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Posted: 5/27/2008 5:07:18 PM | Don't worry about it too much... i've never had a response either. At first you think.... hmm maybe emails are not getting through... then you think "hmm something must be wrong with me" .... then you think... "Is my profile projecting me in a certain way?" Then you just come to the realisation.... many people get this.
It can actually help in many ways because it might help you to look outside of the unreality of cyberspace where people can pretend be who they want to be rather than who they are.
Don't believe all that.. 'want a decent man' crap or 'looking for someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously' or 'want a man with a good sense of humour'... they are all just chiche` statements you see in the back of a tabloid newspapers.
Don't worry about it too much, try to meet women outside of cyberspace, they're usually much nicer in the flesh (so to speak)... even better, foreign women who have come to live in whichever country you are for a couple of years... (different mindset... much more open)  | |
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Posted: 5/27/2008 5:19:38 PM | First of all don't let it get you down. So what if you don't get any replies. Now is a good time to ask your self if you are a quiter? You might try not coming on so hot and go for friendship first. Be light and postive about your self and life in general.
Have a grand day, make the choice we do.
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Posted: 5/28/2008 6:49:38 AM | | Well, I tried to email you, but you have some restrictions. I'm 43, and you won't even accept my email. Maybe you have some blocks up and have limited yourself to the email you receive. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2008 6:58:47 AM | I understand what your going through, I haven't really gotten any replies from any of my messages either. Women, say that they want a nice honest man, but when they see that picture things seem to change. I'm an honest guy just like you but what can you do besides try. The only advice I have to give is don't change anything, maybe you should just take a break from the site for a little and go do something else, thats what I've been doing the last week or two. All we can do is just hang in there, I'm sure there are women out there for guys like you and I.
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Posted: 5/28/2008 10:50:42 AM | | no reply, read deleted, unread deleted are the norm especially if you are messaging pretty girls who probably get hundreds of messages. It isn't just you....& it isn't just this site either...so don't feel so bad. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 4:56:31 AM | Malboro man.
Look after your own emotional well-being first and before anyone elses.
You MUST safeguard this well-being above all else and don't expose yourself emotionally to people who are not at your level, if you can keep yourself together in this way you have already won the larger battle.
All these women who say they want a ''nice honest man'' half the time I do not believe them and do you?.
They want what every woman wants which is excitement and romance.
look at the cover of a womans romantic fiction book or a love story film, do you see a nice honest man or do you see a guy who looks all romantic & mysterious.? | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 5:11:52 AM | My pics are most likely why i do not get messages!, but oh well, hey i'm alive and i keep on keepin on
I'm not the sharpest pencil in the box, i'm not the most sparkly alluring gold under the glass, but hell, hey, put me in coach, i'm ready! LOL
Dont let it get ya down, you never know, who, when, where or how.
Nevermind the why, its just another head ache
Be yourself, don't quit, and let the real you show, i'm sure one day you might just have somethin different to post | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 5:33:22 AM | Why don't all of you try messaging people you are not attracted to, look outside that box, you just might be surprised, I know I was many times. What you are now or have been trying is not working right!. Most peoples expectations are so extreme they will never meet anyone.  | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 5:37:36 AM | dear quintas...
dont be so hard on yourself...
i know realise...that all those woman (on here) are either lesbians.. and full with hate for man.. for what man have done to them... e.i get them pregers and leaving their a**es etc...
i mean if a men has done that to you.. wouldnt you be a bit bitter also?
(save yourself lots of heartache)
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Posted: 5/30/2008 5:57:28 AM | | You say it's whats on the inside (bullshit ) go fishing without bait see what you get ,you need to man up bro it's not you it's these ladies anymore they are empowered ya they have it all and if you read the profiles you can see that (OH I want to be near the beach ,I want a honest man ,Oh I want someone nice well yea but if you are nice they dump you saying your a wimp **** em all ,the only reason they are here is they cheated on the poor nice guy they were with but yet they want someone honest ,Ill give them honest Ill do them and if they want love they better get a puppy !!!!! so jack off it's healther and you don't have to hug the dam thing every time you get some and if it cheats on you cut it off ,im so sick of these sluts anymore they will do anyone anytime .Im 50 years old im alone and I love it sure I would love to have someone but look at all the bullshit you get with it !!! I make my own money and spend it the way I want to ,I go when and wherever I want ,when I was married and tryed to go eat at Bob Evans early I would not get there till Noon waiting for her to get ready . | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 6:01:43 AM | | Ok heres the deal im not lowering my standards for anyone and if I have to date for the sake of dating I find no value in it so Ill go alone you sound like a touchy feely type (moma's boy) you go get you a fat one good for you rool her in flower mabe you will find a wet spot . | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 6:04:23 AM | lol can't belive i have just wasted time reading this, the post was 2 & 1/2 yrs ago and the OP no longer has a profile, should this not be deleted now??
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Posted: 5/30/2008 6:32:30 AM | | Hey guy do not get down on yourself people will be people jus no that there is someone for everyone keep the faith i had a female tell me to pls do not email her anymore but she showed up on my person that veiw i thought that was funny i will not throw her under the bus but so what thats why its called pof i mean u call it a lot of things but its called pof jus keep it moving | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 6:39:36 AM | Im sorry that you feel so alone ... I think alot of ppl on here do ... Its amazing how ppl can read a profile like their reading a cereal box and think they know all they need to know ... Looks are everything to most ppl and I dont know why ... Take my pic for example I have my moms eyes and my dads cheeks .. Mom did me good but Im a little disapointed in dad ... lol ... I look like I way 250 or 300 pounds .. lol ... Im overweight but not that much ... What Im trying to say is ... Pics are even wrong just like words and until ppl start looking at profiles with open minds it is going to be a bum deal ... take care hun ... Some how you will find what you are looking for ..  | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 6:46:07 AM | Boo hoo...When I first joined bout a year ago, I put up my real nice pic w/ all this stuff bout goin to church. I got a couple of responses, then I thought I'd just tell em what they wanted to hear, and ZOWIE BAM I got hundreds. The sluttier the pic, the more attention. It's mostly a game of "you look good, no YOU look good." Actual serious peeps are few & far between, so I just play it like that. The times I tried to get serious, turned out to be all flakey. You cant take this stuff seriously. We all put on our masks, to present what we want others to see. So, GO FOR IT!!! Just give the people what they want, and you too can have all this attention. What would you rather have...no response and trying to be all real, or dress it up a bit to get some dang mail to play with?
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Posted: 5/30/2008 7:57:30 AM | spumoni ... I am NOT gay but I have to say if I was a guy yur pic would get my attention ... lol ... go for it girl ... Sense I cant do anything like you did maybe I should put " open minded " ? ... LOL ... I dont think I could do either .... I just like reading forums and making friends mostly on this sight ... I do wish everyone luck ...
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:42:56 AM | | You have to love yourself first look at all your talents your good qualities and when you love yourself others will as well. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:08:13 PM | Seriously hun ... go to a mirror and look in it ... there is a person there that is YOU and there is no one like you ... Then close your eyes and put your hand on your chest and feel that heart beating ... You are a living humman being just like everyone else is ... There IS happens and comes from not your past or how much you own or how attractive you are , its from with inside you hun ... Dont let the internet make you feel that you are not worthy of someone cause you are ...
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Posted: 5/31/2008 5:03:34 AM | | if youre a nice guy on here you don't have a chance...or nice lady...i think most on here just keep thinking somone better will come along | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 3:16:42 PM | | I c ould just wait for a girl to e-mail me rather than e-mail her. I might as well go out to bars with my family taking me to one. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2008 3:27:48 PM | Well Marlboro.man I am sure that your name alone is turning off all the non-smoking women.
Just a thought. | |
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