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Posted: 10/30/2005 5:19:06 PM | Honesty is #1. a man who knows what he wants and is willing to give his all to a relationship. appriciates the little things in life and just makes you smile. a man who can make me smile is definately a winner..... you know after a long day, you come home and he says something to you that just makes you smile and feel great.  | |
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Posted: 11/7/2005 11:14:13 AM | well ladies thank you for the info
if u want to know what i am looking for go check out
what do mean want i am on page 7 and that should give u some idea
i hope everyone finds what they are looking for
Don't worry there a perfect match for everyone out there u just have to find it or have the guts to go for it
You never know unless u try
What the worst a women could say to u guys no
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Posted: 11/7/2005 7:14:14 PM | | I need a man who can make me laugh! I have yet to be attracted to a man who can't do this for me. Honesty is a biggy too. I guess you want to get what you give. Respect is the last of my top three. I don't just mean respect for me, I mean respect for everyone. If he's an azz to the waiter, cahier etc...then he's an azz period. | |
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skies
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Joined: 11/8/2005
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Posted: 11/15/2005 7:37:13 PM | OK I WILL TELL YOU WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT ----
THEY REALLY WANT A PARTNER NOT A FATHER FIGURE
THEY REALLY WANT HONESTY NOT CRUELTY(SAVING GRACE)
THEY REALLY WANT ALL THE LITTLE PERKS THAT COME WITH KNOWING THAT SPECIAL
PERSON.
THEY WANT TO BE RECOGNIZED AND HEARD ( NOT OVER LOOKED)
THEY WANT SMOOCHES AND CUDDLING
THEY WANT SECURITY ,TO KNOW YOU ARE GONNA BE THERE
THEY WANT IT ALL
***I BELIEVE EVERYONE KNOWS WHAT EVERYONE WANTS OR NEEDS BECAUSE THEY WANT IT TOO AND IF THEY SAY THEY DONT THEN THEY ARE NOT BEING HONEST WITH THEMSELVES OR THEIR TO BE PARTNER THEY ARE SEARCHING FOR WE ALL ARE SEARCHING FOR SOME FORM OF ACCEPTANCE ,I MEAN WHO WANTS TO FEEL BAD, CONFUSED OR MANIPULATED? THE QUESTION IS CAN YOU BE THE ONE TO GIVE IT OR NOT? THAT IS WHAT NEEDS TO BE ASKED*******  | |
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Posted: 11/15/2005 7:56:16 PM | From my (very) limited wisdom, I kinda think that I want someone who is an awful lot like my Dad. Trust me when I tell you that I am kicking my own behind for admitting this, but it is true. I am not speaking for all women, by any means…this is just my 2 cents worth.
I want someone who posses integrity, honesty and compassion, yet has the “balls” to call BS when I am acting like a fool. Some one who supports my endeavors/dreams and aspirations, and is cheering on the sidelines, no matter how bleak /ugly the outcome may be. Someone who will kick my ass (figuratively speaking of course) when I am dragging my feet and procrastinating and the guy will hold me up when the world makes me want to crawl. Someone - who the moment I hear his voice on any particular rotten day, instantly makes me feel better. The guy who knows that I am feeling rotten, and would sit with me in silence, just supporting me. A guy who knows when to push me, and when to just hug me. Jeesh, I am a sap! | |
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Posted: 11/15/2005 10:00:05 PM | sounds soooo simple but sooo hard to find
has a job
doesnt live at home with parents
is respectful
doesnt lie
would be just as fine on a friday night curled up on the couch with me watching a
movie together than going out getting drunk with the boys .
doesnt cheat
doesnt hit
has goals in life .
just the kinda mans man type he wont mind getting out and changing the oil in my car when its needed lol | |
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Posted: 11/15/2005 10:09:19 PM | I don't know the answer. But whoever does: Could I buy some of it?
Ramability | |
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Posted: 11/15/2005 10:33:15 PM | "chemistry is elusive sometimes and you just CAN'T EXPLAIN IT!"
Excellent analysis Paul. I have a degree in Chemistry, but it hasn't helped so far. Maybe cuz it is the wrong kind. haha.
Love all these responses. Keep it going and don't try to emulate tv relationships.!!
Read a good book called Love, Sex, and Lasting Relationships by Chip Ingram! At the risk of being preachy, I must say that I learned alot in the discussion group for this book with the couples involved. The ones raising young girls had new perspectives on how they viewed the subject!
Enough, have fun, but don't take anyone too seriously until your heart says to. | |
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Rya
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Joined: 11/12/2005
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| what do women really want
Posted: 11/16/2005 1:22:31 AM | | I want a guy that is true to himself, he has to be independant, he must have his priorities straight,he must have integrity, confidence and most importantly he has to love himself before he can love me. | |
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Posted: 11/16/2005 1:58:19 PM | Amberbrechey, you really are not asking for to much, and I really find it hard to believe
that you cannot find such a man, I for one have all of the traits that you have listed,
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Posted: 11/16/2005 8:16:50 PM | | The most important thing i look for in a guy is Faithfulness, Can he be fatefull? Is he trust worthy? And sometimes i question men... because i beleave i have a "Jerks are welcome here" stamped on my forehead that only the jerks can read because thats all i get... but i was always told and still am told good things come to those who wait so i reckon im gonna take my number and wait. | |
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marol
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Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 44 | |
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Posted: 11/18/2005 6:22:59 PM | ALL OF YOU HAVE SAID EXACTLY WHAT I DID JUST IN YOU OWN WORDS
NO ON EWILL BRING IT TO YOU MUST CHANGE YOURSELF IN ORDER TO FIND WHAT IT IS YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO GIVE .
SUCK IT UP AND DO IT INSTEAD HAVE CHOOSINF WHAT COLOR BALOON YOU WANT FOR YOUR PITY PARTY | |
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marol
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Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 46 | |
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Posted: 11/19/2005 2:35:42 PM | Hi, I'm new here and just though I'd give my 2 cents.
Ok, I'll be honest here. I know a lot of women, of all sorts, and from my experiance, what they say here, and what they really want when it comes down to it, are 2 completely different things.
I see they say they want to be respected, don't like cheaters, want an honest man to treat them right.
90% of that is bullcrap for most women.
They care about how you look and having fun. If you look good, and have fun, they feel good. Being respectful and honest won't get their attention. They'll just say "Oh aren't you sweet?" While walking out with the other guy at the bar.
Its sad but its true. So many times have I seen women, average, beautiful, or otherwise, of all sorts, turn down guys I know that would do anything in the world for them, and treat them like a queen, that are all of the things mentioned above. But because they aren't the most attractive men in the world, they allmost always get turned down.
I don't think I'm perfect by any means, but I feel that I'm above average in looks so I decided to test this theory out asking out the same women that turned down these men. I wasn't very nice, rather smuck and semi-interested. But just hinting them to come with me would get practically any single woman (and some not single) willing to come with me. Needless to say I lost a lot of respect for those women. | |
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marol
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Joined: 10/28/2005
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Posted: 11/19/2005 3:13:08 PM | | Sorry if it stings you that this has been my experiance, but it has. I'm not saying all women are like this, but I'm saying from my experiance, the vast majority have been. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2005 4:29:44 PM | Let's be honest
If that's all women want, how come I haven't got a single message over several weeks on two dating sites that I signe up?
the reason is simple, and I was told right here about it
I AM UGLY
WOMEN WANT SOMEONE WHO LOOKS GOOD.
No, not pretty, just has to look right.
Only after they like the way the guy looks, they want all the other things.
Anyway, that's my opinion. | |
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