| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/1/2008 6:17:17 AM |
Tell me if i'm wrong but I'm under the impression that women are more attracted to confidence...and confidence comes from how a person feels about themselves. So you can be fat and still have that confidence. I've known super fit people that still lack that confidence because no matter what they do they are obsessed with their body image and never feel they are strong/trim enough.
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/1/2008 11:30:07 AM | You talk about most women only wanting "Fit guys"? Well I'm having the same problem with men only wanting "Fit women". We're all too preoccupied with looks. I understand that there's got to be a physical attraction, but everyone deserve a fair chance.
Come on people!! Get Real!! Try that heavyset guy or girl, you just might like it. I've always been told, "don't knock it 'til you try it". | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/1/2008 5:54:14 PM | Well, I have a funny built appearance and always have. Always had a belly, even as a teenager.
But it hasn't kept me from doing anything that I've wanted to do.
Hell, I can fit on amusement park rides that "chesty" women can't go on because of the restraint system!
I also have a funny built personality! You get to know me and there's no going back. And there's no desire to, either!
So what, if I'm not all that in the looks department?
I prefer to view it from the perspective of someone that has lost one of their senses.
The other senses tend to over-compensate and become more keen, to make up for the lost sense.
So, I tend to think that Who I am as a person FAR surpasses that which meets the eye.
Now, I realize that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's perfectly fine with me.
But, if you're a fence-sitter? Take a chance!
I do a heart and spirit some good.
And, together, we can work on doing a body some good!!! Or two. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/2/2008 3:05:37 PM | I don't find skinny guys attractive.
Man needs to be manly.
If he fits in my pants, he's not getting in them.
If he can't wrestle away remote control, he's watching chick flicks.
If he can't catch me, he can't play with me.
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/7/2008 6:49:22 AM | | WHEN I USE/HEAR THE WORD FIT, I'M TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE WHO IS HEALTH CONSCIOUS MORE THEN ANYTHING. IT ALSO HAS TO DO WITH PERSONALITY. A FRIEND OF MINE IS 6'1 300, AND HE HAS NO PROBLEM WITH WOMEN. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:45:18 AM | I've dated men of all sizes and I prefer a man with some meat on his bones.
There is something very comforting about being in the arms of a large man with some bulk...I love me a teddy bear. =]  | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/7/2008 8:54:41 PM | I personally like a stockier man, because I'm a size 10, and I'm tall. I have learned from experience to stay away from the gym rats. They are too into themselves, and usually tail chasers.
I go to the gym, though I have a combination of fat and muscle.. and I'm fine with that. I'm perfect to cuddle with.
I don't want a guy that has an enormous beer gut or such.. though I think a little chub is good.
As far as the BBW remark.. my guess would be breasts and ass... most men are one or the other.. and a woman who is bigger boned would satisfy both of those needs. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/8/2008 10:47:05 AM | Scientifically speaking.......
Being "Big Boned" only accounts for an additional 5-7 lbs, on average, on a person's overall body weight.
Obviously, a taller person will have more bone than a shorter person.
I'm a bit rusty on my Anthropology, but Negroids have the thickest, most dense bone structures. Followed by Mongoloids, then Caucazoids(? I forget the terminology for Euro folks). Consequently, Caucazoids have more issues with things like Osteoporosis.
I have smaller hands and nimble fingers. So I can't make the "Big Boned" claim! At least, and have people actually buy it!
Linebackers are usually pretty close in physique to quarterbacks. So, I'm out, on those standards.
However, don't expect some scrawny little running back to get across MY line! And don't under-estimate my dexterity! Homie is full of surprises!
Smart lass: Doesn't your motto belong over on the cliche thread? j/k | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/8/2008 7:05:58 PM | I like this thread as I can relate to the attracton of big guys. I am a fit lady, but have always liked guys who have some bulk. They just get my spark going. I never liked skinny men, or even fit guys. I think a man who has a look that he likes to eat gives me a really good feeling that he is more into living life and not into keeping up with the way society trys to make him out to be. Men who have a good size body are much more easy to get along with, they laugh easy, and I find they make for way better sex. However I am not into super large...just large enough to be looking like they could sport a red flannel shirt with a blue ox named Babe. If you see him out there, send him my way. I have some wood that needs choppin.  | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/9/2008 10:18:22 AM | 
I've been loving the comments from the ladies on this subject... and hating the fact that none of you live near southern California! There's far too much emphasis on weight out here in LA, even more than nearby cities like San Diego. There's all sorts of big guys and girls out there, but more often than not I've found they're the ones who love to have fun, indulge, and just enjoy themselves. Furthermore, they're ok with the people around them doing it. What better mindset could you ask for if you're trying to have a good time?
A local band named the Creepy Creeps broke the stigma by touting the joys of a big, beautiful man in between songs:
"They provide shade in the summer and warmth in the winter... and a soft pillow for your head." | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 11/11/2008 3:47:09 AM | Alright, I need to repley.
I have never been attracted to over-weight men but this past
summer I met a man @ a pof "meet n greet"
We both had instant attraction for each other, the more we talked our chemistry was unbelieveable. We fell in love with each other. After about 2 months we called it quits because of the distance between us.
I don't regret being with him. We still talk and I see him once in a while.
It is not what is on the outside. It's whats on the inside that matters
the most!
Someone is going to be lucky to have a man like him in her life. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 12/11/2008 9:28:36 AM | I personally find myself attracted to big guys..not necessarily "fat", but big is my cup of tea. I want my man to be bigger than me; it somehow makes me feel more feminine. A bigger guy is more than likely not constantly obsessing over his calorie intake for the day or how many miles he's yet to run this week and focusing more on enjoying our time together. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 12/13/2008 5:30:02 AM | I think the bottom line regarding "big" guys and these whole dating sites is this 99% of people I know look at the pics first then decide if they want to have a conversation. Where meeting someone who is into a more serious relationship may find humor or personality more long term then just looks alone, but other then this generally speaking a "big" guy isn't normally seen with a small or athletic girl in the real world unless he's really popular or has money. There is a huge difference in a "Big Tall guy", and a "Big Muscular guy", a "Big Fat Guy". I have been married & engaged, and have dated several women, tall, short, slender, athletic, and some thick, and I am a "Big guy" as it's said. I think the major difference in one man vs another when it comes to dating and it's hard to show online is your confidence level.
I'm 6'3" and 260lbs and rarely have ever any problems with dating because of my size & I think it boils down to your confidence. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:09:26 AM |
I find it hard to figure out why most women in the world only like "Fit guys"
There is a whole following for plus size women so why not men ?
If you think about it all the fit guys will have a gut by the time they are 40 so why not date a guy with one now and get use to it ?
not true at all..ever hear of Clarence Bass?
over 70, and body fat under 10%..
more ripped than most men are at ANY time in their lives.. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 12/14/2008 5:10:44 PM | I'm a reasonably fit 36 yr old male, I disagree with your view simply because not all men have a gut and we don't want one... I'm no expert but it ain't healthy and it ain't attractive... I think people that do 'generally' have poor diets drink too much and don't care enough about themselves. The opinion you have probably suggests you have a gut or some other inadequecy and therefore you are prepared to accept an unfit guy!
No offence is meant its just my opinion... | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 12/14/2008 7:50:17 PM | | Very good point Yeah31. It all boils down to confidance, and I don't meen being****. But I do believe that the media drills it in our heads that fit is it and only the goods guys are fit and athletic. I am 6' 4" and 270. I could loose a few pounds but I am able to ride my bike and I do 30 minutes on the treadmill 3 days a week. I guess its all it what you want out of life. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 12/14/2008 8:06:54 PM | I'm so with you. However it's all about preference. Some women aren't attracted to big guys just like some guys aren't attracted to big girls.
I like all kinds of men as I don't have a preference.I am more concerned with a man's character. I have found some really fit guys who are addorable inside as they are outside and vice versa and found some big guys who are also addorable inside and some not so great on the inside.
I know this is such a cliche but...we cannot alsways judge a book by its cover and what's on the inside is what counts.What's on the inside is waht will ulitmately draw to an individual regardless of what he/she may look like.
Find what makes YOU happy wether big,small, goodlooking, not-so-easy-on the eyes, whatever! | |
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