| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 12:53:18 PM | Well I had one guy once do that without asking and I was not prepared...He just pulled out and proceeded to cum on my face, and got some in my eye I was like wtf??!! I didn't say you could do that..He was like oh I just thought it would be ok...No, never ok I have a whole body you could do that but anything above the neck off limits. I could see it of it was a "money shot" and was totally accidental...But please keep that off my face..I can't even watch porn movies where they do that. To each thier own and some women don't mind, but I do..I don't want them damn thing floatin in my eye anymore... | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 1:11:11 PM | With all due respect to the women who have said:
"I wouldn't want a man to cum on my face----it's degrading."
Maybe you might want to consider that it's not always about YOU. Men are creatures who are turned on very much by visual stimulation. That's a fact. It's been proven in study after study. That being said I think that partners need to excersise a little give and take. I'm willing to do things for my partners than I might not particularly enjoy but if she gets off on it, then so do I.
I think it's a really big turnoff when women or anyone for that matter gets turned off by sex. Some of us like to fulfill a small fantasy with every encounter. If I'm with someone who isn't willing to try----and I mean more than just once----then what's the point of pursuing a relationship?
Again... When a man cums too quickly (according to most women,) he's being selfish. But, when a man does his job and launches himself off your cervix for an hour and a half, isn't he entitled to a small reward for his efforts? it's not just about "one;" it's about "both." Give and take.
For those that think it's degrading try this.... Is it more degrading than being bent over like a dog and serviced like your some kind of farm animal? To some, it's all relative. really. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 2:09:48 PM | | The other person is just a prude. I mean how is it degrading. It is you and your partner having sex. people do all sorts of things in the bedroom and cumming in the face is not degrading. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 4:40:11 PM | | I also find it degrading. My ex husband liked the whole get down so I can do it on you crap and I felt like I was being soiled on. It's how I feel about porn as well....women seem to just be the vessel for another man to use and abuse. If a guy doesn't understand how you feel and doesn't respect your boundaries, dump him! Move on and find someone who will. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 4:51:06 PM | | DEGRADING PERIOD!!!!..........Let's see him with sperm all over his face!!!!.......Facials I get done at the beauty parlour........... | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 5:51:10 PM | | Ahhh you women against it are just prudes. Loosen up and enjoy sex. I want to bet some married women are such prudes they wont have sex in marriage because they think it is degrading. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 5:57:59 PM | | I don't think it is degrading per say, I just think it is gross and unnecessary. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:00:10 PM | | Have you had cum sprayed in your face little boy????.........When you do then let's talk and see how degrading it was for you K??????By the way............porn stars get paid to have a smile on their faces while being humiliated for your entertainment............ | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:01:29 PM | How is it degrading though? I mean if a man goes down on me odds are he will have my cum all over his face....which even that grosses me out | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:26:32 PM | | My preference is ........ does it matter where... Im a guy and its just makes it fun to shoot different places.... im in a good place when doing it. its not ment to hard/degrade... its for fun...... once I came on the belly of a lady I was dating and then she tryed to finger paint me with it..... veryyy odd..... but it was the funnies shit ever... | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:30:59 PM |
How would you like a guy to cum on YOUR face? Huh? Didn't think so.
If that's what a guy wants, then he can saunter over to the corner of Yonge and Bloor and PAY for it.
So naturally of course, you pull away when he's giving you oral sex, just prior to cumming, right, so you won't be cumming on his face, right? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:38:20 PM | | I personally think that the reason most guys want to do it is because it was a point of pleasure during their pubesence while watching porn! (and during adulthood, I guess!) I personally wouldn't mind trying it if the woman was comfortable with it but it has never been something I've pushed for, or even asked for that matter. I can't even remember the last time my cum didn't end up in the tip of a condom, to be totally honest! (or the nearest towel or piece of clothing when I'm alone! lol!) You're not being a prude! If you don't want to try it then don't. If he tries to make you then it may be time to reconsider the relationship. I do agree with what most people have said in that whatever you and your lover choose to do with and/or to each other, as long as it consenting, is never degrading! | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:45:29 PM |
Have you had cum sprayed in your face little boy????.........When you do then let's talk and see how degrading it was for you K??????By the way............porn stars get paid to have a smile on their faces while being humiliated for your entertainment............
Sure little girl I have had a woman cum in my face as I have cumed in her face and we both liked it. It was not degrading at all. I am sure back in your time things in sexual nature were frowned upon and most people were prudes. Sorry honey but things have changed. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 6:59:02 PM | Some woman feel degraded by it. Some woman love it. Most men want it.
Some men need it.
If you feel so strongly about it.
Put it in your profile so all can read it.
In some men's favorates you will be deleted. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 8:29:30 PM | | I wonder if he has watched too much porn. There's nothing hot about getting cum in your eye or up your nose (trust me) and if you don't like it, don't be with someone who wants it and won't respect your wishes. If you think it's degrading, then it is. Period. Plus, it's kind of a waste of a good shot. Do you know how much protein is in that little wad? | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/3/2006 8:32:06 PM | | Tell her to get a piece of toast and use it like cheese spread. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 8:38:21 PM |
By the way............porn stars get paid to have a smile on their faces while being humiliated for your entertainment............
I do it with a big assed smile on my face and I'm not being paid anything but the knowledge that it turns my man on... | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/3/2006 8:40:00 PM |
I do it with a big assed smile on my face and I'm not being paid anything but the knowledge that it turns my man on...
OMG! A person who thinks of someone other than "me me me!" in the bedroom!
Bless you girl, bless you.  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/4/2006 6:05:15 AM | Well, some like it and some don't.
For those that describe it as degrading, I think that you're being entirely unfair. I have never EVER degraded any woman I've been with. You all make it sound like the people who partake in this are either suffering from low self esteem or are completely abusive pieces of crap. It's unfair.
I think degredation goes a little deeper than "the money shot." Let's be clear here... Anal sex isn't necessary but some women like it. I personally am not a big fan of offering to bugger someone in the a$$----- I find it "degrading." Does that make my partner a control freak because she keeps telling me she wants me to have "bum sex" with her? I mean after all, it kinda freaks me out. It's not all that fun for me. I feel like I'm being treated like a piece of crap when i do service her in that way. But if you haven't noticed.... I STILL DO IT. And I do it because i really, truly, deeply and madly care about her and she for me. There comes a point in everyone's life, when they meet someone that NOTHING is any longer degrading or humiliating once a certain level of trust is reached.
You all can do whatever you feel is right for you but I have no plans on minimizing my opportunity to have the most amount of fun possible. Maybe if it were called "playtime for grown ups" instead of "sex" they're might be less stigma atrtached to all the nuances of it.
I prefer living my sexual experiences for the moment and for all of you that feel as badly or as turned off about this as you say; perhaps you might want to think about laughing and smiling and keeping your eyes open for an entire session of sex. Watching your partner get more and more turned on is contagious. It makes EVERYTHING possible.
If not, you're more than welcome to plod along, keeping yourselves satisfied while the rest of the world continues to open their minds to sexuality and experimentation. I'm really shocked at how many women are prejudging the act of the "money shot" and all those that participate in it. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/4/2006 6:25:34 AM | No you are not an odd duck.
It is an experimental behaviour that some people get to enjoy...wierd as it is.
Some women like getting semen squirted in their face or on their neck (the so called pearl necklace). On the other hand some men like having a woman cum in their face.
Also while doing 69 their have been male/female lovers siphoning/licking/sucking each others cum. I know what you a re goingto say: EWWWW!!!! But that is the truth.
One day, an old girl friend was doing 69 on me and for some reason, I enjoyed getting splashed with her cum all over my face and so I rub my face all over her clitoris. that made her even more horny. She also drained me of my "juice".
So again, it is a matter of preference and on how you feel with that person, comfort zone and all.
Regarding about those very special women...
In the words of SEINFELD: I found a person that is just as depraved as I am.
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/4/2006 6:57:35 AM |
they have.... two people willfully degrading them selves????
annnnnnnnnnnyways!!!! to each their own not all Women like to be degraded by some little squirter.
Great another prude on here. I guess unlike you I am close enough to my partner as she is to me that we can actually find things enjoyable and not be a prude such as yourself. Yes things have changed. People have become more open to sex we no longer keep our eyes closed during sex unlike you probably did back in your day. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 8/4/2006 8:02:54 AM | | Hey well i let chicks cum on my face all the time!! lol | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/4/2006 9:01:05 AM | | im a guy and in my opinion if the girl doesnt wnt the guy to cum on her there should be no argument, too bad for him deal with it, a no is a no... and im sure you do many things for your man that he should complain about this one thing. but if he really likes it that much im sure an agreement could be made for a oonce and a while thing. | |
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| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 8/4/2006 10:03:24 AM | I dont think its 'degrading', but to me personally i think its a total turn off and id never let a man do that to me.  | |
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