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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 1/21/2007 8:29:42 PM | | I personally think if you date more than 10 to 15 years difference you will find that you don't have that much in common. Both are raised in different times, with different attitudes, ect. Not as much in common as with someone who is closer to your age. Even things like music you grew up with will be different. I definately won't date anyone who could be young enough to be my child. That's a big reason older people don't frequent bars like the younger ones do. I go to a bar and everyone is young enough to be my kids. Different opinions seem abundant here so mostly just make sure you two don't have any hangups about it. Oh and leave the kiddies alone. | |
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| what do you guys think about younger women dating older men ?
Posted: 4/14/2007 3:39:44 AM |
i say cut to the chase and find a guy with a good job a car and lots of money,most young guys don't have that ,and after all money is the most important part of a relationship after the lust phase is over what a sad and cynical viewpoint  - money means NOTHING at the end of the day - and certainly any female who is just after a guy for those reasons deserves to be on their own ( not that i think most of you are BTW ) - that's like the other sweeping statement i have noticed to be prevalent on this site " all men are only after sex " - some of us "mature " ( note that word ) - guys , are here genuinely looking for a real relationship that will last - to find a partner in life - not just a quick dalliance ( and if you don't know what one of those is -get a thesaurus ) ye gods - it makes me wonder if any of you ever get dates on here let alone into lasting relationships ?? as to is it OK to date older guys ??- well if you want experience - MATURITY - to have the ability to treat ladies with the respect and in a manner that any GENTLEMAN should - then yes it is !- at the end of the day it is what you are happy with - not what the rest of the universe thinks call me old fashioned if you want - i for one believe in the old values of respect - courtesy - values - and fidelity - may be it's because i AM mature ?? any way as always just my opinion - words in caps not shouting - that is emphasis !! regards and respect to all  | |
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| what do you guys think about younger women dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 1:43:28 PM | So where are these women? I find most women who are even 42 or 43 won't go much more than a couple of years older than themselves. 99% want someone younger. If I hear anything at all from anyone on here, it's almost always from someone in their 50's . Maybe those women, too, are looking for a younger man in which case I would qualify.  | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 1:51:58 PM | | Now I can help a lot. I have a lot more time then most guys and being self employed can still go out and dance and party if I like. But it has gotten old. I think any more then 10 years is not going to work. I turn down dates for anyone more then 11 years occasionally i get them. I simply fun and playful for my age but very responsible. I usually date someone 5 to 10 years younger simply because they are in good shape and no kids. I am in good shape and no kids as well! Over 10 years though is to hard to relate the culture and things I remember no longer matter. Personally I encourage you to date older but not over 30!!!! Besides a 35 year old with a 18 or 19 year old is not serious or responsible. | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 2:23:08 PM | I've had more 20 somethings flirt with me than women close to my age, and though it's fun, it's pretty weird for me. I've also proven out the fact they don't realize how old I am, by making them guess.
I love the attention no doubt, but I can see no possible way our life experiences could connect enough to sustain a relationship. I find them physically attractive (who wouldn't?) but as yet haven't found one intellectually attractive. I have made friends with a couple, nothing more, and I see no reason that can't work well. Some know the things I've been through and they appreciate my advice, with the caveat that it may not work for them, lol.
Seriously though? Can't imagine it working but for a fling, but then life is full of surprises...Besides...I just can't tolerate Rap/Hip Hop for more than about 10 seconds...
Meh...I'd just shoot myself.  | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 2:53:46 PM | I am happy to have found this thread because I have the same problem with people preaching to me in regards to age difference, experience and more.
I am 36 and pretty much everyone I meet, men or women, tell me I look young for my age.
For that matter, I have a difficult time meeting women of any age. Women that are close to 36 and talk to me, actually tell me I look too young and it would be awkward. When I do meet a woman that thinks I am younger and then discovers my real age, they tell me that I am too old and we probably have nothing in common.
I see age as just a number and should have no bearing on whether it is "appropriate" for us to date each other. If others cannot accept that, who cares what they think. I am not living their lives. I couldn't care less what people say or think about my choices. Sure, I'll listen to their advice, but it won't necessarily mean that I use that information to influence my decisions.
I DO know what I want in life and have achieved some of it already. there are a few things I'd like to do before time runs out. Two of them are to get married and have children.
Those are the most important goals I have set for myself. Of course, these will come in due time and I know I do not have total control over whether either of them ever happen. I'd like to believe there is a woman out there for me that will accept me for who I am and not fill some contraption they conjured up in their mind. | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 3:18:14 PM | I never date wemons...I try to stick to my own species.
On the other hand I love women who appreciate a more mature male. We have everything the young guys have, plus money in the bank, good jobs, maturity & stability.
Of course I also like to date older women. I just like women. | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 3:19:01 PM | some people here think it is almost evil and stupid to date someone way younger especially if the people are in their 40's and have daughters over 18 , they think older people are evil and up to no good , while the daughter is in college getting laid and doing threesomes , the great older guy must be worse than that and have absolutely no place even talking to an 18 year old , hahahaha , such shallow people with very little emperical thinking and reason .
People are people , at any age , we all want love , we look for peace and happiness.
Last night I went out with a girl 18 , she was the one who called me and asked me out at 10 pm to go clubbing with her because she heard I love to dance , when it was al over I thought she was going to die , she was too tired , drank too much and guys wanted to grope her I had to play body guard and she told all those drunks she was my girlfriend so they would back off , yeah she is that hot. After that ,, she called me today and said she never had so much fun in her life and felt really protected and taken care of by me , never any guy treated her with repect and had alot of fun at the same time. never with a guy her age.
Today we are going to get some icecream and then go to listen to live music at the hardrock , sehe set that up, she wants me to go in full rock garb motorcycle and leather , hahahaha | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 3:19:13 PM | | There is nothing wrong with two people of different ages, regardless of the spread, dating, as long as both parties are realistic of the outcome. A man say in his fifties is not going to start a family with someone in their thirties or maybe twenties. From the time you turn 18, you should be wise enough to know what you want. I always get approached by younger ladies. I have no problem with that. But I also ask them, are you sure you want a man of my age? As long as both people are on the same page, go for it. | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 5/6/2007 5:21:36 PM | If a man wants to date someone a lot younger than them, have at it. The next time you see a couple like that, take a good look at the man, he usually just looks tired!
Myself, I don't like younger guys, but I don't want someone that's more than 10 years older than me. | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 6/24/2007 5:35:15 PM | well all i can say is im 20 my ex was 32 and before that 30 all the men ive had proper loving relationships witha re all older men they just seem to know what theyre doin not just in the bedroom but with ur feelings aswell , dont get me wrong ive had my fair share of idiots just wanting a younger girl to make themselfs feel better because they can get a younger woman but all in all i say go for it age is not a matter as u have to get an older man anyway to get the right maturity level lol ................ good luck and keep ur chin up dont let other ppl judge u so quickly there proberly not as secure as urself       | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:02:36 PM |
am also 18 going on 19 and my boyfriend at the moment is 23. My last boyfriend was 35 also...They are more experienced...and wiser.
LOL...it is like 35 is the magic number for us 18/19 year old gals.. That is how old my previous boyfriend was as well. We are still cordial now, he is a wonderful person but a bit controlling...that is the disadvantage of someone older in my opinion. And you would think it would be the exact opposite. | |
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Joined: 6/4/2007
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:11:37 PM | Being a 31 year old who looks closer to 20 in real life, I'm all for this.
Seriously though, I've thought a lot about this because it can be a problem for me. In real life I tend to attract women around 20ish who are very immature. And no I'm not the type to use a girl when I don't see a future with her so hold the huzzahs please. Online in mediums with no pictures and no personal info I tend to attract women who are over 45. They assume by the way I type and the things I type about I must be around 50. So in essence I'm damned either way.
I thought about actually dating someone closer to 50 because I appreciate maturity A LOT. But then I was thinking when I'm 50 and I'm looking about 30 (its hereditary, my 50 year old aunt still gets carded, people thought my mom was my sister) my wife is going to be around 70 and that is not going to be fun at all. However when I'm 70 I will probably look 50, so even if I married someone 10 years younger than me she's probably going to collect wrinkles faster than me. So I'm probably going to stick with dating 24-32ish.
So my point in this is that yes people who have an age gap can have a great relationship and there are reasons to do it, the big reason not to is the end. If you marry someone 10-20 years older you are probably going to be spending a lot of time as a widow/widower after you spend a lot of time caring for them after their body gives out. I've talked to a few women that have been through it and they love their husbands but regret marrying someone so much older. | |
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| what do you guys think about younger wemon dating older men ?
Posted: 6/26/2007 3:21:03 PM | theres a really good reason that younger women like older men,older men are much more patient, there not only looking for one thing, if you have children they stay arround an suport them, there not as jelouse or self centered as boys
personally i dont care what age my future love is, as long as shes mature, and unfortunatly maturity does not come with age for either sex | |
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