| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/23/2005 7:44:48 PM | I've never done this, but I would if my man really wanted to and asked me. Just please stay outta my eyes and hair... aim for mouth, chin and lower on the face... mmm, 'kay?
I don't think it's degrading. Women do cum on a man's face all the time. Especially the female ejaculators. (me! :-)
If you feel really strongly, then don't do it... but I think the comment "take one for the team" just meant that sometimes it's good to just suck it up and do it because it pleases the one you're with. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/23/2005 9:16:03 PM | I don't think it's degrading. Women do cum on a man's face all the time. Especially the female ejaculators. (me! :-)
I think I was about 25 when I learned there was such a thing as a female ejacualtor.I never have witnessed this phenomenon:( | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/26/2006 4:53:04 PM | I mean if she feels that you are degrading her or trying to assert your power over her, just offer to let her ride your face and plaster it!
Then you can call it even. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/26/2006 4:54:32 PM | Yep you are an odd duck.
I happen to enjoy it, wherever he wants to put it...
That is unless he is shooting for the ol' eyeballs..
that stuff stings like a mo-fo
JMO | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/26/2006 7:35:53 PM | Well he can share that with you. Maybe it's YOUR viewpoint. There is a lot that you guys could do with that.
He could slowly lick it off your face and kiss you deeply. There is some passion in that. You don't seem to mind if you get all over his face.....right?
You wrote: "here Biatch, I'm in control" That $hit is running through YOUR head. Not his.
Saying......"but is there some where to draw the line? " is a form of control....within reason of course. Personally I have a limit myself. No one is going to beat me or piss on me or anything like that. Other than that? The sky is the limit. Taking in context of the discussion. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:22:42 AM | | I disagree with most of the posts. I have no problem with getting a facial BUT only within the boundaries of a loving, committed relationship. I have a kinky side, so why not let it come out and play if I trust the person????? I would have an issue if the guy forced it on me, but in fact in my experience I been more willing to have it done whereas my partners were like no way!!!!!! I love cum anywhere on my body and to the op yes I think it is a bit prudish not wanting it on the face. I do agree it's not a loving act per se.......it is downright kinky, but does sex with your partner always have to be loving?????? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:31:26 AM | Relax... Even though sex is very emotional and loving and everything, doesn't mean you can't get kinky and have a little fun. It's simple.... It turns the guy on and it doesn't hurt you any so stop thinking too much and just please your man. Whether it's a control issues or not, I think its more healthy for him to deal with his control by using it in the bedroom. Wouldn't you prefer he get a little manly and dominating in the sack then to do it on a regular basis.
Men do use women and do degrade women. Not ALL, but some. Which means you can't assume that ALL a guy does is in an effort to degrade you. But even if he was thinking of you as his little whore who cares. You basically are his little whore. Not to say you are a whore or just there for sexual purposes, but come on! have fun with sex. Be his little whore and do it proudly! Get a little dirty with him and stop going with the flow. Rather, why don't you make more of an effort to take a more offensive position in the bedroom instead of defensive. Get in there and do it to it... | |
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CeltiX
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Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 83 | |
| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:40:20 AM | I personally don't really get any thrill out of it. I've done it upon request (as some girls really enjoy it - though not the majority that I've met). If you want to do it for him, then do it. If you don't want to, then don't do it. We ALL have preferences and limits about sex.
I've seen what it does to a girl's hair. Don't let it dry, or you'll be sorry :P | |
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Hezron
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Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 84 | |
| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:43:53 AM | | Fieryredhead...you are a True Valkrye....Good on ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now where did I put my Thor suit?....hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:49:12 AM | | It's only degrading if you ask him not to and he insists anyhow. Different strokes for different folks. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:56:26 AM | | LOL ok I feel dumb at the moment but from what I understand aren't valkyries mythological dieties who gathered the souls of those who died in battle for Odin? I mean... I could get down with your little mythological role play, I just wanted to make sure I'm not missing a different meaning here somewhere! lol | |
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Hezron
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Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 87 | |
| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:59:40 AM | | ^^^^You got it...it was meant as you are a strong and valiant type who goes against the grain of old stereotypes concerning passive female role models. It was a compliment. Your attitude gives me hope for all mankind. Now that I have finished smooching your bum...I must away...Loki is undoubtably up to no good somewhere and I want in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:35:17 AM | | I don't want to disrespect any woman or degrade them. I have the most up respect for women. However, I like a lady in public and a wild sexual animal in the bedroom. What happens behind closed doors is our business. I see no problem being cummed on the face or mouth etc. by a woman, infact I love it. I try and not let any juices go to waste. And it's awesome when she allows me to do the same.. To each their own I guess, but some of you really ought to be more open "sexually" for your partner.. My $0.02 | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:48:11 AM | how is it degrading to help improve the condition of a womans skin  | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:55:37 AM | Good god, I hope no one said this to you!
I love you dear, let me cum in your face"
Such a waste of cum, I'd rather dump my load deep inside of her, or her mouth. Personally I have always felt that it is degrading, but that is probably because the only place I've seen it is in porno. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 10:59:09 AM |
but does sex with your partner always have to be loving??????
Great point cutiestudent.
absolutely not. I think there should be passionate caring loving and down right naughty loving. Both.
I don't think a realtionship can ever survive or even become good in that department without both. Hell if you want just good sex with anyone you would need both. There are just times when a hot sex fest is just the needed thing. | |
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AlexSB
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Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 92 | |
| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 11:06:36 AM | I personally couldn't cum on a girls face...I would find it belitting...like peeing on someone or worse  | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 11:37:07 AM | I agree with some of the pro facial posts. "It depends on the two people" was one of them, and I totally agree! I don't think there is a control thing there with most guys who like to do it. Not me anyways, I find it is one of the most intimate shared experiences of them all. Especially for the guy. Nothing says "trust" "love" and "I want all of you, every part" like a woman happily taking one in the mouth or face. Same with anal, has to be a lot of trust there too. It's the so called "taboos" that make sex more exciting sometimes. BTW, if she is a heavy cummer/squirter, I would happily take one one in the face for her (and I have).  | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 11:49:01 AM | "how is it degrading to help improve the condition of a womans skin"
No doubt! Saw that in an amateur porn once. The girl said "If I could bottle the stuff and use it as a face cream I would!" "It does absolute wonders for the skin." hell, I'll go one better, If I could bottle the stuff and change it's texture, scent and preserve it, I'd sell it and make millions!
All it is that (mainly) improves your skin in cum is protein and fructose. It's the two major ingredients. My girlfriend said last night that my****is so smooth that it's the smoothest part of my body, hmmmm, wonder what that could be from?
Laugh all you like (it's meant to be funny) but it makes sense doesn't it? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 12:04:39 PM | Ya it is so terrible when you are feeling your girl get all hot and soaked and wet. Then agrresively looks down to you and grabs a little piece of your hair and moves your head down between her legs and not just places your face there but actaully grinds it through het moist wetness. Letting you come up for air periodically, just to see you drenched in her juices. Terrible terrible terrible thing, lol lol lol. Nottttttttt
I can say stuff like that can be a little disrespectful, but sometimes that can be hot when done with someone you care about. It is kind of a sense of empowerment. Alot of girls like that kind of thing and even us as guys like to have that empowerment from time to time. It is kind of like this for example
Jane says Do you want it
John says yes
Jane says say please
John says please
Jane says I don't think you really want it
john says oh yea please please
Jane says how bad do you want it
John says Real bad
jane says I don't believe you, what can you do to proove it
John says I will do anything
Jane says get on your knees
John gets on his knees
Jane stands over him pulls the back of his head. and you all know the rest. lol. But, see that whole conversation is sort of one sided and disrespectful towards john, yet john is getting turned on by being teased and jane is getting turned on through empowerment and desire for her. So to your original point, anything somewhat degrading could be acceptable or a turn on thorugh sex with someone you care about. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 12:28:50 PM | TO each their own, no one should have to do something thay don't want. BUT I'm assuming then that any woman who finds semen nasty or degrading would a) not expect her guy to go down on her, and b) not want that "nasty degrading stuff" anyplace else either...
Perhaps another way to look at is, if a woman finds it that off-putting... that probably means she either doesn't really like sex much, doesn't like men much, or doesn't like that particular guy much. Or some combination thereof. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 2:47:26 PM | | I for one like to mix it up just don't get it in my eye cuz that stings. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 4:39:50 PM | For me it's all about respect. If I love and respect a woman I don't want to cum on her face, let alone be bothered if she won't let me. If I'm mutually with someone just for sex then sure why not. It's interesting to think about the psychology behind why a man would want to do that to a woman in the first place.
Ironically the more a man respects a women, the less she respects him back. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 5:24:45 PM | | It is strange that alot of guys would be willing to get their faces wet between a womans legs and want more but some women find guys stuff a turnoff. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 5:50:19 PM | Its a real turn on for me to have my woman drip down my face from her climax. Makes me feel like a animal in a heat of passion. I dont see why a woman wouldnt like it to feel the power of getting her man off.  | |
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