| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/6/2006 5:16:48 AM | | their is nothing degrading about human sex, sex is pure, its the first and last freedom. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/23/2006 11:30:18 AM | I love it when my g/f cums in my face its so totally mind blowing and she has never complained about me cumming on her either. Its never degradeing , just hot and wet.   | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:19:09 PM | do u people realize this thread is from last year and the person that posted it is no longer on here. sorry just my 2 cents.... | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/23/2006 10:43:01 PM | Yeah I realize it.....but did you realize all threads are archive and that you can't have two thread on the same topic? So that's why...someone brought it back up to current.
yardape, again if you are going to post a comment to a topic in which your opinion varies keep an open mind, and don't post things that show your ignorant side.
A forum is a public meeting place for open discussion c : a medium (as a newspaper or online service) of open discussion or expression of ideas. If one posts a "thread" or participates in said "thread" or forum......they need to be "open" to others opinion,THAT'S THE IDEA OF A FORUM.
FYI....with that said.....No flaming such as in above
quote is permitted in pof forums.
Ahem.....back to OP
here Biatch, I'm in control" "I'm the man and you are the whore" I may look like a whore in the bedroom with my s/o and that's exactly what I'm seeking. I like my men to feel powerful and in control..........just because I like it and he likes shooting in my face periodically doesn't imply he's an A$$whole who degrades women nor does it imply I lack self confidence as a woman. Frankly life in the boudoir often can be completely different than the person they are on the outside.
JMHO | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/23/2006 11:19:03 PM | Namely romanticswordsman on 7/26/2006 7 04 PM revived it....so it's now a current thread again......
kinda kewl huh,
damn Now i gotta stay on topic.........
Oh alright and here is where fetishes come into play........I'm sure you have heard of the many that are out there.
who cares if your a prude.....there is somewhere to draw the line and that line is decided by you. If your not into it or willing to try it.......than don't. That's the line.......It's all about you. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/23/2006 11:26:49 PM | | Heh... It is degrading. Some people like that sort of thing in sex or in certain situations. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/24/2006 5:25:48 AM | Yah I'm sure when the girl is asking for it your all WTF? 
Boils down to the girl, whatever turns her on is most likely going to turn the guy on. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/24/2006 5:43:29 AM | Every man or woman has their preference.
I personally am not into it, so I ask him not to. If he doesn't listen to me, then I don't do him again lol.
Its your body, you get to decide what you want. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/24/2006 10:58:17 AM | | Well I have to say that I don't think it's degrading in the right situation, it's actually sooooo VERY hot and a huge turn on for me. But to each their own. Chances are that if you are feeling degraded, its not only because he wants to cum on your face, there are other factors that are contributing. Just my 2cents!!! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/9/2006 10:08:05 PM | Duh it's degrading. No respect.
Want to draw a line? Use a pencil and poke the dude's eyes out :)
You can find better
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/10/2006 12:48:48 AM | | like was said eww y would you do that??? im no prude or nun if ya wanna be a porn star go make a film!!! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:07:09 AM | ": With all due respect to the women who have said:
"I wouldn't want a man to cum on my face----it's degrading."
Maybe you might want to consider that it's not always about YOU. Men are creatures who are turned on very much by visual stimulation. That's a fact. It's been proven in study after study. That being said I think that partners need to excersise a little give and take. I'm willing to do things for my partners than I might not particularly enjoy but if she gets off on it, then so do I"
K, I don't necessarily find it degrading but do not enjoy the shock factor of being shot with something warm and wet in my face. Not that it is gross but don't want to be shot in the face with a water pistol either so it isn't about the sexual part of it for me. As for the give and take part...well how is it give and take when a woman is willing to partake in pretty much anything but just doesn't like to be shot in the face? Isn't it then you who doesn't want to give when you can't respect that it is something that she does not enjoy?
I love sex and everything to do with it but I do not enjoy anal and do not like to be shot in the face. Cum on my face doesn't bother me it is the whole being shot that bothers me and if that is the only two things I am really iffy about then I think that is pretty fair. I do not think it is prudish, just a preference and no one should feel demeaned because they don't enjoy something. That is just as degrading. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:11:15 AM | | I don't think it degrades women and have had partners ask me to do it to them but I try to make whoever I'm with very comfortable with any topic dealing with sex and open both of us up to trying different stuff... | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 5:42:29 AM | 
Biotchez swallowing and gettin their face covered in spoo r both legitimate forms of birth control...2 of the best actually...i am a gentleman so i do try and keep it out of their eyes...but i prefer chicks with glasses......ready made cum goggles Laughing so hard | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/10/2006 10:17:10 AM | I'd never ask a broad if I could bust my nut on her face? WTF? What good could possibly come from that.
A lot of dumbasses in this world man.  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:05:48 PM | | there's nothing "wrong" with it. it's part of sex. some guys think that a woman who curses during a session is unattractive. it all boils down to communication and how comfortable you are with each other. If a woman is entitled to tell her partner what it is that she likes, what turns her on, what pushes her buttons, what sends her into a raging euphoria, then why not the man. i do believe you should definately ask first. kinda like putting it in the butt. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:27:01 PM | I'd never ask a broad if I could bust my nut on her face? WTF? What good could possibly come from that.
OH DEAR ME. It's probably a good thing you've never asked a "broad" to allow that ~ I fear I'd find the terminology much more offensive than that act itself. 
~OT~ For all of you who refer to this as degrading ~ I do have to wonder if you think it's degrading to carry his deposit around all day in the inner most part of yourself ??? Seems to me that bodily fluids are just that and having foreign substance inside of me is more invasive than having it someplace that I can easily access and remove. I am not a fan of having anything on my face (other than Estee Lauder products of course) but the reality is: many men absolutely love facials. I'm not having sex just for me ~ if he likes it, fine (not in my hair, however.) Afterwards, I'll degrade him by making him do the laundry or scrub the toilet or whatever, just so we're equal!!  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:30:40 PM | Wow, I laughed a little.
Anyways, being sexually open minded isn't degrading.
Some people like being degraded in the bedroom, name calling, slapping, biting, being talked down to...but that is IN THE BEDROOM.
Don't knock other people's choice just because you're bland in the sack (not really directed towards anyone). | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/10/2006 3:06:33 PM | i read a great article in Cosmo (or Glamour) that said men have been watching too much porn and expect women to like all the things going on in those porn movies...they expect them to scream, talk dirty, and want to be cummed on....they said the average woman has a hard time living up to these ''porn actresses" ...
and not wanting a guy to cum on your face doesn't mean you are bland...it means you don't like it...no one should be forced to do anything they are not comfortable with...i'm very open sexually about many things...but I refuse to allow my face to be used in this fashion....
reminds me of a joke my fellow vegetarian friend used to tell those who asked, "you're a vegetarian? how do you get your protrein?" she would reply..."I swallow".....
much cleaner answer to where it should happen....yet some are not into that...to each his own... | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 4:57:09 PM | OP
I find that cumming in the face is just plain degrading? I had a very nasty fight with the one man I was with about it. I said I thought it was something that felt wrong to me, and he said that if done in the right way (a loving way) that it could be a great thing. I just don't see how it could be "loving" I mean how "loving" can it be to be like "here Biatch, I'm in control" "I'm the man and you are the whore"
Im sorry, but im am in tears laughing at this. I know I know Im horrible. But this is truly hysterical.
Not to mention the subject line: Spray me , degrade me?
This is hands down the funniest thing I have ever read on here to date.
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 7:54:05 PM |
i read a great article in Cosmo (or Glamour) that said men have been watching too much porn and expect women to like all the things going on in those porn movies...they expect them to scream, talk dirty, and want to be cummed on....they said the average woman has a hard time living up to these ''porn actresses" ...
I can appreciate opinions on this topic, it's sensitive and for some ~ simply not an option. I was a complete and total prude, bordering on frigid until I was 35 +. My views were much like many here. Until I realized, I wasn't frigid, I was not able to discuss my interests/wants/needs with anyone based upon the thought that he might perceive me as slutty/dirty/whorish/etc. That is no longer the case. My interest in "porn like" activities, is not based upon a man ~ my interests are things that I like/love/enjoy. Period. If I am not comfortable, I don't allow certain activities. Much like swollowing ~ I've done it, I'd rather not. It's all subjective, and it's all personal preference. Terming something "degrading" is like saying it's wrong ~ we all know, it's not wrong if it's consensual. JMO  | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 9:10:15 PM | honestly, i used to feel the same way... thought it was just awful.
As I got older, I realized that I have my own weird things that turn me on, and thats just part of a relationship. Everyone gets their jollies in a different way. Part of being with someone, in my book, is going a little further to make them happy. Id never ask for a guy to cum on my face, and I dont "love it", but if I know it makes him happy and he gets a good visual from it- im happy to do it. So long as it isnt part of a pattern of unhealthy sexual desires-- whats the big deal?
However, you have to decide where the line is, and for you this may be too much. There should be some leadway on either side where he respects your feelings and you respect his desires. This is a boundary only the two of you can decide. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 9:58:59 PM | I have never sprayed a girl in the face. It's not something I would care to do, however if the woman asked me to I would probably do it without much thought.
On the other hand I have had a different kind of "Spray me" experience where a girl I dated for a couple of years asked me to give her a golden shower. So I gave her one and just couldn't help myself and I busted out laughing. She never asked for one again. I think back and wonder what effect my laughing might have had. I wonder if her arousal from this activity combined with my laughing might have been perceived as me degrading her? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:07:16 PM | verygreeneyez-thank you for putting into words what I was unable to. I do not believe that facials are wrong they are just not for me.
I just do not agree with the people who are saying that she is wrong for not being comfortable with it and not wanting to participate in such a thing. I do find it degrading for me, not because I think it is degrading for women in general because some truly enjoy it and that is great but I find that I feel degraded by it and that is my preference and should not be made to feel like an a$$hole for it. | |
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