| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/16/2009 1:43:13 PM | | yes for sure. Sex is an emotional experience and more so for women so cryings not a bad thing at all. I understand but have found it different though when a women cant or wont make eye contact with you after an intense sexual experience. Its been explained that they felt embarressed becuase they felt they had no control about what they did, said and/or felt. Hmmm | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/23/2009 3:12:49 PM | | I had one girl do that. Happened every time after oral. She would flop all over the bed screaming and then settle down and just cry. When that happens, if you wipe her face with a warm wash cloth then just hold her for awhile.......Dude she won't argue with you for the rest of the week. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/25/2009 11:14:57 AM | | yes, and the first time it happened it was kinda what did I do ?? but after the first couple of times it is kinda like a big THANK YOU | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/25/2009 12:05:54 PM |
Sure has happend to me... great feeling... usually followed by laughter!
Yeah, it happened to me once... That's pretty much was just what it was like. You know sometimes you laugh so hard you end up crying? Well, that was pretty much it, except I was breathing/coming so hard. I didn't feel like they were emotional tears at all, but I did get pretty freaked out right after. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/25/2009 3:26:37 PM | UniquelyMe(d803479) on 10/21/2005 12 32 AM Subject: Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Message: Ok, I couldnt find a thread about this so here goes...
Ladies...Have you ever cried when you reached a good orgasm? Gentlemen...Has any lady you have known ever cried when they reached a good orgasm?
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/25/2009 4:30:02 PM | Yes, I have cried, sometimes not just tears, but a sob or two. Other women on this thread have spoken of it as a catharsis and for me it is something like that too. There is a dropping of boundaries in great lovemaking that is simply very intense and moving. It was never about sadness or happiness for that matter. To say it was about connection sounds too mushy but that is close. But this is why it is important to me to simply be held for a few minutes. Just hang on. Sure, take it as a big thank you.
In one long term relationship, my partner admitted he was freaked out at first, but once I explained, he got it, and then cried himself a couple of times.
Another man informed me that if it happened a lot, then that would be a problem. That was a shorter relationship. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/25/2009 4:47:54 PM | Yes that has happened to me a couple of times......wow it sure is intense!! Never had a man cry though.....hmmmmm I guess I need more practise!!  | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/26/2009 11:48:00 AM | | I have made 2 women cry , the first one dug her nails in my back so hard I still have the scars , the second one she cried then she also became a squirter after that boy could she **** hard | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 7/26/2009 12:01:42 PM | Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/21/2005 2 04 AM Yeah. I've had a few and tonite I had a new one. I uh .. squirted. I've NEVER done that b4. I made a mess .. he was pleased with himself and I was uh .. out of my friggin' mind! WOW!!
My last g/f squirted for the first time with me. talk about being in stud heavel lol  | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/6/2009 12:12:46 AM |
Ok, I couldnt find a thread about this so here goes...
Ladies...Have you ever cried when you reached a good orgasm? Gentlemen...Has any lady you have known ever cried when they reached a good orgasm?
This is excellent info to know.
For years, I have had a hard time telling if my girl friend is having an orgasm. Sometimes I could feel her quiver on my shaft, but not always. She always prefers to be a bit coy, so she will never tell me about her experiences. But she frequently cries, and I have always thought something was wrong, but she would never tell me what it was.
Now I realize it is just an intense orgasm that is manifesting in the form of tears.
One of my earlier girlfriends would orgasm in a very obvious way with uncontrollable spasms between her legs. I would not even need to have sex with her. Just making out with her for a few minutes with our clothes on and I could feel the orgasms come on strong just by pressing up against my leg. This would turn me on in a big way and my top would always blow just from feeling her very intense orgasm. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/6/2009 4:28:40 AM |
Only when I've come to and looked at who I was with.
LMAO!! Hey, you're supposed to take a long, slow drink with the eyes BEFORE you get naked, dontchya know! For you, having read many of your uniquely oblique posts, I recommend screening in a dance place, where they use a slow strobe light. Almost all of the poses and expressions you will see in that series of snapshot views will be the ones that pop up when prone and prurient. Lol Actually, no man wants to be in the same room with a woman in tears. Next time you burst into tears, watch his face. The eyes will be frantically darting high and low, scanning for the quickest exit route, while his hands are fumbling, not with you, but with his Wranglers. Even when he's pretty sure he is blameless, he knows he can still draw a flag for standing too close to the pile. Lol Yep, the tear burst, with assorted sobs. Man repellent! | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/6/2009 7:01:55 AM | | It's happened to me a few times. Both my ex and I traveled extensively for business. There were more than a few times we didn't see each other for 6+ weeks at a time! Sex with him was always emotionally fulfilling, he never seemed freaked out by my tears. I guess they just reaffirmed how I felt about him. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/7/2009 3:17:43 AM | I've observed this a few times. It is usually associated with an intense release or a series of massive O's that trigger some kind of hormonal spike. Whatever the actual cause it is cool and BTW the lover should never flee. Soft caresses, kisses and nibbles while holding her tight gets points here. It is an incredibly vulnerable time for her. Not only has the sex / orgasms been good but there is an obvious emotional release happening as well. It is truly a BONDING moment.
If a couple can have the kind of intense PIV sex that results in this - GOOD. GREAT! in fact but that is exceedingly rare for most couples and although fawking has its (obvious) merits if you want t take her to that place almost every time you make love sometimes fingers/thumbs are the best. There are things an erection just can't do. Properly stimulating her G or / and A spot are one of those things. Couples should experiment and find the hidden triggers that will rock her world EVERY TIME.
Here's a good read for those who want to make most love making sessions THIS intense all the time.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
Enjoy and keep those tears flowing!!  | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/7/2009 7:17:57 AM |
Yep, the tear burst, with assorted sobs. Man repellent!
Man repellent, sheesshh Tears just another expression of emotion.
Dave seemed to get it right.
Whatever the actual cause it is cool and BTW the lover should never flee. Soft caresses, kisses and nibbles while holding her tight gets points here. It is an incredibly vulnerable time for her. Not only has the sex / orgasms been good but there is an obvious emotional release happening as well. It is truly a BONDING moment.
Now, if a partner cries nonstop, all the time, that can be a repellent for either gender. But, bonding is a good thing, and there are some delicious ways to bond. Wouldn't want a few tears to deprive me of the ultimate bonding experience. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/7/2009 2:05:09 PM | | I can't even imagine how it's possible to cry during an orgasm. They seem to be so separate. Like eating and barfing at the same time. It's just impossible. | |
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| Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/7/2009 2:47:18 PM | I have cried on a couple of occasions after a really intense lovemaking (not just sex) session, where I had an incredible orgasm with a man I was deeply in love with. My emotions overwhelmed me, and after I came all I could do was cling to him and the tears poured. He thought he did something wrong, or had hurt me, but they were tears of joy. I happened a couple of times after that, and I can honestly say that those times were the most incredible romantic, satisfying experiences I've ever had.
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