| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:15:22 AM |
Moreover, did you know that women make their OWN money? Yes, they do! No, I'm not kidding! Really! They're not out to get your last dime. I swear. And they want to KEEP their money. I have been dating for 4 years and have yet to have a woman pay for ANYTHING when we go out. And they haven't offered either. Had a couple of semi long term relationships. Sometimes I felt like I was the di*k with pockets.It would have been cheaper if I had been with hookers.I enjoyed their company for sure, but I would have appreciated it if they had offered once in awhile. And two of them made more than I did.Don't kid yourself,women definitely think Cash is King.
I love posts like this. They make me realize just how atypical I am. For instance, I am going out to lunch with a male friend today (We go out every Thursday). He bought lunch last week, so I will buy this week, though he makes twice what I do.
So, here's the deal. I won't claim that all men are pigs just out for p*ssy, if you don't claim that all women are b*tches just out for a man's money. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:20:06 AM | | Never had any women ask those questions other than what do you do, and mainly is to see if you are a professional, work outside, inside, own your own business, but they leave it at that. Perhaps only one woman I went out in a date was that materialistic, but rather than ask, she told me that her ex kept the Ferrari and the sailboat, she kept the house. I think she was expecting me to then give her my list of what I kept and what not. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 9:27:23 AM | | I've never asked those questions either hmmmm, seems most women haven't... Perhaps your talking to high maintenance type women who need you to have money to keep them to that standard??? | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:48:10 PM | | I think you suffer from paranoia. Asking what someone does is a normal question. What are you supposed to talk about? How big the woman's tits are and how much she likes to f*ck? Because that's the questions many men like to ask. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:09:21 PM | | I've only ever asked one of those questions. I do ask every guy I've exchanged a few emails with WHAT they do for a living. Not because I'm hoping to find out how much they make......it's because I'm truly interested in knowing what they spend their day doing. But I must admit to asking the question cautiously, because I don't want him to get the wrong idea! | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:30:26 PM | i'm not materialistic at all, but i ask, what do you do, where do you live, etc. As for how often can you afford to go out? that's lame.
I am not looking for Mr Moneybags; however, I do want to make sure that the guy is not a bum with no ambitions. Out of a job, laid off...that's different. I like men who are creative and in creative fields, which aren't exactly big money. I'm not exactly Miss Moneybags either! But I am not interested in a guy who has no ambitions, is irresponsible or wants do do nothing all the livelong day. Moneywise that is my main concern. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:47:22 PM | Please don't generalize or lump all women together. Believe it or not, some of us really could care less what a man financially does or does not have.
This misconception of women has become as common as assuming that all men are initially interested in nothing but sex.
Both are incorrect yet amazingly becoming considered truth by many in our society today. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:17:11 PM | I ask what a man does for a living and where they live... it is interesting.... many people identify themselves with what they do. My job is very social.... part of what I love about it. It is all about asking questions and getting to know a person... We spend so much time involved in our career or job, it is a big part of our lives.
~Charmed~ | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:46:39 PM | | I never bring up those questions! Usually it's the guy trying to impress me with how much he makes and what he does for a living. I find it rather boring. I know how to make money and it does not make my world go round. I rather the guy be happy with whatever job/occupation/calling he has. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:54:05 PM | | Me either, never would ask those questions!! My God, I went out with someone who I knew had money, and I still never asked these questions, but then again, it's takes all kinds to make the world go round....tasteless yes, but shocking? no.... | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 9:50:01 PM | You gals really need to get out more and date more women, so you'd have a better understanding of what it's like from our side. You must be the only couple of women in the world who don't ask about such things. 
It's one of the reasons almost all of us guys are quite skeptical about all this "oh, it's a person's inner beauty which really counts" biz. Women really don't care about that, all they care about is how much you got and if they can get you to spend it on them. Really. We're not making this up. So it's just not very convincing for you to claim innocence, even if you're the one-in-a-million who is.
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 11:40:08 PM |
i know this is a bit of an oversimplification but women want money and men want sex
the problem with that is women want sex from the man as well but the man does not expect to get money from the woman.
when will men dwell on what car a woman has, how much money she makes and gets all snotty about her fashion style? the few guys who do this should be shunned.
So, men want 1 thing, the woman wants 2 things. Now, since women also work, you can see the equation more like 1 versus 3 since many times the women will hold onto her money more than the man holds onto his as far as contributing in a relationship.
get a grip with the modern world! for women: size up men on how good they spend and see how much they save, not on their job and income...you gals will experience far fewer problems but you won't get as much drama and we know women love drama to be able to complain to everyone around her. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/26/2008 11:45:25 PM | Are you quoting off the Sugar Daddy site?
Maybe you should change your profile to attract a different kind of woman, or stop looking at the type of woman who asks those questions, just an idea. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 8:33:34 AM |
I can't understand why it's a females goal to know what type of cash he has or makes
Well, Shappy, rest assured that there are exceptions to the rule you apparently have encountered.
My answer to your question is this - when I was young I was told that if I don't ask I would not know the answer. Now when I'm a bit older I do know that not all aspects of someone's life need to be asked point-blank. Inquisitive mind ~ eye for details ~ sharp memory ~ sense of humour ~ subtlety in manners ... provides more answers than one would bargain for. No one gets upset, no one feels intrusion and the best of all is that both parties look forward to seeing each other again and unfolding another mystery surrounding happy bunny in happy skin. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:05:19 AM | | I really don't know how to approach this, but it seems that my luck is...there the one's I always met..So it makes me feel thats what its all about money, and I don't want to believe that. Turning 46....and the funny thing is I never care about how much a woman makes, only if she works, and having fun at it... | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:18:02 AM | "You gals really need to get out more and date more women, so you'd have a better understanding of what it's like from our side. You must be the only couple of women in the world who don't ask about such things. "
Life of Leisure, I know quite a few wealthy people. They can spot gold diggers in other countries. They know what to look for. Believe me, I have lived and quite well too. I have a few rich exes in my past.
I think the reason guys keep attracting gold diggers are due to their own SHALLOW tastes. These problems come from the same men who say and I quote, "why didn't the lady tell me I was going to Sea World before we met." Now it does not surprise me when a man who makes a statement like that ends up with a woman just as SHALLOW as he is. So maybe if a guy looked beyond appearances he would not be having this problem?
There are a lot of good women out there, but they do not look like Victoria Secret models. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 10:52:19 AM | HA! maybe you like the "gold digging" types!
i dont think ive asked those questions, but it always helps to know if the one youre interested in has a job (im no sugarmomma), a car (i have no desire to become anyones personal driver), and, living situation (if youre within my age range, and you live w your momma... can you say RED FLAG??? lol). i dont know about the "shopping" and "going out" questions tho. sounds to me youre attracted/attracting the wrong kinda chicks. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:34:30 PM |
I love posts like this. They make me realize just how atypical I am. For instance, I am going out to lunch with a male friend today (We go out every Thursday). He bought lunch last week, so I will buy this week, though he makes twice what I do.
So, here's the deal. I won't claim that all men are pigs just out for p*ssy, if you don't claim that all women are b*tches just out for a man's money.
This is one classy woman. And yes it is atypical. Any woman who is not willing to pay one way or another(if not dates a useful gift or home cooked meals or something) then she's not worth dating. You give as good as you get. Although in the case of this woman she gives better than she gets. | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:45:19 PM | I keep a chart on my email notepad listing each date and how much they spent, have regular file set up for each sugardaddy or boyfriend I have had.
The more you spend on me, the nicer I will be | |
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| Why do women put dollar amounts on everything
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:49:02 PM | Hard to make a positive comment on this, but it is clearly a priority for way too many women
When I first came on this system I listed healthcare as my profession. I got dozens of emails from women, with ever second one asking if I was a doctor (aka. $$$$). When I said no then never returned my emails. When I mentioned I do volunteer work for nothing then I got even less emails. When I changed my profession to technology almost no one contacted me, except to occasionally comment on my forum posts.
It speaks volumes. Puts me in the good, but not good enough category I guess.  | |
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