:12 AM | | Hold up now, man0man check out the two definitions. The nice guy is pleasing or agreeable in nature and the man slut will blame the females with which he engages. Which one is better? | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:45:14 AM | The nice guy is the one who says "whatever you want, dear", "wherever you want to go is fine", "I just want you to be happy"...blah blah puke.
Women are attracted to assertiveness, not agreeableness. They like the chair pulled out for them, the car door opened for them, the man to pay for the date, etc - all these are events that give the man control. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:47:13 AM | No that's being a pushover^^^^^^^
Nice is lets compromise but can be assertive when he needs to. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:47:32 AM | | When will people stop confusing "nice guys" with "needy guys". The problem is women don't want to hurt a guys feelings so they say your just to nice. Then they think that they are by all means a nice guy and that's why they can't get a women. Thus is not the case. If your needy women and stop that right away and unless she has issues she's not going to want some needy man. I hope for the love of God this stops that stupid theory! Being a nice guy is nothing more than being respectful and considerate. Listening to what someone has to say and being an all around good friend and good lover. Not just looking out for number one. There is no reason for someone to change what and who they are just to get a few more dates and besides the fact that your on the same site as the rest of us. So whatever it is that your doing, it would look like it's not working. Happy hunting... | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:49:52 AM |  I agree too
Women are programmed to say no and nice guys agrees,end of story. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:53:32 AM |
When will people stop confusing "nice guys" with "needy guys".
Exactly!
Have your own opinions, show that you are ready to put her or anyone else in their place if they disrespect you.
You deserve respect. So does she. It's a two way street. End of story. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:53:32 AM | Personally, I think it's absolutely idiotic to say "women this" "men that."
Isn't anyone familiar with the reality of individualism? | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:53:33 AM |
They like the chair pulled out for them, the car door opened for them, the man to pay for the date, etc - all these are events that give the man control.
And all this time I thought this was being considerate. I agree it is about respect, if you can't respect a woman's opinion every once in a while then you will be out the door before long. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:53:42 AM |
When will people stop confusing "nice guys" with "needy guys". The problem is women don't want to hurt a guys feelings so they say your just to nice.
That is so true darth!!! I love to meet the nice guys the needy guys are the ones that scare me A LOT!!
Nice guy= opening doors for you, giving you a flower hand picked or bought doesn't matter just something to let you know that you are special, holding you hand to help you out of the car. Letting you know that they are thinking about you.
Needy guy= Calling you 10 times a day to let you know that they are thinking about you. Stalking you at bars because you just metioned where you where going. Asking constantly "what are you thinking?" That irritates the crap out of me. Stuff like that.
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