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Posted: 12/6/2005 3:24:16 PM | Er, I was just typing out my post, when IE auto refreshed or something.......... I HATE that =/
ANYWAY, I'll summarise in a nutshell what my post was.
Girls on my faves are:
Girls I'm interested in, and have sent a message to.
Girls I have chatted to.
Having said that, the girls I have chatted to are either "I don't even know you lol", and then begin ignoring me blatantly. OR, another girl I spoke to who I thought was very nice, decided to go offline the moment I put my piccy onto MSN during our first chat to each other. (We were webcaming to see each other, but I was in darkness, so I put my piccy up and was gonna say I'd webcam in the daytime. This was around 3am lol. But she hasn't even bothered to say why she vanished)
This is the kind of behaviour that really gets right up my nose so far, that I almost stop breathing =/
Girls, if you're not interested, just say so then us guys can move on to look for someone else. I'm no male model, and SO un-photogenic, plus I have a slightly pale complexion and a slim build. No I don't have muscles growing all over my body either or have a bank balance in the millions.
No offence to the ladies I see posting mostly around the forums (babygirl, mistress h, sexy cinders, wulfie and a few others, you know who you are  ), you regular posters are all nice and talkative and I find your posts uplifting and fun to read, sometimes a good giggle. But every girl that I've ever heard talking to friends (or whomever) about finding a guy, they ALL say the same thing:
"I want a guy who's gentle, kind, respectful, loyal, honest etc etc etc", with a longish list of all the fine qualities we all want in not only our partners, but anyone we'd encounter on a regular basis (ie life in general).
But 99% of my personal experience so far, girls have been interested in the same things, money, nice car, male model covered in muscles (not like arnie, but like say bruce lee, slender but strong, if you know what I mean), oh and of course he MUST have a BIG 'little soldier'.
I said 99%, because I did find one girl who I got on well with, until she wanted to sleep together with my brother "cos that's what friends do".... er yeah whatever 'Exit door left'.
Hmmm, went off on a bit of a rant there, sorry about that lol. But all I said is true =/
It's all well and good to have a list of things you ladies would like in your partners, but if you're not going to give us guys any respect, even as a stranger, or treat guys like garbage cos they don't fit your "elite list of must haves", then frankly I don't want any man to come across you and be put through that.
Be nice yeah ladies, do us all a favour and if you only want good looking men with loads of cash (gold digger girls, bleh I wouldn't want ya anyway tbh), big willies and 'all that jazz', (pardon the pun lol) then say so on your profile so we don't waste our time.
Like I said, I'm no male model, and photos don't do me justice as I don't photograph at all. If you met me in person, I'm well groomed, clean and always presentable even if I'm dressed casually. But since you're not interested in the real nice guys, you'll never find one.
Again, sorry for the rant, but I thought I'd voice my view on success rates. Lots of nice girls on here who I respect, only going by their posts, which as I said range from being informative to being down right naughty and/or funny.  
Really though, is it just me or are most girls like this? (Dishonest I mean etc.. ) Seems to be so, for me at least... What do the guys think, as far as UK girls are concerned, run off when they see you, or do they actually attempt a try at a relationship, even if it's only friends?
I'm gonna eat a vat of ice-cream now, anyone wanna come have a dip with me?  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 3:27:14 PM | everyone on my favs i talk to.....but they who added me have not or very rarely spoke.....weird or what
as for success i have not done to bad on the dating scene  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 3:45:26 PM |
It's all well and good to have a list of things you ladies would like in your partners, but if you're not going to give me any respect, even as a stranger, or treat guys like garbage cos they don't fit your "elite list of must haves", then frankly I don't want any man to come across you and be put through that.
I was not one of the names quoted, but I am a regular poster. And I have never in my life treated a guy like garbage | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:21:10 PM | Er I think you misunderstood, the girls I mentioned are the good ones..!!!!!
It's the unnamed ones that turn out to be ****es =(
Edit: And by unnamed, I don't mean you georgie girl, I just couldn't remember everyones name at the time of writing the post. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:22:30 PM | | Thanks for that then tondo - nice to know what you think of me and everybody else you didn't single out for 'non-b1tch" treatment | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:27:41 PM | | You're welcome hun. Like I said I'm sorry for going off on a rant, I get carried away sometimes in my postings heh. But my personal experiences have mostly been bad. I really am a nice guy, just girls don't seem to be interested in the genuine guy they say they want, so I've been left a little bitter by it =/ | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:28:57 PM | ''This is the kind of behaviour that really gets right up my nose so far, that I almost stop breathing'' =/
dangerous behaviour that | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:29:01 PM | | Just noticed your edit. I'd be really careful before naming names, because it's real easy to take things the wrong way | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:32:32 PM | The only names I named are those who I find are good people, yourself included. I find you and your fellow girlfriend's posts ranging from witty, informative and lots of run to read.
It's girls like you, cinders and mistress h (and the others on the forums) who keep unlucky guys like me sane  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:36:01 PM | Erm, just joined, had a couple of mails but thats about it. I tried match for a bit, which was a bit cack, didn't really get any interest on there at all, and wasn't even sure if people could answer emails so thought i'd ditch it and give this place a go.
I've been single since August and so thought that i'd try out some dating sites this time. I can't say that i'm that impressed so far unfortunately!
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:36:04 PM | @ tondo.....well see that offends as its the good guy bad guy list
you named the good guys
so the others you have not named i assume you assume they are the bad guys????
ermmm yeah well  .... | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:39:17 PM | Tondo - how you gonna get out of this hole you've dug now then???
you are going to have to list every witty female who has posted on the forums and tell them that you love them.
Or better still send them messages, but don't make them cut and past jobs coz they'll be able to tell.
Better still - buy us all flowers, can never have enough flowers! | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 4:58:35 PM | Tondo chill out a bit. The biggest thing I've seen men post about in my short time here is the nature of the chat's & messages that they swap.
If you're on a dating site, you must expect people not to return messages or chats sometimes. You're not gonna be everyones cup of tea, just as no man here is. You keep trying. There are nice women on here. Some are really nice. I've found if you talk to them as people first (rather than an unfathomable opposite sex) they talk back. Be thankfull there's ladies in your area mate, lots of the nice ones live too bloody far for it to work. One thing that jumped out at me was one woman who said " dogs chase, women don't ". There's 6-7 men to 1 woman here so you have to work if you want the result you want.
I have the attitude that if I chatted to someone here & it doesn't work out then the worst senario is that you've made a new friend. That attitude takes the nervousness out of the situation because there's no expectation.
Regarding sucess rate - I came here because I was chased from another site after a horrible stalking incident. That's not happened here so that's a success lol. I'm meeting someone Friday from here but in fairness we were talking before either of us came here. There's new people every day.
I fall els fails get your top off ;o). I did yesterday & got mor messages in 24 hours that I have had in a fortnight. Some quite crude lol. God I felt cheap. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 7:02:25 PM | Hmm how to dig myself out the hole gg? Hmmmm, I suppose it'll have to be flowers scenting a room, and all the ladies entering and chilling out and laying back while I do a silly strip tease and shake me butt about making the girls giggle and fall about laughing
And afterwards? Well I'll be at your service, so do with me as you will, just nothing freaky or involving pointy things  | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 6:09:35 AM | Blimey.... think Tondo needs a teddybear to cuddle... what a sad sad tale... I cried, really I did, my heart aches for you Tondo... actually no... it's aching from laughing my backside off!
I mean come on! We all get knock backs and don't think it's just you blokes Tondo, how many times have you seen posts on these threads from women complaining they get no attention because they won't get their boobs out or they don't have a certain hair colour or they aren't a certain size and shape.
People are shallow visual creatures in the main, they don't take the time to get to know people before making their judgements. That's why these threads actually help they give you a chance to show your personality and get chatting to people who probably wouldn't have replied to your initial email or IM in the first place.
There is a clue in that... people who post on forum are actually interested in people, in the way they think, in what they have to say, in the ideas they express and are therefore, in my opinion going to be less blinded by the pecs and the boob pics.
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Posted: 12/7/2005 8:39:52 AM |
people who post on forum are actually interested in people, in the way they think, in what they have to say, in the ideas they express and are therefore, in my opinion going to be less blinded by the pecs and the boob pics.
Oooh don't count on that | |
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Posted: 12/13/2005 3:50:05 PM | | Well i have only just recently joined,so i cant really comment as such.But i have chatted with quite a few nice men off the dating site,so hey who's knows | |
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