| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 5:57:35 PM |
Zgirlbeautiful...and by the way if i am allowed to cum on his face why isn't he allowed to cum on mine? I love it when i cum on his face and its still dripping down his chin when he comes up to kiss me..but to each his own..we all have are own little likes and dislikes...that's what makes the world not so boring
well said!
Face is great, just not in the eyes! Actually, anywhere is great, just not in the eyes! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 6:44:58 PM | Biotchez swallowing and gettin their face covered in spoo r both legitimate forms of birth control...2 of the best actually...i am a gentleman so i do try and keep it out of their eyes...but i prefer chicks with glasses......ready made cum goggles  | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 6:58:16 PM | if you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it. it's your choice. to some it could be some kinky fun sex, to others its degrading and disgusting.
what some people thing as fun others thing as ew, gross or something. all in preferences i guess.
but there are others who feel like that. i think if the couple is comfortable with each other and one is not trying to over power the other than whatever floats your boat. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:04:21 PM | ohhhhhhhhhhh stop........there is no 'loving there'.........it is about control and if that is the relationship FINE.........but.......so many times us women get caught off guard and some control freak -tries to make us do stuf - with out discussion first......
the studies show that a man 'cumming on a woman's face' is based only on CONTROL ie i own you --you are not a being......... | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:23:53 PM | | If you were a proper girlfriend you would graciously accept his kind offer to cum in your face. Your generous man is attempting to "shower" you with love and you spurn him. How sad. It's unappreciative women like you who give womenkind a bad name. Sigh....shaking my head disapprovingly at you. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:26:32 PM | You are not an odd duck just because you don't enjoy something. Many couples role play and this is one of the acts that is sometimes included.
If this is happening every time you have sex, it could be a couple of things: he just doesn't respect you or he is quite dominant and needs a more submissive partner?
Can't really comment, but if it is really really not something you would even be willing to do once in a while and it is something he really really likes to do - you guys are gonna have to compromise. | |
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Joined: 5/26/2006
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 7:56:07 PM | "the studies show that a man 'cumming on a woman's face' is based only on CONTROL ie i own you --you are not a being........."
Care to provide a link to these studies? I have my doubts they exist. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:01:40 PM | As for the topic at hand, you're certainly not an odd duck for not being into it.
Whether something is "odd" or not is all relative. As others have mentioned, what's weird to you may not be weird to someone else. Do what you want, and as long as no one is being hurt by what you do, more power to you. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:26:44 PM | I'd never let a guy cum on my face, its gross.....and a little on the gay side...which im not...so its also akward....so i A) had way to much to drink or B) lost a serious bet and owe some serious money.....or C) met someone on the net who said they were female and turned out to be not....and it was to late to turn back
BUt seriously, i've wanted to try it, i dont know why i think it is a control thing but i've always been told no, which is cool cuz who am i to complain im still getting laid?!?!
maybe one magical day some girl will ask me to.....and then she'll handcuff me to the bed and have her way with me for weeks to cum.....until i lost all feeling from my waist down.....oh to dream a dream so sweet as life is to know no other taste as sweet as this.
......i realy hope i dont owe anyone money who's reading this
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:39:51 PM | mandapanda agree with you i dont really agree with this people should not do this i think its just a complete power trip over the other person
unfortunately the porn ind. has determined that this really sells the product
Yes i do watch a little porn now and again at least i admit it ladies
but i really dont like the scene where the guy grabs the chick's hair and spews all over her face and she is trying to get away from it
damned mean if you ask me!!!!! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:46:31 PM | It really is demeaning if you have told him you don't like it and he does it anyway.
Some girls like it, some don't. But if he doesn't respect your boundaries--that is just bad news! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 9:03:04 PM | ~OP~ It's a fetish thing. Some women not only like it, they love it. If you aren't comfortable with it ~ you shouldn't do it and he shouldn't hound you about it. It's personal preference. I personally don't find it degrading ~ sex is dirty and raunchy at times ~ but, that's me....not you. JMO  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 9:32:20 PM | That is a hot answer.......will you marry me? | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 10:22:02 PM | | Is it demeaning to have a woman grab your head and push it into thier muff when they cum? I think not, its not a control thing unless she refuses before hand. I never have had a problem kissing her after she has my cum all over her face or mouth, its the heat of the moment. If I have her cum all over my face while shes begging not to stop, I can return the favor. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/27/2006 10:22:20 PM | | Is it demeaning to have a woman grab your head and push it into thier muff when they cum? I think not, its not a control thing unless she refuses before hand. I never have had a problem kissing her after she has my cum all over her face or mouth, its the heat of the moment. If I have her cum all over my face while shes begging not to stop, I can return the favor. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 10:25:58 PM | With all due respect, i don't see how its degrading. I don't know if if has you on your hands and knees and like you said .. spraying himself on you, and saying the things you are thinking but i only see it as fair. I know when a man goes down on me, I am all over his face by the end of it esp if I'm sitting ........ Should a guy feel degraded if I cum all over his face.... cum is cum right? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/27/2006 10:41:41 PM | Put another check in the column of 'why you are single and alone...'
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 12:38:58 AM | "With all due respect, i don't see how its degrading. I don't know if if has you on your hands and knees and like you said .. spraying himself on you, and saying the things you are thinking but i only see it as fair. I know when a man goes down on me, I am all over his face by the end of it esp if I'm sitting ........ Should a guy feel degraded if I cum all over his face.... cum is cum right?"
Best answer in this thread! Cum is cum, right? It certainly is, and my earlier post about this seems to have started a trend of "Hey what's wrong with it, if I do it to him, why can't he do it to me, without it being tagged as degrading?" That is a healthy attitude. I don't feel degraded when she does it, even when she's grinding may face into her. When I'm done I feel anything but degraded. I feel great, like I have "pleased my girl in the same ways I like to be pleased and I'm glad she enjoyed it." So why should it be degrading when a guy does it? It's all relative.
On the other side of the coin, someone said that "some control freaks just grab you and fire it at you" K. That may be kinda fun, but it's wrong! Never do it to her without discussing it first even if the discussion is short and in mid-sex, at least you asked. Can't go wrong that way! | |
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Tayven
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 1:50:03 AM | The face....No...
The small of the back,
The chest...
I've found they actually like that. I've been told...
"I love to squeeze it between"
or...
"I love to feel the warmth going up my back"
Again, I apologize for the direct phrasing.
Tayven | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 2:27:06 AM | Most of the girls I have been with did not particularly like it on their faces...they also thought it was degrading.
However, they seemed perfectly willing to let me cum in their mouths (which I personally find is a much bigger turn on!)
Maybe its just me, but I never quite understood how cumming on her face is degrading, while cumming in her mouth acceptable...
Has anyone else been in a situation like this? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 2:46:39 AM | I guess I have a follow up question...
If cumming on the face is degrading (which I can completely understand), where are the best places for a guy to..uhhh..spray?
I love to cum on her belly, breasts, back or in her mouth, but are these places also degrading to the woman? Would it be more respectful if us guys were to instead let go inside (with or without a condom, depending on the situation) or on a towel or something so she doesn't have to deal with a sticky mess all over her skin? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:51:04 AM | | I've never done that, on someone's face, I mean, and can't think of any circumstance that I would unless I wanted to degrade someone, which I have never felt the need to do in order to feel "strong". Its something this guy saw in a porn movie, I'm sure, and unfortunately those are so ubiquitous now that that's probably where he learned about sex rather than it being an expression of love between two people. Don't buy it, just tell him you never want that again. Trust your feelings ....not porn movies and not the idiots who tell you otherwise. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:52:26 AM | | Well I personally love cumming all over my mans face, and oh i know he loves it, and as for him cumming all over my face i think it is a turn on that he wants to see what i have done to him and put it all over my face and you know what girls take it and suck and lick it clean when he is done it adds to the moment of excitement.......... and a large turn on for him | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:54:54 AM | | I do not even see where you can say it is degrading there is nothing degrading about it unless in your own mind you are disrecpecting the women that you are with, if the women is in to it why not... i really do not see anything wrong with it..... there is times where you will be conseritive in the bedroom and there will be times where you are straight up animals... would you rather have spice in your sex life or NO sex life | |
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