| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:56:43 AM | | Oh and don't forget the needy guys want it ALL, that includes being on booty call twenty four hours a day. Nice guys don't expect that, they earn that trust first and foremost. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:58:36 AM |
When will people stop confusing "nice guys" with "needy guys". The problem is women don't want to hurt a guys feelings so they say your just to nice.
OMG!!!!!!!
thank you, thank you, thank you.....Finally, a man who gets it
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:00:12 PM | | Jessika..... I won't ever buy you flowers because I'm too cheap, I don't hold car doors open for women because they have the strength to do that themselves and I won't ever ask you what you are thinking because I just don't care. Date me. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:02:42 PM | You can still pick the flowers out of her own garden.  | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:03:17 PM | | Pick the flowers out of her own garden? Is that a sexual reference? | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:04:28 PM | A woman saying he's "too nice"
Is the equivalent to a guy saying, "I'm not ready for a relationship".
It's an easy way out without getting into the real reasons, like, "there is no chemistry". | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:05:49 PM | | or, "you're unemployed in live in your parents basement" | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:06:10 PM | Nice Guy = Needy Guy
If you disagree, then you are probably a nice guy. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:06:47 PM | If you can pull the rabbit out of a hat... why not, would be impressive enough for another date.
Nice guys are not that desperate, they make good salemen since they are turned down for their high standards, man sluts don't have any standards except for the way a woman looks. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:11:35 PM | The poster has the formula for what works for guys who look like him.
Ofcourse the women on this site are going to come in here and flame him, but the truth of the matter is that Pof women are not the norm, and thus the minority. Having it put down in words quite like Jay Jay (good god man that name is really too much, can you be more of a cliche posting like that and having that name) will offend most women ofcourse, but that doesn't mean he's not right.
I don't need to reiterate what he's said, but a lot of men on this site could probably benefit from tempering their puppy-dog nice guy attitudes and approaches with some Alpha-male tendencies. Women DO gravitate to a man who is clear on what he wants and doesn't compromise basic needs. Women DO tend to be attracted to a man who isn't afaraid to say things or do things that another guy would think "oh but if I do/say that she won't like me". Not everything you say or do needs to be approved. The mere fact that you seek such complete improval smells of weakness, and women, like dogs, will smell it.
Women can tell you all about how they want "sensitivity" and "nice guys", but if she feels like you will say or do ANYTHING to make her happy then you become the chump. The chump is the guy she'll call and **** about the "jerk" to, because she knows you'll tell her she's right and he'll listen soooo well.
I can vouch for the teasing women thing, it does work. Don't be hatefull, but playfull and throw caution to the wind. If you're always on her case then she'll like the attention she's getting, but the fact that you're teasing her will put her in the mode of trying to get you to see her better qualities. She WANTS a sudden compliment. Starve her for it.
This is a delicate art. You have to have established right off the bat that you're a bit of a mischievious prankster. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:11:56 PM | Holy Spaghetti Monster in the Sky!
Nice does NOT equal doormat nor should it. Why don't you try being yourself? A woman will either appreciate it or not. No one with any quality wants anyone who has to "act".
When you play games to attract someone you typically get:
A) A game-player in return
B) Someone who will feel deceived when they figure out they didn't get the real you.
You get what you give. You teach people how to treat you. No one can treat you badly if you don't allow it.
I'd throw myself off a cliff before I'd pretend to be someone or something I am not. Sooner or later I'll find someone that adores me for me. In the meantime I can wait and continue to live my life and enjoy it.
To thine own self be true. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:12:54 PM | | Man 0 Man.... I have to agree with you 95% of the time.... I think there's exceptions though.... There are ALWAYS exceptions you man whore. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:17:39 PM | Yes - there are exceptions to every rule. I agree. But stereotypes become stereotypes because they are, more often than not, true.
And, thank you for recognize my whoreness - nice to have my gifts noticed  | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:19:40 PM |
Nice Guy = Needy Guy
If you disagree, then you are probably a nice guy
ridiculous generalization....... respecting the needs of others is humble, and exudes wisdom...that doesnt make them needy | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:19:58 PM | Remember, offense is just a ploy because the defense is weak
This is coming from a woman with experience - I'm sure she's read the
playbook and knows it by heart.
Don't even try any further because by now you can only crash and burn. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:24:59 PM | Yo OT
I think your comments on here are not right. I think a guy can be anyway he wants to, as nice as he wants. If there are some shallowheads that reject nice good guys then they don't know what they are missing. OK
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:30:29 PM | blastkist, you’ll have to offer your workshop/book free to nice guys because they won’t need it. lol
OT
Finishing last can sometimes make you the ultimate winner, when all is said and done. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:33:09 PM | | It's funny the only women that most of you "Alpha Males" attract are needy women who are searching for a male figure in their lives or have some other problem that would be better if they found help from a shrink. You petty little games will never work on a intelligent indapentdet strong women. When you seem to run into these women you turn like a dog with it's tail in between your legs and mutter she a b!tch. Why because she can see threw all your BS. I'm a nice guy and I have no shame in saying that. I'm not needy nor do I need to act like someone I'm not. I'm secure with myself and have confidence in who I am. That is what attracts women. Not being an Alpha Male or some jerk. You think it works because you have learned how to fake these thing but the end result is always the same. They end up seeing you for who you really are and eather you dump them before they can figure it out or they dump you when they see the scared little boy who has to act like the big tough guy to impress the ladies. But hey, keep doing what your doing. Being lonely isn't that bad after all. There's no shame in your game, is there Playa! Halla back! WOOT WOOT! Oh I crack myself UP! | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:38:26 PM | -=-Yes - there are exceptions to every rule. I agree. But stereotypes become stereotypes because they are, more often than not, true.-=-
LoL! Your stupidity impressed me. If you don't know or understand why I'm saying this, pick up a book and read it. Don't worry when you first open the book it may crack a little. It's ok! It's what books do when you first open them. It won't hurt you. Go ahead, give it a try! | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:47:00 PM |
Jessika..... I won't ever buy you flowers because I'm too cheap, I don't hold car doors open for women because they have the strength to do that themselves and I won't ever ask you what you are thinking because I just don't care. Date me
LOL you are so funny. That is ok I wouldn't expect you too.
All I have to say is there is a big differance between needy and nice. And all the nice guys on here don't stop being nice. Despite what people say us girls still like the nice guys. It is the NEEDY guys we have a problem with.  | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:49:37 PM | | Jessika, all I need is a good cook and you're in.... Is that too much to ask? | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:50:24 PM | | Yo, taterboy. If you don't understand big words like 'stereotype', that is okay. You are still a very special boy. | |
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