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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:52:56 PM | | Ummmm when did stereotype become a big word? You want a big word? Here ya go, Supercalafragelisticexpealadocious! Work on that one... Yes that is really a word. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:55:46 PM | See Women Get All pissed off when you tell everyone the secret to getting to their Vagina.
They really want a guy to show them whos boss i know this. You have to Man handle a women and say woman you better have my laundry done by time i get off work.Otherwise you aint getting no pu tang.
They love it. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 12:57:16 PM | Jessika, all I need is a good cook and you're in.... Is that too much to ask?
<<<<<<--------I am a very good cook. 
Just as long as you are a nice guy. 
Thewootah...Please please tell me this is not your thinking about women. You are going to get hurt one of these days if you tell the wrong women that. LOL | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 12:57:27 PM | gak....what an idiot opinion.
guess ya'll think it's ok to smack her too if she it? | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 12:59:20 PM | | Jessika, if the food is good, I'll give you a compliment.... And MAYBE do the dishes.... | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 1:00:32 PM | ^^^^^^ that is cool what do you want for dinner. getting the dishes done is a lot better then flowers.  | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 1:03:00 PM | | I like meat loaf and chicken parmesean.... those are my two absolute favorites..... If you can make a good meat loaf... Like, better than my grandmother's, I'm all yours.... | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 1:09:16 PM | I make awesome Meatloaf!!!
OT:::I think that guys should just be themselves. If you are a nice guy so be it, but don't become a jerk or act like a jerk just because you think that all nice guys finish last. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 1:16:23 PM | | LOL that is good to know there sweetie.....but you said that you are too cheap to buy me flowers and you don't care what I am thinking about. Or are you just blowing smoke. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 1:26:04 PM | Being Nice as a person is different from acting Nice..
For Nice guys:
You only need one lady in your life who has the ability to understand your feelings and is happy to be in a relationship with you...Dont worry abt ladies who dont respect your niceness..Most of the woman at young ages are not that matured to have patience for you or they dont fullyunderstand the requirements of succesful marriage as a long term investment..Once they find the shallowness in a player or guys who are not too nice but attractive , they realise that they have wasted time to get pure love that lasts forever..
To love and be loved is the greatest blessing in life...
Good things take time to materialize ..,
you will be loved by the lady who is right for you.. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 2:54:45 PM | To be brutally honest...
It really pisses me off that women don't want a nice guy. But what pisses me off even more is that I only learned this now. I've been a nice guy for the past 23 years, thinking that this is what women want. You always hear that women want a nice guy, whether it be in the media, books, and even what girls have said to me. So that's what I did - I learned to be a nice guy.
And yeah, it's gotten me nowhere - but I've been wondering all this time, "what am I doing wrong?" So I thought, "maybe I'm not nice enough?" So I've just been trying harder and harder to be nicer and nicer. Still nothing.
But the thing is, now I don't know how not to be a nice guy, nice is all I know. I don't even know how to fake being a bad boy. And really, should you even fake yourself into a relationship? Even the original post mentioned that you should be yourself and that women want guys to be themselves. Well guess what - MY 'SELF' IS A NICE GUY.
So, what should I do? Learn how to fake being a bad boy? Or just keep being nice and hope that I eventually find a girl who appreciates it?
Any advice is greatly appreciated. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 2:58:08 PM | Being nice, as I described earlier, would be the best way to go. Nothing wrong with being nice, plus you will attract women who like you for what you are.  | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 2:59:17 PM | | The last thing in the world I want want is a women who likes me for who I am! Clear sign of mental disturbance! | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 3:06:56 PM |
The last thing in the world I want want is a women who likes me for who I am!
man0man, since I doubt you are looking for a partner to marry, you do not need to be compatible except in bed. My advice was for the person who wants to get married. Since a domineering attitude will lead to trouble in a marriage. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 3:32:22 PM | | i have to agree with you also jay jay and don't ever be afraid to say whats on your mind here for fear of being flamed | |
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Posted: 10/15/2005 3:33:36 PM | Umm...just my op...but...I thought women seemed to be attracted to a "dash" of bad boy at the start, but in time, deep down they want a good boy. In truth, we all want a little spice at the start...but in time, life makes us appreciate the finer qualities in someone.
The common thread you'll notice with the girls or guys who like "bad boys or girls", is that they seem to rarely be happy, they seem to often break up, and seem rarely to have steady long term "healthy" relationships. (yes I know, it's a generalisation, and I hate using them, that's why i say "seem to")
It's about give and take, and knowing or judging correctly when to give or to take. No-one wants a doormat, then again no-one wants Mount Everest to climb.
Sounds hard I know...but there are times to be soft and gentle, and times to be a little more stolid. If you ever figure out the formula...let us know....but in the mean time...
To the Original Poster...go back to the drawing board...I'm pretty sure you're wayyyyyyyy off base on this.
Herv. | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 4:18:14 PM | | Why would a woman want a nice guy ? there's nothing left to fix or change about him . unless she just want's some guy to kick around . | |
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| Stop being a NICE guy
Posted: 10/15/2005 4:21:27 PM | | Or how about: If it's not broken, don't try to fix it. | |
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