| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 2:41:15 PM |
They feel they will not come up to standard for a younger man.
Sex with a younger woman is much better (wetter).
For me wrinkles are a turn off no matter how much slap is covering them !
I'm sorry I never say mean things never but I couldn't help thinking after reading the above response......there's a village missing its idiot. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 2:48:48 PM | | I am not scared of younger men.....But then I am only 26, however I prefer to date older because they can handle the idea of a single mom with 2 kids a little better than a 21 year old guy can .....The youngest I go is within a couple of years younger....That may change as I get older....who knows.... | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 2:51:52 PM | | I agree with squirrly....I am not afraid to date younger men, as a matter of fact, I prefer dating them.....but I have a son, it would be very weird to date someone younger then him. So my "thing" is....never date men younger then my son! | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 3:14:48 PM | I don't think older women are any more, or less, nervous about dating younger men than they are men of any age.
My first serious relationship was with a woman who was 15 years older than I was, way, way back in the day....I was 20 at the time. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 3:55:07 PM | | harrabyman, you're 48...so perhaps your perceptions are a bit slanted (post 248). i'm 34, i consistently date younger, i also get mistaken for being 6-8 years younger than i am, and wetness has never been an issue. either way, there was no need for your rudeness disguised as opinion...funny thing is based on age i figured you were an adult, a shame your post here betrays a more juvenile nature. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 3:59:13 PM | | I think generally that younger men are looking for just sex. Ok if that is what the woman is looking for too...but I think most are looking for something different. Just my two cents. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:57:44 PM | | It freaks me out when men in their 20's hit on me. To me they feel like children, probably because they are the same age as my children LOL. I just can't see myself ever dating anyone younger than I am. Besides how can a relationship last, It could never be something long term. I want someone to grow old with not someone to watch me age! Not to mention the children issue at some point they will probably want a child and will have to look elsewhere. So it seems like the only point to that type of relationship is temporary so why bother? | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 3/1/2008 6:09:49 AM | | thats so wrong you may think that way but to me an older woman means someone who most likely wont cheat and can cook cause face it these "girls" dont know about any thing cept how to spend money. id like the chance tyo date an older woman. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:44:38 AM |
...older women scared about dating younger men? Definitely not true for me. Nothing scary there. If a guy has his life together and something going for him, and he's cute, I'm interested.
Older men seem to have 'baggage', x wives, child support, alimony, bratty kids, bad habits, no hair.....the list goes on.  | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:48:10 AM | | I married a guy six years younger than myself. The marriage was miserable. After twenty-two years of playing his mother, we divorced. He will soon marry someone younger and may they live happily ever after. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:18:04 AM | Recently I have gotten a couple emails from younger, really younger: 21, 20, and 19.
Really?
My take is, they think they will laid. It seems that some men think once the cherry has been broked or better yet, if you've had a child, then the store is never closed. No matter what BS they spout out, what else would a 19-21 year old want with me... I've got two kids. Please, I doubt a relationship is what they are after.
I'm not scared, just don't want to be bothered. It's a waste of time. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:26:07 AM | | I'm not scared of younger men. They hit on me sometimes, but they dont ask me out on a date. They usually just come right out and say they are looking for sex and apparently they think I have a lot to teach them. As if I would be flattered. Go figure. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:31:44 AM | "Sex with a younger woman is much better (wetter). "
Maybe if they're with a young good lookin guy, not an old guy like you.
"For me wrinkles are a turn off no matter how much slap is covering them ! "
Maybe thats why young women stopped dating old guys like you.
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:03:26 AM | Well, at MY age, most all men are younger. Nothing scary about it, but I draw the line at 50. Yes, many of the younger men are looking for sex only....some have a definite fantasy of the Mrs. Robinson type, and, some are definitely looking for mother figures....
However, I find that with older men, there are problems, also. They have bad backs, bad knees, they can't see to drive at night...or even stay awake past 9pm, they can't dance, their hips don't work, and who knows what else doesn't work?
By the time you reach my age, a thoughtful, healthy, active man who has time to share with an intelligent woman...in and out of the bedroom, is not so easy to find...
PS....maybe the person posting in 2007 didn't know about Astroglide? Hmmmmmm. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:18:39 AM | | I'm not scared of dating younger men. In fact I usually prefer younger men up to a certain point. I'm almost 40 and I would date a man in his early 30s or late 20s. I have noticed that many older women on this thread ( and other threads ) wouldn't date younger men because they think all or most younger men are immature, only looking for sex or a mommy figure. However that can apply to many men of all ages. Not just the younger ones. I know some men in their 40s and 50s who are only looking for sex and / or are immature. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 10:42:02 AM |
PS....maybe the person posting in 2007 didn't know about Astroglide? Hmmmmmm.
Kitten, I love you--in a decent, platonic, womanly way, of course. You are a role model for those of us feeling our way as we proceed through life. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 12:23:33 PM | Thanks, sweetie....but, whatever you do, don't drop the Astroglide and slip on it...the last thing you need in older age is a broken hip....
Hon, my thoughts and feelings didn't just develop overnight...remember that I've had a hell of a long time in which to make some pretty bad mistakes...now I just hope that I can remember 'em so I don't repeat 'em.
KK | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 12:54:01 PM |
I have noticed that many older women on this thread ( and other threads ) wouldn't date younger men because they think all or most younger men are immature, only looking for sex or a mommy figure. However that can apply to many men of all ages. Not just the younger ones. I know some men in their 40s and 50s who are only looking for sex and / or are immature.
I agree. Also sometimes it is the older woman who is using the younger man for sex. | |
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| Why are older women scared about dating younger men?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:53:53 PM | | I have dated older and younger guys. I don't think age has made a difference either way. It depends on what your goals in life are. The fact that I am a single parent I think has been an issue to some not really the age difference. | |
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