sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 1/24/2006 9:47:21 AM | women in general do not like guys my height or especially your height , hear and in real life they would say they do not mind but they are TRYING to be nice but the reality is that women generally , most all women do not like short guys , even if the guy is a foot taller than them , lets say the woman is 4ft 10 se would still want a guy to be taller than 5 ft 7 in , women can choose nearly any guy they want if they are in the generally atractive range ( face body type etc... ) life is a woman candy store when it comes to relationships . If you are not considered tall or in the acceptable range to them , you will be slated to be alone and in the runt box .
Do not feel bad if women think you are a loser or too short , either give up and take the reality and do not beleive the bull that is handed to you , they are not interested in you but are interested to feel good about themselves so they say nice things , accept yourself or make alot of money and buy a woman or get a way older one that is no longer picky but accepting of any guy that is nice to them or a woman that has several children and needs a good father and provider , for those you are a winner until you help them up then they leave for a more studly one .
Sorry it is the loser inside me that is talking , why not just be an ass , have money and do them all wrong , get them back , you will under stand in a few years on whaI am talking about .  | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 1/25/2006 2:00:02 AM | | This is a fantastic question to ask, for me personally before internet dating i was only ever attracted to tall woman, two long relationships with ladies over 5/11, but now that i have been internet dating a couple of times it doen't seem to bother me, i guess what im trying to say is that before internet dating , short girls wern't in my radar, but now they are, It's a shame i still havnt found the connection im looking for, but for me height doesnt really matter anymore. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 1/26/2006 12:09:46 PM | | Yeah I never dated guys under 6 feet, until recently. Now height doesn't bother me. Unless he is some perverted little creep who has his nose tucked in your cleavage when you wear heels. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:53:33 PM | | Well for me, height doesn't mean anything it doesn't describe the person. I used to go out witha guy that was 6'5.... and in the end it didn't work out.. but now i'm dating someone thats shorter than me and i love him with all my heart! So no height doesn't matter.. or either does weight.. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 1/26/2006 7:30:05 PM | | I definitely prefer a guy that I am looking up to - literally. There is something very natural about the physical dynamics in this setting. Also, meaning absolutely no offense, but I tend to find that shorter guys have a bit of a chip on their shoulder, or as my grandmother calls it, "Napoleon Syndrome". I can't handle it. And, of course, there is something lovely about feeling somewhat small and helpless when cradled in the embrace of that tall guy. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 1/27/2006 8:58:39 PM | | I have dated a few guys that were my height or shorter (5' 6"). After dating a guy that was shorter than me, I decided I preferred tall guys. I've always had a thing for "tall" anyway but when I was with the shorter guy, I felt like a giant and it made me uncomfortable being the taller one. Especially since I'm not that tall to begin with. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/1/2006 8:35:24 PM | Height doesn't really matter to this girl...my very first love was 5'8". That was when I was 15, but nothing much has changed.......and I do have to agree with artandsoul? Nothing like being roughly the same height, and getting pushed back into or pushing into a wall CRAZY......lots of fun!!!! | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 137 | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:43:41 AM | | height and weight are BOTH dealbreakers for me...I don't like guys over 5'11" (but I dated someone 6'3" for a year, so I guess I'm adaptable) or under 5'8".....and I really REALLY like flat stomachs and muscular arms (but the guy I'm seeing now is flabby around the middle, so there ya go) | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/5/2006 4:13:30 PM | Well I guess for me it is men taller than me. I have had a long term relationship with a man my height but it just didn't quite work out. Some bedroom positions (trying to put it politely) are not quite the same when the man is not taller than the woman. For the record that is not why the relationship ended either, I am not that superficial but given a choice for the man of my dreams, he would be taller than me. ohh and kissing a taller man while on tippee toes so so sexy lol  | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/5/2006 7:30:40 PM | | I would perfer my man to be taller. Not that I would go with a shorter man i guess. It just seems to balance out better when the man is taller(well at the very least the same height) as you. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 5:30:02 PM | | Women love height about a man, That is why so many of them are so f***ed up about love and so fed up with it. Keep taking the outside home, that is all you gonna get female species.... | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 8:58:02 PM | I hate to admit I'm shallow, but I like men atleast 5'10.
Since I'm 5'7, I don't want to feel like an ogre when I go out with a guy.
I'm sure because of this, I will end up marrying a man that is smaller and shorter than me - we'll be like Barney & Betty Rubble. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/9/2006 1:30:46 AM | I prefer statesque women who are between 5'-10" and 6'-2"........
The tallest I have dated was a German lady 6'2"............my ex however was only 5'4".......
it wont be a deciding factor for me.......you can do nothing about your height.....
but plenty about your attitude.....I have seen quite a few short men with tall ladies. | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/9/2006 1:55:28 AM | | as the king said it isn't about height it is about attitude. If they treat me with kindness and honesty then whatever height a guy is would be alright...Since I am only 5' 3 1/2" tall most guys are taller than me..... | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 2/9/2006 2:05:45 AM | I would say 90% yes. The 10% if the guy has 80% requirements I am looking for, like on the Love Smart book by Dr. Phil. Most probably I will go for a guy shorter than me. He better be real special though. I can be with a tall guy and get average.   | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 146 | |
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| When looking for someone, is height important to you?
Posted: 4/10/2006 4:34:42 PM |
honestly yes it is for me at least. I don't think i could be in a relationship with someone shorter than me it has to do with the whole protection thing i suppose.
Protection from what?. If a psycho has a gun and wants to kill you, your tall man aint gonna protect ya my friend......
It is rather contradictory to hear women speaking about the taller-protection kind of crap when they are now so independent and modern. Kind of like they reaffirm that they are still inferior than men......
I just dont see height as a protection thing. It is a shallow requirement and that is that....
Besides, not all the women go for height, so there is some shallowness in this whole taller than me crap..... | |
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