| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 12:24:37 PM | I'm a guy and I find it very distastefull.
I've been with women that wanted me to blow my load in wierd places, and usually my reaction was "wtf? Why?".
The whole spooing on some body part thing to me seems pretty silly, like a dog peeing on a firehydrant or something.
I'd rather just come inside of her into my condom, or if she likes to swallow then that's nice and tidy too.
Who wants jizz all over the damn place?
This has to be one of those things the porn industry implanted into people's minds as something to do. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 12:41:23 PM | I personnaly feel that if the women is comfortable with it then it is okay. However if things of this nature are not discussed prior to sex how would a guy know? Look at the board its torn. Some women say they enjoy it and its adds to the pleasure of the entire experience. Other women, like yourself are very offended by the act. So if your having sex with a guy and he goes to blow it in your face, all the sudden this act erupts into a huge power struggle. Maybe you should know more about the person you are having sex with prior to when hes gonna blow. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 12:42:25 PM | Everyone is allowed a personal opinion for sure! As others have said, there are lots of places to download! lmao.....Communication is a big part of being comfortable with the wants and needs of each partner for sure! To name call someone who simply does not agree with your opinion, is indicative of an overall lack of maturity. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 12:44:32 PM | I have to say that I've never done this.
Typically, the money shot is considered a degrading and humiliating act. But I guess it doesn't have to be.
At first I found it odd to think that your man said it was something that he wanted to do in a loving and caring way, simply because it is typical of a powerful controlling situation.
But after giving it some thought...if the girl really wanted to have my cum all over her face...then me putting it there, doing that for her, would definitely be a loving act...like a gift. See that on your face? see how much I love you and what a good girl you are?
Okay, I'm stretching a bit, but I'm trying to see it from a different angle.
I have to agree with the others here who have said that if he knows you don't like it...or think it degrading, then it is definitely degrading.
If it isn't something you are into, if it doesn't get you off...you shouldn't do it...plain and simple. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 1:37:38 PM | Thank you all for your coments, albeit, some were not as nice about it then others, but all the same thanks! I feel better about the whole thing now, I felt like such a goober. I try not be prudeish but...... I don't mind alot of things, but stuff that pushes the line between controling and loveing is different. Like when giving my man a blow job, I tend to like to have him laying down not standing up, (maybe a 69) then both parties are involved? I wouldn't call myself a nun and needing to go back to the convent as yardape thinks, I just rather feel like a women loved and not a piece of meat. I don't know!  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 1:43:57 PM | IMO cumming on ANYONE'S face is not only degrading, but it's also a bit disturbing.
What's the protocol afterwards yardape?...Do you rub it into her skin with your ass cheeks?
It's just not my cup of tea...
Call me old fashioned. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 2:16:21 PM | Manda..I wasn't referring to you when I made the convent comment. I was replying to the woman' who said it was an act meant for a prostitute. How is the act "controlling"? Have you read some feminist literature lately?  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 2:23:17 PM | | And as far as those of you who are all "that's disgusting"...."i'd never do that", "outrageous" etc, etc....Have you not heard the saying "take one for the team'? I guess it's fine and dandy if the guy laps up your juices but you can't do something similar or in the same ball park. Hypocrites. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 2:25:28 PM | I find that cumming in the face is just plain degrading "oopsy-daisy"....lmao...Its only degrading if we deliberately try to glue your eye shut...
What's the protocol afterwards yardape?...Do you rub it into her skin with your ass cheeks? If she says "purdy please"....lol...  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 2:27:52 PM | Hey, it makes your skin soft and really does wonders for the pores  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 3:49:22 PM | LMAO...At least ya don't have to chug it back!!! 
If it's an issue, don't let let him...'nuff said. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 4:36:22 PM | My brother married his first girlfriend. It started with 14 now they are 43! 29 years!!!!! | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 7:43:50 PM | Ok flame now but turn about is fair play
You want him to eat your pu**y till you cum right. Hell I know I do
Don't have him do that if he likes cumming on your face than fair is fair.
I know and this is coming from a woman. I am not saying thats what I prefer.
But come on ladies he ends up with your cum on his face whats the diffrence ? | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:05:04 PM | Apparently Yardape has never had the pleasure of jiz in the eye. I thought for a good hour I was gonna have eye babies...or go blind. (the pupil looks an awful lot like an egg...and I was sure the sperm were getting VERY confused)
edit at yardape...take one for the team eh...well lets say you asked your woman for anal...and she said ok you first then came at you with her giant toy...you gonna take one for the team?
Bottom line...do what makes you comfortable. If you are open to trying things..then do it...if not..don't...it's your body. :) | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:32:38 PM | Geez does what one wants and the other doesn't mean you have to do it, hell no not if you have strong feelings against it, that is your right to do!
The crap about take one for the team someone put in here is the most infantile statement anyone could ever make!
If it feels wrong Manda, then for you it is wrong and simply say no thanks, not interested and feel good enough with yourself that you stood for yourself!
If he is adimant about it, let him find someone who wants to do it with him, because he isn't respecting your feelings! | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:45:58 PM | | I have to agree with that. I dont' do that simply becuae "a" I know how to treat a woman. It is degrating. Even if yoru open minded, it's still degrating. You can sooner paint a wall or your bedside pillow, why the beauty of a woman, especially the elegance of her face. YOu kiss that every day, and if it were me, likely a hundred times a day. | |
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js_78
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:48:21 PM | | it does do woders for the skin but that does't take away from the fact that your "jizzing" all over a woman's face whom your supposed to care about. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:57:02 PM | | I don't cum on a girls face until...well, every girl I've been with sexually has directed me to cum on her face, so I never knew it was that horrible. In my experiences, it makes the girls feel closer to me or maybe they don't like to swallow. I would never just say, "take it in the face" if I didn't know they would be ok with it. In instances where the girl doesn't initiate usually we end up talking about it before it happens. I'd say if a guy just does it or demands it then he's just an ass, especially if he calls you a whore (unless you are mutually role playing). Maybe you could try just having him cum on the bottom of your chin/on your neck. I hope this helps. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:08:27 PM | | Can I ask those that like it, why they do? What goes through your mind? I'm not standing in judgment here...just curious about why that turns someone on. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 11:31:11 PM | | I personally don't like it, as said many other places for that. I don't feel it's degrating, and hey if you like it go for it. I'm sure there are things I like to do that other people think is gross, or degrating......different strokes for different folks(no pun intended)...lol | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/19/2005 12:58:33 AM | i,m n2 oral and i have no problem if a woman wants to suck me dry / but i love the warmth of her vagina as i cum more than letting it go down her tummi
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/19/2005 1:16:13 AM | I had a girl who I didn't ever think she would like it so I never tried. Our passion grew so deep though that at one point I smothered my whole face and neck down there in her juices. Both of us always felt so free and wanted to be connected to each other in every possible way, like our bodies were one. It wasn't talked about until later in the relationship, but my cum anywhere on her body and maybe especially on her face was so erotic and spiritually and physically connecting. People get wrapped up in thinking this is slutty when it's instinctual for two people who are desperately in love with the act of creation; the act of love making... and maybe even completely in love with each other.
But it may take some very intense moments to feel that this is right, ya know. To each his/her own. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/19/2005 1:35:59 AM | | Yardape, may I ask what's so pleasing about cumming on a woman's face? Does it somehow boost your ego? Just what is the appeal? I have no problem whatsoever with oral sex, but cumming on my face I consider degrading and disrespectful. There's nothing at all about it that turns me on. I mean, to each his own, but don't diss the OP because she doesn't like it. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/19/2005 1:40:26 AM | | No means No..like geez..if you don't like it..it's okay...whatever floats your boat and he should respect that.. | |
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