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| reasons you have ended a relationship with someone
Posted: 8/14/2008 7:02:42 PM | #1 Carla sweet breath, that was her nick name. Gorgeous woman, forever a bad odor eminating from her mouth. Not halitosis, just a really bad, nast natural body emission. Poor girl, I couldn't get past it.
#2 Too jealous. Would call me every two hours. Show up at my place unannounced, and went through all my personal stuff every time she could. She somehow got my password to my yahoo account. I found out when I tried to log on and it said, " You are already logged". I ended it. I couldn't get past it. | |
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| reasons you have ended a relationship with someone
Posted: 8/17/2008 1:55:39 PM | | The last 2 guys I dated were way too needy,insecure,and clingy.They smothered me to death.My last boyfriend literally followed me everywhere I went,expected to know every personal details about me and expected to know all my private thoughts.He was constantly bugging me for cuddling,kissing,etc all the time.I love to cuddle and everything but not every second of the day.He wouldn't give me any space.It got to the point that we were fighting everyday.Because he was too needy,insecure,and clingy I decided to call it off.I expect any guy I date to be independent and be able to do things on his own. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2008 5:28:33 PM | 1rst real boyfriend ... drank too much, really obsessive, tried to rape me at a party then went psycho and wanted to beat me (good thing for guy friends that night). For me, it was over...for him, he couldn't understand why ... and tracked me down everywhere I moved for the next 5 years.
2nd actual boyfriend ... because he was too sweet, and would not "make a move on me", which I ... at the time... took as an insult or sign of "lack of interest". Turns out he liked me so much he was too scared of scaring me off. What an idiot I was!!
3rd real boyfriend ... because when he was leaving for work out-of-town he told me that he wasn't going to go without other females, and that I could go out with other guys. He wanted me to move with him to his hometown, but said I could date other guys when I was there (??) . Confused the heck out of me...
any others ... drank too much and/or cheated too much and/or were controlling and showing abusive tendancies.
Latest ... the best man I have ever met in soooo many ways, but there are a few problems that I can't seem to get past at this age & stage I am at. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2008 5:38:03 PM | Macho, Micro-managing, Know it all.
Take charge type -- wants to help me (without my permission) but doesn't know what he is doing!
Lost $8,000 out of my day trading account -- almost set my lawnmower on fire!
Same week.
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Posted: 9/21/2008 12:15:31 AM | I BROKE UP WITH THIS ONE GUY BECAUSE...... I WAS JUST IN A SERIOUS
AUTO ACCIDENT, AND I WAS A NERVOUS WRECK I RAN TO HIM FOR COMFORT AND THE FIRST THING HE SAYS TO ME WAS " WHAT WERE YOU DOING OVER THERE ?"
MY OTHER EX'S WERE MAMA BOYS, CHEAP SKATES, NARCISTIC, CLINGY
AND DRUG/ALCOHOLICS. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 7:04:40 AM | The biggest reason, lying......I hate that....and also, after cooking a big thanksgiving meal for him, when I talked to him the next day, some girl answered his phone in the morning.....Do you think it was my cooking? Or maybe I should have had him spend the night.....(yawn) Seriously, after a few years of the lying, I was always paranoid...Another reason, poor hygiene, horrible table manners, and never leaving a tip...
.I know that seems shallow, and could have talked with him, but when a man is at that age, it is doubtful they will change..Other reasons, obsessive drinking, jealously followed by some stalking...well, we all have stories similar to that, I guess..... | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 7:11:11 AM | I broke it off with my guy, because every time we were together, or on the phone he would brag about how good he had it, and all the things he has, and then run me down for all the things I don't have, and how lousy I have had it for the past year....
But life goes on, and that is why he is there, and I am here.......
And I'm still smilling...... | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 11:20:06 AM | my husband - abuse: physical, psychological and sexual...He was also a "man's man" and pretty much rejected my friendship to spend time with fellow males hunting, drinking etc...
the defining moment: he told me how he would get rid of my body "if" he killed me...
Dave - He began to become verbally abusive to not only me, but his own children, who were very good kids....I still see his kids out and about, and we're still fond of each other (me and the kids)...
the defining moment: He told me I wore things other people threw away ( I have a penchant for thrift shops) I told him someone threw him away but I hadn't thought he was garbage....a breakup soon followed...
Jim - he really loved me, but couldn't give up his fantasy of a blond supermodel....so any time a girl even resembling that came near his life, he backpedalled on our relationship....I really don't like the idea of being inferior in a trade up deal....
Bobby - He couldn't make up his mind between me and his ex.....I made up his mind for him...he also had terrible hygiene...
Dan - god, what a doozy...he started to become unavailable first on the weekends, then most nights.....later I found out he kept asking out a girl I worked with, who had no idea we were seeing each other...
defining moment: he came to my house drunk one night, tickled my daughter inappropriately until she broke the remote on his head, then proceeded to throw up so violently he woke everyone in the house up....that night was the last night....
Raymond - much, much too young for me and too idealistic and clingy for my jaded world view...I never had any alone time, mental or physical...he trashed my yard with chicken wire fences and a nonworking boat in the driveway, and didn't spay his kitten till we had 8 cats....
defining moment: he insulted my daughter who was on medication for depression about her need for it, and the fact she had to have help to pay for it....a low blow....
Bentley - too sarcastic and negative even for me...(see karma here? I do...) he expected me to live in his house with him and his son but resented the time I spent with my family. He was jealous of Legolas (sp) on Lord of the Rings...wouldn't put up his Shania Twain calender even after I told him I was fine with it...
defining moment: he didn't show up for my nephew's funeral...it was a sudden death of a 12 year old and I needed him to be there...Even my ex Raymond showed up for my sister's sake.... | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 1:43:39 PM | | i broke up with my last boy friend becausehe was alway's lying to me about somthing al the time. he was still hung up on his ex g.f.he never had time to spend with me.he was alway's puting me down. | |
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| reasons you have ended a relationship with someone
Posted: 9/21/2008 3:00:41 PM | 1. one threatened to kill my dog... ( kept the dog and got rid of him) wish I could have put him down
2. one was way to clingy.....
3. one lied as often as he cheated... and that's saying something..
Remind me again why I continue to date???? | |
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| reasons you have ended a relationship with someone
Posted: 9/21/2008 5:43:48 PM | A guy not paying attention on the phone? Surely not.
I seem to have a two year limit. I don't know what it is. Things can be great, things can be horrible. But at two years, I just can't stand them anymore. I hate it when guys get into that "comfort zone" and think that they get a free pass to be as disgusting and as annoying as possible. Or that they no longer have to be respectful to you, or even slightly thoughtful. | |
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