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 goshiloveyou

Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 276
Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 6/20/2007 8:22:11 PM
Now that I think about it...

it seems somewhat sick
disgusting almost
but it sure as hell beats swallowing.
 Tiller21

Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 277
Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 6/20/2007 9:59:25 PM
haha it can be wiped off. I am not to concerned. SO i guess spray me..! Degrade me!! hahaha
 lonestarjay72

Joined: 6/3/2007
Msg: 278
Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 6/21/2007 12:52:48 AM
The way i see it what's the difference where a guy ejaculates if it's in you or on you?
Just like anything though, if your partner is'nt into it than you should'nt do it .
But , i think if there's open communication with your partner than you should be able to discuss things like that and possibly come to comprimises or exceptions. You may enjoy it if you have a clearer understanding of why he likes it.
 darkjedi1

Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 279
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Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/2/2007 3:18:51 PM
Ive never understood the thrill of that. I would rather do it in her mouth hand or usual spot. Whats so fun about cumming in her face?
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 280
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Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/2/2007 5:49:57 PM
Anything that two mutually consenting adults do is okay. You don't sound like you are consenting to his, but rather cohorts to do it. So stop it. Tell your man simply that you are not ready for that. Move at your own pace.
 SensualAquarian

Joined: 6/2/2007
Msg: 281
Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/2/2007 5:59:32 PM
No your not odd, I won't allow facials either....

If it's done by accident when he goes to pull out or whatever then that is different (bear in mind I am talking somebody I have been serious for a while and having sex with) ...Or if I am helping him out and some of it hits the face unintentionally then yeah understandable...But NOWAY I let a guy give me a facial on purpose.....
 shannonnicole

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 282
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Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 9/2/2007 8:25:21 PM
it's simply a matter of what you like and don't like. i like it (not all the time and keep it outta my eyes!), but when the sex gets hot, it's hot to get a facial every now and then. IMO
 jcgmed

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 283
Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/2/2007 9:48:01 PM
I think that sharing "spray" over your cuople implies more woman than man.

My ex-gf enjoyed that a lot, my testosterone levels are a lot higher than normal ( some non-destructive disorder called "equine fertility" )...so my blo***bs are very massive and prolonged.

Sometimes she made me wait for 2 or 3 weeks with absolutely no sex, just to take me and make me blow using only her hands.

This could be a little weird, but was very exciting and tender.
 taurus516

Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 284
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Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/3/2007 5:12:16 AM

I just don't see how it could be "loving" I mean how "loving" can it be to be like "here Biatch, I'm in control" "I'm the man and you are the whore" Thats what it seem like to me more of a control issue not a "I love you dear, let me cum in your face" Any thoughts on this? Or am I way off base here?


I think you're seriously over thinking it.Why can't it just be,"Wow this is cool!I can SEE it!!??"It's a visual thing,not an emotional thing.Not everything is about control and degradation.It's like missionary vs. doggy style.I've heard some women on this forum say doggy style or any rear entry position is degrading and about male control,when in fact it is not.It's simply about body mechanics and what works for some couples.Why does there have to be so much competition between the genders over sex acts?Why does missionary have to be seen by some as "male superior" or woman on top as "female superior"?Why does a facial have to be about degrading anyone?

Sometimes a cigar is JUST a cigar.
 Angelnurse10

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 285
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Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/3/2007 5:56:03 AM
I only swallow. Would not let him cum on my face. One time on my belly. Didn't really like that either. I don't think it is degrading, just a preference with some people
 Sexishaggy1

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 286
Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/3/2007 6:36:04 AM
If it turns him on and we are seriously involved..why the heck not!!
I love to make my special ones toes curl!
 marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 287
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Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 9/3/2007 6:59:51 AM
Draw the line with what is comfortable for you. Lot's of people, both men and women, really enjoy what you're talking about. Often for the very reasons you don't.
 Denny P

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 288
Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 11/7/2007 3:34:14 PM
Spraying is a sign of Love like marking your territory
 justme1202

Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 289
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Posted: 11/8/2007 4:55:38 PM
well i definatly dont enjoy it cause I love the person. I enjoy it because I ENJOY it. I do things i enjoy.
 Yoyanna

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 290
Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 11/8/2007 5:01:39 PM
There's nothing people won't do nowadays. I guess if it can keep you a man for some..

I think it's disrespectful, stank, and nasty.
 Little Whip

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 291
Liquid love
Posted: 11/9/2007 2:16:10 PM
Realationships have changed in the past forty years or so at one time oral sex was very taboo as was some positions now found to be commonplace or Vanilla by many standards.
to each their own
for me I say spray away
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 meowgrrrr83

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 292
Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 11/10/2007 10:38:59 AM
Communication is huge factor here... if you told him that you don't want that and he keeps doing it.. well then the answer is self explanatory.

As for how I feel about this... Its a turn on... the dirtier, the naughtier the better.
 iRap07

Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 293
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Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 11/10/2007 12:39:59 PM
everybody's got their own preferences
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