| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 6:33:41 AM | Hey girls acknowledge our semen! It's demeaning when girls reject one's semen out of hand.
It is just not sensible not to use condoms now. You have to have safe sex.
But after many years of safe sex I am finding some girls now reject having anything to do with semen. They want condoms even with handjobs. Even when you've done your mutual tests, ejaculations are to be contained in latex simply because it is "icky".
To quote from a recent Cleo "semen is not sulphuric acid". Yes it's a bit messy but that's sex. The bigger the wet spot the better.
Maybe your guy wants some acknowlegement of his semen. Why shouldn't us guys want to visually demonstrate our virility and fertility to you and have it acknowledged instead of having our semen unnaturally sanitized into a latex cachet and flushed down the loo?
Perhaps offer him a different target and ask him to cum on your breasts/stomach/etc so you can see it. An ex-gf use to rub it into skin afterwards saying it was good for the skin. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 6:48:24 AM | To me it's a personal thing..between two people..Would I want it done daily ? No ...lol...but it's okay..kind of a fetish thing..
Just my two cents worth..
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 6:53:04 AM | My understanding of it is that guys are visual. They like to watch themselves going in and out of their girl during sex. They like to see things.
So if they wanna see their semen landing on their girl, it's part of their psyche. Weirdness. Men are different than women and get turned on by things that we don't always understand.
But yeah, the porn industry is where I've seen this. Cum shots are done by guys. Kinda hard to do a cum shot of a girl.
I prefer him to cum inside me while he's close to me and facing me, but I'll try anything once. And I wouldn't find it degrading, it would just be kinky. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 7:10:53 PM | | Not liking it is a personal thing, but women who think that a thing like that is "degrading", have issues that go far beyond sex. That could be part of the reason why they don't have anybody. Good sex is messy if you do it right. And female ejaculation is the best thing ever. Hit me with your best shot! lol | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 9:04:34 PM | | Personally, I find this hot once in a while... if it feels degrading to you and it's something he really wants to do, try asking him what he gets out of it. Some men just like the way it looks when it goes off all over a girl's face. Personally I think it feels awesome, and I like alternating power roles, i.e. begging for it, getting on my knees etc... and for that matter... if you're sucking him off, you're already kindof in a submissive position. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 9:18:18 PM |
if you're sucking him off, you're already kindof in a submissive position.
Actually thats a power position. I get the connotation though. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 9:32:43 PM | I think it's disgusting too. I would never let a guy do that to me either! I have also never had a guy EVEN ask to! I don't mind it anywhere else on my body, but not my face.
My question is this....why would you guys want to? Is it really that much better than the b00bs ot tummy or...? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 9:53:28 PM | Hey lady... at least he didnt ask you to gargle and swallow   | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 10:04:07 PM | | That is where there is some strange sexual psychosis entering into it here. How can something be fine on your boobs, but disgusting on your face? Explain that one. What about your neck? Fine or disgusting? Where's the line? And why? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/28/2006 10:35:03 PM | | while this little stunt may be cute in pornos, i wouldnt try it as a projection of your love and affection for her, its just gross to do in her face, she may act as if she likes it to make you happy -but your sending her a pretty crude message. i have had her ask for it on her breasts or belly, but never had a girl beg for it in her face. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/29/2006 1:53:25 AM |
Actually thats a power position. Ok... I've heard men say this before... that they see a woman on her knees as being in a power position... I don't see it myself. For me to get on my knees in front of a man, and put him in my mouth, I see myself as doing something for him... being submissive... can you explain the logic on your side? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/29/2006 4:23:27 AM | It's no more degrading than a guy eating you and you cum in his face. I had women squirt buckets on my face, did I say anything about it being degrading to me? of course not!
I think you've real issues if you find that degrading. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/29/2006 5:22:45 AM | | Well there's a lot of prudish people in here ain't there. It's not degrading if both people consent and as long as you don't hit her in the eye with it! That stings lol, There are far worse things that people do sexually like rimming and things but hey each to their own sexual preference. My motto is don't knock it till you've tried it.. BTW I havent tried rimming!! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/29/2006 7:58:34 AM | | its fine as long as it dont go in yr eyes...that hurts believe me!! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/29/2006 8:01:11 AM | | hear hear,total agree,sex is like childbirth,its raw,messy and should be fun,bodily fluids are all part of it,come on girls....its the 21st century u are allowed to enjoy it...........and whilst we are on the subject how do guys feel about sex and periods??? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/29/2006 8:27:22 AM | | What good is a man or woman if they show no love for each other? Sex is supposed to be fun and pleasurable for both. If someone has these ridiculus hang-ups such as cum on the face then there would be no relationship for me. I have no problem having a woman cum in my mouth even while ejaculating, and yes I swallow. Don't be such babies, just enjoy the body's natural juices. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/29/2006 8:55:31 AM | | Matter of opinion.... mine... well....depends where, the situation and who might be around in minutes LOL | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 7/29/2006 9:17:13 AM | in the context of a loving relationship, wouldn't see it as degrading... not at all
if a man loves me, he can do me no wrong  | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 5:17:10 AM |
Ya it is so terrible when you are feeling your girl get all hot and soaked and wet. Then agrresively looks down to you and grabs a little piece of your hair and moves your head down between her legs and not just places your face there but actaully grinds it through het moist wetness. Letting you come up for air periodically, just to see you drenched in her juices. Terrible terrible terrible thing, lol lol lol. Nottttttttt
I can say stuff like that can be a little disrespectful, but sometimes that can be hot when done with someone you care about. It is kind of a sense of empowerment. Alot of girls like that kind of thing and even us as guys like to have that empowerment from time to time. It is kind of like this for example
Jane says Do you want it
John says yes
Jane says say please
John says please
Jane says I don't think you really want it
john says oh yea please please
Jane says how bad do you want it
John says Real bad
jane says I don't believe you, what can you do to proove it
John says I will do anything
Jane says get on your knees
John gets on his knees
Jane stands over him pulls the back of his head. and you all know the rest. lol. But, see that whole conversation is sort of one sided and disrespectful towards john, yet john is getting turned on by being teased and jane is getting turned on through empowerment and desire for her. So to your original point, anything somewhat degrading could be acceptable or a turn on thorugh sex with someone you care about.
I couldn't have said it better myself Justin! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 5:23:03 AM | | i cant see how it is degrading when it's two consenting adults, guess its down to the individual but i love it.......... | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:32:48 AM | | Swallow it if you dont like being sprayed, besides messes your hair. Oh and you have lot to learn | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:39:22 AM | I've never done this to a girl, with out it being her idea and its not like its been talked about, they just kinda decide thats were they want it.
Degradeing, Not if theres love.
Or what if the girl does it to her self, and its her thing then there no way for the man to feel hes doing anything she does'nt want there for not gettin off on any power trip ect. Just another way to show yall you really do have control over alot, just think about it he cant degragde you if what you let him do you enjoy, then hes just helpin you get off, in a sence your using him! lol | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:52:37 AM | | I'm just gonna sum it up in one sentence.......Ummmmmmmmmm nope! | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 7:06:18 AM | | Sex is ment to be enjoyed, if you dont like it dont do it, if you like it do it, thats all there is to it. there is no rights are wrongs to sex . its only what you both enjoy.. and that is both of not just one.. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 7/31/2006 9:25:56 AM | | Hey sex is not just likes and thislikes sex is a iner desire some desire this, some anal there something kicky for everone.1st look at yourself what do you desire. But both people some be on the same line. now can something be degrading if they desire it. | |
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